I feel like my boyfriend is incest w/ his sister?

[Anonymous]

His family life is really private. His sister doesn't even have social media only Twitter which she only post ever so often on it. (she's like 20) and his parents are the same way. all his parents do is retweet stuff and they all glorify her (retweet her tweets, all her pics) I mean all of them! he isn't on Twitter but he has a fb which he never goes on. I noticed whenever we get all mushy or close and I start feeling loved he'll bring up his sister like some random thing about her. he also seems to put her before me like all the time. I never felt I came last like that in someone's life until I got with him. today I was talking about the subject incest and said I knew someone I think is doing it and wasn't direct about it cause I didn't want to make things awkward. until I mentioned id bring it to that guys parents cause they need to watch the two he was all "who are you talking about?" and then he responded with "wtf I don't do that wth u talking about?" like why does he thinks I'm talking specially about him. it makes him look guilty and it's just weird. this is my gut instinct and brain. I just find it all weird how much they glorify her and keep things so private.

[txrey79]

your are right to be concerned... seems like there are some areas that don't add up and are suspicious. the problem. I think is you may have already played your hand, and he is going to be extra careful about any future conversations involving this subject. how is sex between y'all? does he seem jealous of his sister? her with you about him? I would have tried to broach the subject neutrally... talk about game of thrones, or some other pop reference to sibling incest, (gone girl the movie is another example. ) gauge his reaction, make statements about how you find it.. "interesting". are you friendly with his sister, make innocent comments about how she looks, ... I think this would have been the Avenue to take, but I think he might be on alert and will probably be very guarded in the future..

[Anticipation]

Might be a close knit family,,,

I don't know if he is emotionally connected to you or not, which at this point is more important than suspicions you have.

Do you 2 embrace similar interests', wants' and goals? Do you 2 bicker (yell) when there is a difference of opinion and force feed one another's will on each other or do you discover compromises?

Does he seem to be into you or is he lights out nobodies home? Smile when you are happy, very sad when you are blue?

Do you 2 look into one another's eyes deep enough to see one another's heart and like what the other see's?

These are the things you and he should be talking about.

You'll know if he is right for you.

[Anonymous]

You cannot go by the lack of social media. I do not use FB, Twitter, Skype, KIK, Insta, Snap, or Whatsapp. All I use is GAG.

I think it more likely he has grown up and developed in a very closed family, and he just finds it very hard to open up. He may never be able to do that.

There may be something in what you believe might be happening, but that is not the reason I think this relationship is doomed. I think it will prove futile trying to get into this family. You would do better to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO.

[xMiaxBuerx]

Incest is wincest. jk
Honestly, I don't think you should bring that up unless you're 100% sure. I'm close with my blood brother in a non sexual but he mentions me often to his friends because we're very close... although my step brother and I mess all the time.

[peachblossomluck]

It's too soon to jump to conclusions. Don't bring it up around his parents (like anywhere they may overhear. They are probably spying on you guys anyway). My parents used to spy on us.

[HollyK21]

Sounds like his sister is just very loved by her family lol, nothing to imply incest from my understanding.

[truthbeknown]

Hmm, it's a bit of stretch to suspect incest there. Nothing wrong with keeping an eye out, but I think you need way more to go on here than what you have.

[i_love_stars]

And there's no way you can go straight out and ask him.. But from your account, it looks pretty much plausible.
The only possible way is making him accept it himself...

[maxcates]

I don't think incest is going on, but something weird sure is.

[Anonymous]

What boyfriend would not think you were talking about him?

[CheerGirl38139]

seems like you are over thinking some things.

[Bldballs]

Fuck him