Ladies would you get pregnant on purpose to "Trap" your S/O. And guys how would you react if your girlfriend did this to you? (Page 2)
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Hell no. That shit traps girls more than guys.
What do you mean?
That the guy will be out of there really fast and then you r stuck with a kid?
A kid changes everything for a woman. Our chemistry, our bodies, our minds. Even if the guy does stick around, if he isn't the right one having his kid could damn you to playing pretend for life. Cause who wants to be the one to walk out on a "happy family".
This is actually true. Yes it’s very unfair to the guy, but it doesn’t actually trap him. He can still leave the relationship. He is trapped in parenthood though, but it’s easier for him to escape that than it is for the mom, unless she terminated the pregnancy.
A woman has complete control once pregnant. Even if she doesn’t want to get an abortion, many countries allow newborns to be abandoned no questions asked. Guys on the other hand are stuck with whatever the woman wants. Him wanting to be a father can't stop her from aborting his baby. And if he doesn't want to be a parent, but the woman does, the man is still financially responsible for the next two decades
Abandoned? You mean given up for adoption. Probably better than murder.
I’m mimicking the language written into the law. In new york its called the “abandoned infant protection act”
Well that is probably a law I will see in just as poor a light as you do. My point still has validity though. Any woman having a baby to secure a relationship with a man actually damns herself aswell because that is not the right way to enter the commitment of creating a life. And if you are a woman of any conscious that baby will change you and tie you down to its needs before yours. Which will be much harder to bear without a good male partner that you count on.
I definitely think that is real
a lot of women do this to trap her bed partner.
Not a lot. Especially if they are smart enough hmm look at the girls comments
I read comments from women here. The reality is even young women have babies for two reasons. They get money and force a relationship on a man. Many women already know this.
I'm sorry to say this but it's kind of..-I don't want to it- I guess it's the reality that it happens not that I approve of it cause it won't really lead into a happy relationship if you are just there for the baby. They may get the stability yes those types of women. Thankfully not everyone is like that cause if you become pregnant in this age or if you are young, pretty much meant responsibility, possibility of giving up on school -you'll rely more on the guy and that's not pretty-, a lot of people would think you are a uhm slut... they'll say a lot of bad things about you, you don't really get a good reputation for it. So they should be smart enough to know the cons and what they are getting into. No offense but my family might disown me if that happens, not that I do it.
@GeminiHa The guys don't know that their gfs did this. They honestly think it happen naturally when it really didn't. But yes its messed up.
You make some good points. Your right about not everyone is that way.
no, i wouldn't go through the trouble
Yes I would
okay then.. lol