My boyfriend cheated on his ex...will he cheat on me? (Page 2)

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So, when I met my boyfriend I knew that he was definitely a flawed human being. One of our first problems was, he lied about his age by a few years younger than he was and didn't come clean til after we'd been dating over 6 months. Now when I met him, I knew he fucked up in the past.. but he got involved in all these programs that he said changed him and helped him grow into a decent man, which is what he's always said he wants to be. One of his big mistakes was cheating on his ex. She was his fiancée, they lived together, he was madly in love with her.. but she had problems and did things that hurt him.. and he ended up cheating on her, which ended their relationship. Now it's been a few years between he and I and things seem to be slowly moving forward.. but I realize I don't trust him. And I can't hide it. Do you believe that a cheater can really change? Or is that an impulse that's too strong for most guys to resist? I wanna believe he's being faithful.. but a big part of me is scared that one day he'll leave me for someone else and I won't even know it :( Should I end the relationship or would that be self sabotage? Also, I have discussed this with him and he's always insisted there's no one else but me.

Anonymous · Answer

Talking from experience hun every relationships different. And your basically condemning him from his past. Until you have reason to suspect him your self sabotaging

Anonymous · Answer

I think if he can find another one who's worth to cheat on you, he will cheat on you. If he can't, he won't cheat.  Cheaters always cheat if they have chance

Ccmod · Answer

I often say the quote "if he'd leave her for you, who says he wouldn't do the same to you" and this doesn't just apply in the whole "left her for you" scenario, this goes for people who have cheated in general

singlebee · Answer

He might cheat.. But if he hasn't given you any reason then it's self sabotage

Anonymous · Answer

If he has tried to get help he knows he has a problem and he has address it let it go there is no relationship with out trust.

Drumlinebabe24 · Answer

There's a good chance he will cheat...

Ladyslipper · Answer

Yeah he will sooner or later

bigtruck93 · Answer

once a cheater always a cheater

goaded · Answer

Yes.

mostwomenshouldstfu · Answer

he's damaged

Anonymous · Answer

possible

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