So what if someone can come off as caring and loving if they for example beat you behind the closed doors? This is one of the dumbest quotes of them all. We all can bee good or evil and when choosing a partner we all go for the one with the least flaws. The only thing this quote is, is a shitty excuse for having flaws.
Why would you give someone your worst? I mean sure you shouldn't just blow someone off just because they aren't at their best 100% of the time, but i would rather try to be my best for that person as much as possible if i really care about them
that is something only a person that does not want to bring anything else but shit into a relationship, has absurd requests that expects the other to fulfill and tries to find a lame excuse when questioned about their iffy behaviour.
I agree because being with someone means you’ll be there for them through the bad and good. If their worst it really bad, you just shouldn’t be with them
That's a very immature, juvenile concept, and something that people tell themselves as a blatant attempt to excuse their shitty behavior when then behave shittily. It's stupid, in other words.
We all have bad days where it feels like the world is against you and emotions flare up its important for me to know my partner can handle that and everything that comes with it , if you are just dating for the good parts you aren't seeing the whole person and all their flaws and weaknesses
I find this is something weak women often say to justify their shitty behaviour towards someone, usually a man they are seeing. I have never heard a man say this in my 31 years on this earth.
Shouting , being blame on when i not do any thing. Nothing to with my boyfriend. it my family. older sister act like a bitch and she think i am her daughter but i am not. both sisters agree on anything that her me into trouble.
My sister blame for nothing and i only been a good girl never a bitch and only been loyal and my mum broke my trust more then once. she always take side with two sister that are bitches. older one is more bitchy. i play on my video games most of the time and it what keep me happy and seeing my boyfriend.
Why do you limit the worst to the bad behavior? Maybe by the "worst" the quote means that if a person is sick, depressed, insecure etc? Basically at a low point in life. If you are in a relationship, people should stick together through the tough times to celebrate the good times.
Ok people makes that mistake and i have learn from my mistake. i start dating because not many people in my family only love a little bit and. i just wanted peace but all i got was argue
@Chiper91 I interpret "worst" to mean bad behavior because of the phrasing of the quote. If it said "If you can't SUPPORT me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best," I'd see it more your way.
Absolutely, relationships can't be just about the good times, that would be a fantasy.
It's also why divorce is so common, sure marriage is easy when you are both happy and times are good. It's a lot harder when you are both at your worst.
Honestly depends what the "worst" is. If it's mental or health problems, insecurities, or that kind of things, then yes I totally agree. But if it's being abusive and mean for no reason, then no.
Disagree. Nobody has to handle you at your worst. You should never do that to someone - make them be with you at your worst. If they want to be there, that's fine, it's even great, but you never know how your worst influences others.
While that is important in a relationship, I feel like having that attitude will push people away. Everyone has bad days, weeks, months, etc... but sometimes people leave just to give you some space. It’s not that they can’t handle you, but more along the lines of giving you time for yourself
Agree. Because we're all human and I can't be all smiles and joyful all the time. People have their own set of problems. And get upset. So obviously if peopke can't bandke you at your worst, they don't deserve u at your best
Not asshole not killed any. Always stay loyal and i got used more then once. been cheated on twice in the past. My older sister is more asshole she's always put blame on me and my little sister always agree with her. i never done any thing wrong and i try to stand but turn into shouting and I a agruing.
It's the truth. I have had relationships where if my migraines were not being a constant pain for me my SO at the time was around a lot. But when they got worse she didn't want to be around me.
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True. Show me your worst, and I'll dump your ass in a second.
Not because l CAN'T handle it, but because l WON'T tolerate it.
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This is never used in the context of going through bad times. Its ALWAYS used in the vein of "when I'm being an out-of-control bitch".
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So what if someone can come off as caring and loving if they for example beat you behind the closed doors? This is one of the dumbest quotes of them all. We all can bee good or evil and when choosing a partner we all go for the one with the least flaws. The only thing this quote is, is a shitty excuse for having flaws.
I agreen that's what love is about.
If you disagree, end the relationship.
THAT SAID, we should all work on improving ourselves so that are worst gets increasingly less so.
Why would you give someone your worst? I mean sure you shouldn't just blow someone off just because they aren't at their best 100% of the time, but i would rather try to be my best for that person as much as possible if i really care about them
that is something only a person that does not want to bring anything else but shit into a relationship, has absurd requests that expects the other to fulfill and tries to find a lame excuse when questioned about their iffy behaviour.
