Why are ALMOST all first loves/first relationships doomed to fail? (Page 2)
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Because you're typically young, which means you're both gonna change a lot, and your lives are likely to take you in different directions, and your attraction is largely hormone driven.
because its the first time it happens they have high expectations without knowing the other person too well, they have never experienced anything similiar before and have no idea what or how to do things.
Before it's a learning process. The first time around we are just trying to figure out what we like, and let along the other persons likes and dislikes.
Most people have their first relationships in their teens, it's not exactly a time when both parties know what they want in life.
It is just one of those things - It is like not everybody's first job is their only job - Some people are incredibly lucky and their first love turns into their life love but as you say it is rare.
Because people are still young and inexperienced. You might as well ask why people tend to lose the first game of chess of their lives.
In the beginning you don't know what you want, don't know what you are doing and don't know where your life is going.
Most of the time young people are not ready for marriage and they could have flaws that they didn't work on yet until they get older.
They aren't my brother married his highschool sweetheart. I also have a friend who got married to a girl he had been dating since middle school.
Inexperience. Inability to forgive and notice. can't compare them with previous boyfriends so you dont know what is worth forgiving and what isn't. Probably hormones too.
because most people pick relationship when their young based on physical mostly with very little care about things like morality, trust, honest that will make a relationship last. Aka you just want to have fun and fuck like rabbits.
Not enough experience to make it successful, also odds are the person won't be right for you. I believe you have to go through a decent amount of people to find "the one".
it´s like managing to perfectly ride the bike, first time you sat on one. it is "possible" but unlikely. this stuff needs learning.
First loves are like test drives. They're just not meant to last. ;)
No, I don't think it usually fails cuz I am engaged to my Future wife.
FIRST relationship, as in usually the person is too young to want to monogamously commit
The two aren't ready, or don't have a strong enough connection or aren't willing to work for it.
The reason why that happens is because none of you guys have enough experience.
You don't know what else is out there, the whole experience is new to you.
I don't think they are really much more or less doomed than the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th. Sure most first loves don't work out, but most 15th don't either.