I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend, now he calls spits in my face and calls me a worthless whore, How should I fix this is relationship? (Page 2)

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I cheated with his best friend. Actually, it was an affair drawn out over a month with 3 encounters. My boyfriend and I got into one of the worst fights of our relationship and stopped talking for 2 weeks. I told him that we needed to take it slow, but the pain he had caused me was forever lodged in my brain. The affair started Valentine's Day when I went out to a bar with my boyfriend's friends, without my boyfriend. I just needed a carefree night with people I trust. His friend started feeding me shots, followed me to the bathroom, and kissed me. He was best friends with my boyfriend, who I had told my fears about the relationship to. We slept together three times after that. I knew it was wrong, but that hour or two I spent with him made me forget about my problems. And as soon as I got in my car, the guilt and shame washed over me. I saw my boyfriend during this time period, but I refused to do anything sexual with him, saying I still needed time. The last time I saw his friend was on my boyfriend's birthday. I had brought my boyfriend out for a nice dinner, hung out with him, then went "home" when really I went to a party at his friend's house, where the rest of his friends were. When I got there, everything felt different. I was talking to the friend in the kitchen when he went in for a drunken kiss. As this was happening, one of my boyfriend's other best friends walked in and immediately walked out. I didn't want the kiss to happen. But I drank and ended up spending an hour with him afterward. The next day, my boyfriend called me. He came over and said he had found out that the friend and I had kissed. He was devastated. He went to see his friend, who then told him everything. He hates me but still loves me. He spits in my face, calls me a worthless whore, He refuses to end it with me, even though he says all these things. And I don't want to end it because I do love him more than anything. I don't trust him, he doesn't trust me, but the love is still there.

YaBaba · Answer

good luck to both you I doubt it can be fixed

jacquesvol · Answer

Some guys can pardon, others can't. If your frind has a fragile ego, he'll be too hurt to forgive.

TeeBreezy · Answer

Girl... end it! I wish a mofo would spit at me! End it and enjoy being young and carefree. This relationship is not meant to be.

Anonymous · Answer

Your boyfriend is being far to nice to you just dump him and get it over with

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck his brother. His brother will then tell him how great you are, showing him what he's missing. He'll come running back.

Rahdle · Answer

😢 Couples therapy?

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

Jerry Jerry  Jerry

Stevan7 · Answer

You are bright one.

FrenchyRomain · Answer

you can't fix it... end of story

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