I agree because being with someone means you’ll be there for them through the bad and good. If their worst it really bad, you just shouldn’t be with them
That's a very immature, juvenile concept, and something that people tell themselves as a blatant attempt to excuse their shitty behavior when then behave shittily. It's stupid, in other words.
Well said.
My two sister are immature one it older she act like a a fucking bitch. she always shoot and scream at me when i not done anything wrong.
We all have bad days where it feels like the world is against you and emotions flare up its important for me to know my partner can handle that and everything that comes with it , if you are just dating for the good parts you aren't seeing the whole person and all their flaws and weaknesses
I find this is something weak women often say to justify their shitty behaviour towards someone, usually a man they are seeing. I have never heard a man say this in my 31 years on this earth.
what if your worst is terrible, awful, etc? like abusive or worse
i understand the sentiment. but i don't we can take it too literally across the board
Shouting , being blame on when i not do any thing. Nothing to with my boyfriend. it my family. older sister act like a bitch and she think i am her daughter but i am not. both sisters agree on anything that her me into trouble.
Nothing to do with my boyfriend.
It sounds like a way to excuse being a bitch to your SO. Your best shouldn't be a reward for tolerating your bad behavior.
Well put
My sister blame for nothing and i only been a good girl never a bitch and only been loyal and my mum broke my trust more then once. she always take side with two sister that are bitches. older one is more bitchy. i play on my video games most of the time and it what keep me happy and seeing my boyfriend.
Never been a fucking bitch to my so or never will be.
Why do you limit the worst to the bad behavior? Maybe by the "worst" the quote means that if a person is sick, depressed, insecure etc? Basically at a low point in life. If you are in a relationship, people should stick together through the tough times to celebrate the good times.
It not my boyfriend and my boyfriend makes me more happy then my family. not about boyfriend.
@CandacePerry I actually replied to Steve37 for his comment. Apologies if you thought I replied to you.
Ok people makes that mistake and i have learn from my mistake. i start dating because not many people in my family only love a little bit and. i just wanted peace but all i got was argue
@Chiper91 I interpret "worst" to mean bad behavior because of the phrasing of the quote. If it said "If you can't SUPPORT me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best," I'd see it more your way.
@Steve37 same. Well noted.
Absolutely, relationships can't be just about the good times, that would be a fantasy.
It's also why divorce is so common, sure marriage is easy when you are both happy and times are good. It's a lot harder when you are both at your worst.
How is this one “if you are a total bitch, I’m not going to bother saying around long enough to see you on a good day?”
Honestly depends what the "worst" is. If it's mental or health problems, insecurities, or that kind of things, then yes I totally agree. But if it's being abusive and mean for no reason, then no.
Disagree. Nobody has to handle you at your worst. You should never do that to someone - make them be with you at your worst. If they want to be there, that's fine, it's even great, but you never know how your worst influences others.
While that is important in a relationship, I feel like having that attitude will push people away. Everyone has bad days, weeks, months, etc... but sometimes people leave just to give you some space. It’s not that they can’t handle you, but more along the lines of giving you time for yourself
Agree. Because we're all human and I can't be all smiles and joyful all the time. People have their own set of problems. And get upset. So obviously if peopke can't bandke you at your worst, they don't deserve u at your best
As a quote it's just a way to justify being an arsehole haha
Whoever made that up must've been a right dickhead
Pinterest lolz.
Haha got a downvote
Someone's in a shitty mood. :P Poor their partner.
Not really, I don't like the notion that a person being a psycho makes you the asshole for not being able to deal with them.
Yes!!!
Not asshole not killed any. Always stay loyal and i got used more then once. been cheated on twice in the past. My older sister is more asshole she's always put blame on me and my little sister always agree with her. i never done any thing wrong and i try to stand but turn into shouting and I a agruing.
It's the truth. I have had relationships where if my migraines were not being a constant pain for me my SO at the time was around a lot. But when they got worse she didn't want to be around me.
True. Show me your worst, and I'll dump your ass in a second.
Not because l CAN'T handle it, but because l WON'T tolerate it.
This is never used in the context of going through bad times. Its ALWAYS used in the vein of "when I'm being an out-of-control bitch".
Yea, maybe.
If she's going through tough times, I'm understanding, patient, supportive, and comforting.
If she's at her worst for no damn reason, I'm out. It shows lack of maturity and strength.