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My boyfriend said he's going to the strip club ...regardless of how I feel... (Page 2)
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i would wan tto come with him...might be sort of fun lol
You don't need to leave him if he goes to a strip club. It's not like it's being unfaithful- strip clubs are strictly look but don't touch.
....under penalty of manhandling.
That's bullsh*t.... the girls rub their boobs all over the guys face and they turn upside down on his lap and rub their p*ssy in his face too with just a tiny string up her crotch - that is cheating to me. I don't put up with that sh*t and many guys I know that LOVE their girlfriend say it's f*cked up to go to a stripclub. They say "why the hell would I want someone else rubbing up on me when I can have MY girl do it?!" - guys who go do NOT love their woman.
Yeah, I don't get it... strip club just for viewing naked people, no big deal. But the biggest point of contention for most people is the lap dance, which any guy is going to get if he goes with his friends. Even if it's a 'no touch' dance, the girl is grinding her crotch on the guy's d***. That's sexual touching - you can even get off from it. And we're supposed to be ok with this?
@band_caffeine thank you. If he's being touched sexually by someone else and he's letting it happen, it's cheating. F*ck that, "boys will be boys" bullshit.
The fact that he doesn't care how you feel, is enough reason to leave him
you don't need a boyfriend who completely ignores what you say! I told my boyfriend it hurts me when he goes and he doesn't go now. We go to places like hooters lol and that's about it.
Well in some cases I agree and other cases I say that he really doesn't have to listen to everything you tell him to do. Also I think it's all about how you say it. For example I'm assuming you wouldn't follow everything your boyfriend told you to do, and I bet you wouldn't listen to him if it came in the form of him barking an order at you. Like "I forbid you" or something similar.
I didn't give my boyfriend an ultimatum. I told him that it makes me feel like sh*t when he goes. My boyfriend has asked me the same. He doesn't like me talking with some of my guy friends because he feels like they have a thing for me. So I stopped because I didn't want to hurt him. It's all about respect. I respect what bothers him and he does the same.
Not bad. Oh by the way I wasn't saying you gave him any ultimatums, I was just making a general statement. Though in your case I am yet again of two minds on the thing about your guy friends. I think he should lighten up, because it's not as if you're going to cheat on him right? On the other hand I can also understand you stepping away if you did it because their feelings made you uncomfortable, and I also think it's nice you respect him that much.
Incidentally do speak from my own personal life a little here. For example while dating my current girlfriend, I have had a couple girls tell me they had feelings for me, but I stayed friends with them anyway. My girlfriend was fine with it, as she trusted me and knew I am not a cheating type. Eventually the girls who had feelings for me got over it and it was back to business as usual. Which was good, because I hate losing a good friend.
I would never cheat on him. One of my guy friends text me one night when he was drunk saying that he had feelings for me and he apologized the next day. My boyfriend didn't like that I understand how he felt...if it was him who got a text like that...i would have been upset as well.
I think I like the way you think. Can we talk about this on the IMs or PMs?
Sure! I don't know how but sure lol
Okay.... first, it's not wrong to give someone an ultimatum because if you can't deal with something in a relationship, then you can't deal with it. You are giving them the option (their own choice) to pick which one they prefer. I would leave my boyfriend if he went to a strip club and that's my decision. It's his decision to not go and keep me or go and lose me. Anyhow... I think not talking to guy friends is fine. If you don't mind giving them up because it hurts him, just shows he means more. That's good.
I'm a firm believer in closing a dangerous door b4 anything stupid happens. I would drop all my guy friends if there was anything that made my boyfriend uncomfortable about them. I love him and want him to be comfortable with what I'm doing. After all - he's the one I'm hoping to spend my life with - not any guy friends. lol. And I wouldn't let any stranger online try to change my mind about something that's going fine in my real life relationship either. If it's working & ur happy - then that's great!
yes be very concerned!
maybe you could work it out if not drop him like hot grits!
*remember there are other guys out there who do care how you feel
dont be so controlling. guys go to strip clubs. why can't he go? because YOU DONT TRUST HIM!
you want to smother him. if you're so concerned give him a reason to stay home with you.
Leave him now, girl! If he won't give you respect, you shouldn't give him love.
Before you mess up your relationship make sure is he really doing what he said..
Leave him and find someone with better morals and respect for women
i say hunny either start workin at the club...or leave him...homeboy is tryna get that welfare vag
No you shouldn't be concerned. It's not a big deal
I think you should leave him.
go with him