How would you feel if your partner did a secret loyalty test on you?

[Miruu]

Your boy/girlfriend hired somebody to flirt with you and test your loyalty.
You will somehow find about it.
How would you feel?
Is it ok?
Would you feel betrayed?

Would you consider doing a secret loyalty test with your partner too?

[simonqq]

I'd leave her. I find it rather disturbing just as much as I think provocation for crime is. If there is a problem in the relationship I want to know about it so we can discuss it and find ways to solve it or move on. I'm a jealous type myself and might be scared that she will cheat but I will keep my insecurities to myself as much as I can and I will trust my partner.

[themaskedx]

First of all you must have passed it because you seem angry about it look I believe in trust a lot of people are not it's hard to trust without proof but if he has to test you he shouldn't deserve you forgive him that once and tell him that if he does that again don't even waste his or your time saying IAM sorry because without total trust you have no relationship

[Miruu]

Nope never have been in a relationship. Thanks for the answer tho

[Anonymous]

I would never do a secret loyalty test.

Anyone who knows me would know that it would be a waste on me and i would hope that any partner of mine would not only know me well enough but trust me enough to never consider it.
That said , I would feel annoyed and disappointed and it would definitely prompt a serious look into a relationship.

[Kolibri]

I would not feel really bad... Just kinda upset? To know that my partner had to do that since they didn't trust me enough...
It is okay though, totally valid.
I wouldn't, but I'd feel upset about the lack of trust.

And yeah, I'd do it with a boyfriend or girlfriend if I had suspicions

[witherwing]

If it was something that was filmed and publicly shown to people, I'd be kinda flattered, because it felt like he would trust me enough not to make us both look stupid. But if was just a private thing between us, I'd be a bit offended that they didn't trust me.

[avertYoureyes]

I wouldn't care because I have nothing to hide lol. Test meeee.

[Miruu]

Haha way to go

[avertYoureyes]

Thanks! It's sad how proud I am of my loyalty haha

[Logorithim]

I wouldn't do something like this to her, but I'd laugh about it if she tried something like that with me because I wouldn't cheat.

[FinalVow]

I guess if you are super insecure then it could be okay. I think it is kind of funny though because all this really does is show what kind of person you are dating. A boy or a man. A girl or a woman. Problem is that if I were to have this done I would not only not flirt back I would fail at talking to them period lol Good luck and best regards

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't like that at all because it's a sign that your partner doesn't trust you. But if he did do it he'll find out that I am loyal. Other guys to me that flirt with me when I'm taken kinda creep me out. They should let me be if they know I'm taken. I stay with the person I'm with as long as I can and love him with all my heart. But yeah, I would feel betrayed and mad if my boyfriend did that. I'm currently taken and been with my partner for a year now.

[doflamingo457]

he has a choose to do it still

[MLGbreezy]

I mean most definitely the to catch a cheater series is fake but still, . unless we were having some kind of issue in the relationship I don't see why they would do this

[Miruu]

I know. Just used the image to support my question

[MLGbreezy]

It's cool

[Lavinnykins]

Considering there's a lot of insecurity and worries my other half has about our relationship, I think he'd realise that in truth, I don't even look at anyone else. I'll laugh and joke with everyone and anyone but let them anywhere near me? Good luck!

[winterfox10]

I would feel betrayed, but more importantly I would wonder why she felt she could not trust me in the first place

[Miruu]

Kinda true 🤷🏿‍♀️

[mimimi77]

Maybe a little bit hurt because he doesn't trust me that much and that I'm not doing enough for him to trust me. I will probably also consider doing a loyalty test to my partner

[Arthur_YCN]

It depends on many factors such as how long has the relationship gone, how she goes about it, etc.
But in general:
-Not suspect a thing.
-Kind of hurt if she made the test try push it past flirting.

[Goochbreaker]

If we are actually together and haven't just been on one or two dates then I wouldn't mind at all lol in fact I'd always be thinking everything is a test anyway because that's how my paranoid mind works

[ausmaster]

Not at all, because honestly it would mean there's a lack of trust and that you need to test it. Its undisputable that mine does trust me. You dont need to test.

[Alex31]

Don't be mad at him. It's understandable especially in relationships which haven't been tested by life yet. Do the same.

[TwinCKI]

I would instantly dump them. Why do they have to be playing games with me instead of just asking me, I have nothing to hide.

[Lovemycountryboy7778]

I would feel ok because I have nothing to hide and Hell No I won't cheat on my boyfriend at all... I love him to pieces

[cflr0227]

I wouldn't like that they trusted me so little, and no I have no reason to do such a test

[heavygear40k]

Test me over and over and it's not testing my loyalty. It's testing my patience. That would be grounds for avoiding that relationship. It would be over immediately.

[TheUglyMonk]

If she didn't trust me, she shouldn't have agreed to dating me.

[TGFH-Satan]

I'd feel fine. I'd actaully want her too do it, just to prove it.

[Anonymous]

I actually want my wife to test my loyalty. Girls have flirted with me left right and centre and I've always been loyal to her because I love her to pieces. I think my wife already knows how loyal I am to her...

[ravedave]

That's some psycho mind game bullshit. I'd break up with anyone who tried to do that kinds nonsense

[Bennoir]

I'd be like the dude that broke up with his girlfriend because of it.