Thoughts on age gap relationships? (Page 2)

[pap911]

I think age is just a number. I personally love a girl 23 years my junior. Her brother keeps talking her out of it though.

[Rissyanne]

What does he say to her?

[pap911]

@Rissyanne , he just keeps saying that his opinion is that one should stick within your age group (he does this on a constant basis, especially when he sees that she is opening her heart to me)... problem is her family are very close so everytime he says something she backs off to think...

[Rissyanne]

Well I just think about things in the future. I have a good friend he was in his 20s and his wife was in her 40s when they got married. Now he is in his 50s and she is in her 70s. She has dementia and he is her caregiver. He said though that they have not been intimate in over 15 years. I know when you get married it is for better or worse. But he is miserable... that is why I wouldn't be with anyone more than 5 years older than me. My boyfriend is 2 years older than me.

[pap911]

Noted, however I have seen young couples go through illness challenges way more severe than most older couples.

[Rissyanne]

Yes I know but the chances are far greater that she will be your caregiver at relatively young age... if this is a long term relationship. I would think about her. She could be changing your diapers when she is in her 40s.

[pap911]

Thank you for your view.

[Iamaguy4real]

The older one will be the more mature one while the younger one will be the wild one.

[AlwaysBelieving]

For me personally, no more than 14 years younger than me.

[Anonymous]

I've always found myself relating better to younger girls. If you click you click.

[girlconfuseddotcom]

If you are happy and he is happy then go for it

[Katelynstephens]

age honestly doesn't matter, if you guys click then go for it

[Anonymous]

15 years older is the difference between my parents. I don't think it was a good idea

[Rissyanne]

Is one of them a caregiver to the other one?

[Want2Know2]

I think they're perfectly fine.

[LifeEqualsLove]

Stick to guys your own age

[Flower-petal]

I'd go 10 years either way

[VooDooBooDoo]

Dang that's a big age gap though

[realworld2017]

Who cares if both parties are over 18.

[KevinGreyster23]

After 18, age gap doesn't matter for me.

[getfragged1]

Age is just a number

[Anonymous]

love knows no age