I think you should prioritize your son, as a mother. I know it's hard when you already found the perfect guy. But, remember, this is your son. You can get any man like him later.. but, once your son's heartbreaking or he thinks you don't care about him, the truth is, you lost him a little by little. Trust me.
Seeing a mother with someone new, which is not his father, might be so hard for him. I think you should be there for him, makes him understand. Maybe, he can't yet accept there's someone new enter the family. Maybe, someday he will. Or, he gets a sense if that man is not the one for you and him. Please, prioritize your son. Listen to his opinion.
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Honestly, this doesn't sound like anything that can't be fixed. How old is your son? Are your man and your child both getting enough quality, one on one attention with you? What sort of things does he get onto him for? Can't you agree on things and be consistent with punishment rather than grounding off and on constantly? Would you consider couples counseling to help you get on the same page? I understand your concern but unless this is something that can't be compromised on, I don't think it's worth throwing away a 4 year relationship with no effort.
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Honestly, your son comes first. My stepson and stepdaughter are always first for my husband and I know this. What I'd do is set some ground rules. Your boyfriend can help parent but he needs limits. Pointing out every little thing is going to cause resentment with your son. Not every tiny infraction needs punishment. You're Mom, you decide what he's punished for, not your boyfriend unless he's legally adopted your son. Good luck.
You should definitely leave him, he's trying to assert his dominance and Authority wayyy too much. Your son will probably wind up resenting you if you stay with him.
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