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revenge feels good. it makes you feel slightly 'bad boy/girl'. However it depends a lot on certain aspects.
1. girl friends. breaking the girl code. if a girl friend breaks the girl code then end the friendship immediately. No one is worth anything after they break the girl code.
2. Your ex-boyfriend. Did this guy cheat on you? Don't sleep with his best friend, be the bigger person. Live life, enjoy. He's in the past and the future is all about you.
3. You're best friend. This one is tricky. If she did something wrong she might have had a great reason for it. Then again, she might not. But, you know that it's hard to let go. After all, you're best friends. This is one person you never take revenge on because they've been with you through thick and thin. At first distance yourself from her, and then see how things turn out.
I think it's very important to understand your own body... this is natural... when you are aggressive... along with aderaline, there's an increase in testosterone too. I know males hormone but we have it too... just 1/5th of it... anyways.. these hormone are responsible for us to give punishment to people who have been bad.
but once this peak subside and you reach the normal level of oxytocin which was inhibited by that spike...
you regret. .
it's Normal to feel this... however... if you don't want to do rash things again.
keep your oxytocin levels up... keep hugging 😐😐 and whatever your sense of charity is...
I know weird... but that's her body works...
I've never actively tried to get revenge on someone... but I would assume that it would be only a temporary satisfaction. It may feel good right after you do it but then you'll realize that it was pointless and didn't really help anything. I think trying to get revenge on someone ultimately only hurts yourself. If someone does you wrong, it's better for your own peace of mind to just let it go. Don't keep spreading the negativity by trying to get revenge, that just stops you from being able to move on.
I only take revenge if the person fulfills two criteria:
A - They drew first blood.
B - They had every intention to hurt me. Premeditated and all.
If they fulfill these two criteria, then yes, I can honestly say there has never been a time where revenge didn't feel GREAT.
People say you should turn the other cheek, and to that I completely disagree. You should only turn your cheek to people who DESERVE it. One of the biggest reasons bad people get away with some of the things they do is because good people are always forgiving them. I always take time out of my day to teach a valuable lesson, even if said lesson has to turn ugly for a second.
Short term, yes
Long term, no.
Also, you can lose a hell of a lot more doing so.
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To be honest, I've never really tried to take revenge. I just say to myself. "7Don't waste your energy. They're not worth your time. What goes around comes back around anyway.. "
So I just move on. 🙂
It depends on how you get it. If you get your revenge by hurting that other person intentionally, then Yea... you'll feel guilty. But if you just do your thing and prove to him/her that you are actually better than them, then they feel bad about what they did to you. You will feel pretty damn good :)
Honestly I think it's a waist of energy that's focused on someone that obviously doesn't deserve it. We have this need to punish people for hurting or betraying us but honestly I think it stings more when you just walk away and go about living your fabulous life without them.
Depends where it's coming from. If you get revenge for the exact person of getting them back, then generally it won't make you feel better outside of fulfilling the urge to get revenge. But if you get revenge, because that action is the right thing to do then it will make you feel better. Like if someone were to pick on you, starting a fight and then you kick his ass.
If he starts a fight with you and you kick his ass, then you start a fight with him later on that won't make you feel better. But if you just kick his ass the first time. In a way that is revenge, but the reason is different and coming from a different place.
I like getting indirect revenge.
Like, imagine a time where someone put you down, or tried to make you feel less-than. If you use that as motivation to win at life, then that's honestly the best revenge.
Right or wrong, I get a massive rush from proving people wrong. It feels like revenge to me.
I almost never seek revenge, however there was someone in a position of authority in the company I used to work for, who did something anti-social that affected my job. Simply because she didn't like a woman who worked at my facility, she caused my facility some issues. It was difficult to resolve the problem because of her position in the company.
I ended up leaving the company, because it was time to go. Pissed off as I was, I sent her a "Manuregram" that you can order off the internet. It is like $30 and they'll send the person a container of horse or cow manure anonymously. Too bad she lived in a different state and I couldn't see her open it.
Other than that, I am not into revenge. LOL
Indians have a saying. If you are seeking revenge from your foe, dig two graves. one for him and one for you. thats the result of revenge.
Revenge is a temporary fix, depending upon what it is you're seeking the revenge on. I'd rather let Karma kick in. Karma is a Motherfu****! I knew a guy who killed this other guy and the dudes brother wanted to and was going to kill the guy who killed his brother. Before he could do anything, the guy was shot in a botched burglary! Karma!
learn to let go!!
leave short term or long term... thats bullshit
it's your fuckin life not some sort of an agreement. Ooh you did bad to me, now I'll take revenge !! this process will go on and on... so learn to let go !!
you'll feel good and remember karma is a bitch... believe it or not at the end of the day what goes around comes around!!
cheers 😊
To be honest not really for the short term maybe it does but for the long term I end up feeling bad about it and I apologize
I personally am not a person who gets revenge on people cause I believe at some point in everyone's lives if they've done something wrong to another person they will pay for it one way or the other. Either way the answer is clear
Short term-Yea
Long term-No
I have trained myself to not take any revenge. It hurts a lot at that moment, but in the long run, it is always good. Time heals all wounds. But time does not heal regret. You can only forget it temporarily, and you will be reminded of it again when you see that person.
Not at all. I'm a strong believer in karma so I just let it be and move on with my life. As you get older and responsibilities start to pile up, you'll soon begin to realize that you can't afford to lose yourself in pointless BS. There is no point in wasting your time and energy on something or someone that will impact you negatively
Getting revenge just isn't the mature thing to do. Makes you look like a petty bitch. The best revenge is to move on and delve yourself into something that will bring you success.
I was raised to pick my battles wisely. I like to let Karma do her thing. But sometimes I have let my anger get the best of me and intervened with Karma. Luckily the people who I've been mean to still loved me. even though I didn't deserve their love for being a bitch.
People will do what they do, revenge will never mend anything. Just live your life and move on. Drop those people who cause stress, anxiety or if they aren't willing to make time for you. Life is much easier if you keep good people around you and revenge is never the answer. It will only make things drag on, its better to just forget about the people who "deserve it" and don't worry too much about them.
I like getting even revenge is more of a child like mind set also revenge is malicious getting even means you're at the same plane level and letting the person know you can meet them on the same level they met you on and there's also no join Revenge because you hurt innocent people in the long run that nothing to do with it
keeping a thought of revenge is harmful for us only. it may effect others r may not be. but it will defnitely goin to effect on ourself n keep us low n anger about ourself always. so my opinion is u shld nt think about revenge. Jus ignore such thing n move ahead.
I like the more subtle revenge. Like my new boyfriend ended up being the manager where my ex works. And i think its funny.
To be clear, my ex tends to be self employed most of the time but for some reason got a job. My boyfriend changed jobs and ended up being his manager.
A little bit in the short term. It can give you a moment of happiness.
Yes
and after that
like a few moments later, I'd feel bad about it..
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