Why are men so romantic in the beginning? (Page 2)

Question

Why do they change?

kitty71 · Answer

Because everything in the beginning is all rosey, perfect and problems free then all of that dissipates

MlleCake · Answer

Laziness, feeling like less of a need to woo, boredom, complacency, not wanting to waste money on unnecessary things like flowers and expensive meals.

Nishonen · Answer

a lot of guys aren't but some women find them so attractive anything they do or say is romantic at first

winterfox10 · Answer

Because we want to impress you in the beginning, but after that we just kinda lose our drive. Many times girls won't put much effort into relationships any way, so we get tired of doing all the work.

lernulo · Answer

At the beginning nature drugs us to make with us everything she wants.
When it pass, only real love remains which is more calm but its a lot harder.
Question is are you ready to real love or you prefer the romantic and drugged love?

Lance1965 · Answer

Like most things in life it becomes predictable. There are only so many ways you can say and do the same things over and over again before you lose the energy for it.

Plus most relationships turn stale after a while anyway. That is a part of life.

IndyChris · Answer

The true romantics and gentlemen do not change. The users do not either, really, they just act romantic. Plus, of a woman gives a man what he wants too soon or easily why bother keeping it up if you're not that way in the first place?

jirwin7979 · Answer

i dont know to be honest nothing or no one will ever change me iam very rare and a true keeper if a girl wants me

JustinDoen · Answer

Because guys get comfortable around you, and don't feel the need to "get*" you. Which tends to be a good thing because he trusts you and knows love exists. *get you to like him

K1011 · Answer

Who really loves will be romantic forever and won't change...

IsoUser · Answer

Most actual men, never change. For Me it's the little things, I always try and do, I prepare meals twice a week always something different, LAST week was steak auto paucity, I got brandy wrong, Husband Loved It, OMG so good

bijbee · Answer

First, they want to have you. When they have you the job is done.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you consider the possibility that you may have changed as well? I think that. Initially when woman and a man decide to date , there is a pressure to make a good impression. But , because this is not their normal behavior , it is short lived and eventually, they show their true colors. This can be disappointing /shocking etc. or it can what you have been looking for all along; comfortable / familiar etc. Try just being your self without the pretense. See how that works for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Basically they try a bit of everything and sees what sticks. When they find something they thinks works. They repeat it. Again. And again. And again...

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz their main focus is getting you in the sack. Power to the Hoof

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Well once you get the cow, you don't need to put on airs about wanting the milk

valualty · Answer

Because most of women put on this "too stuck up" act in the beginning and by the time you get to know them, you realise how unecessary and silly that act was...

egykimo · Answer

Because they focus in the beginning on getting girls amazed by them

bongopudding · Answer

Get complacent and no longer interested in impressing you

Moakmeister · Answer

I took psychology and the reality is that both genders do this. When a couple are young and newlywed, for years afterward they are very passionate and wild in their love for each other. As they age, they become more like close friends.

Cosytoasty · Answer

Usually that’s what it takes to get her to sleep with us.

dulce_candy · Answer

Simply becuse they want all your attention on them they don't want another guy being on your mind untill well you end up together things can change they don't find other guys as threts since they pretty much have you all to them

ROCKS128 · Answer

Coz at later stage we realise how our girl is totally (which will be different from expected), sometimes we start feeling bored.

ronaldo75 · Answer

Because in the beginning women don't show their emotional train wreck bitch little girl difficult side. That makes it easy for us to be nice and romantic. It's hard to be romantic to a cunt.

glanscover · Answer

i think guys react to the situations put into by females, such as playing one guy as competition with another male. Myself, I would recognize it fo what it was and let her have her other male. Way too much game playing.

Steven71 · Answer

Me personally I stay romantic. To keep the woman who I might be with extremely interested and happy.

kaka6669 · Answer

because every new thing is like an adveture but after a while then , the fimiliarity comes to be the issue. And to remain like he was need a back up theory which has eliminated through bogus and self made theories.

dolemite68 · Answer

Cuz we find out what the girl is actually like over time 😂

crispy87 · Answer

We want to impress women we like so we work hard to be our best selves. Once the relationship gets going, is less about getting your attention and more about getting to know each other. Think of it as a kind of "peakocking".

prithivi102 · Answer

They are learning about ur like and don't they show more for u in starting simply it's new for them

AJforthewin · Answer

Usually if you find yourself with a guy that is still romantic after one year of dating then:

1. He's obsessed with you to a point where he's too clingy aka. whipped, and is a complete turn off.

2. He's gay & doesn't know it.

EmoWithASnake · Answer

Cause a lot and most I've found only wanna fuck and could gives less than a fuck about me or how I end up after.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

not all guys do but most do cuz they figure they won the girl they want no need to try so hard any more

saud1998 · Answer

They’re romantic I’m the beginning because they’re trying to get what they want. After they have it they don’t feel the need to be romantic anymore

yoozername · Answer

We're not romantic. Romance only exits in the head the woman. But if you have noticed a change, it's probably because you were giving us lots of sex in the beginning... and now you're not.

hamzaell · Answer

It’s not that they stop being romantic. It’s just that they think that after a certain period, they have proven their dedication and loyalty, so there is no need to continue with the gestures... etc

Anonymous · Answer

All that sexual buildup and tension for those moments of climax and cumming. Then as we way there feeling good pleasure thoughts slowly dissipate. Mission accomplished.

Sha84 · Answer

first score is magical moment then becomes routine and boring

Dzokson00 · Answer

people are different, because you were with a guy that changed it doesn't mean "they all change"

Anonymous · Answer

Romance only works when it's new. You use up all the material and then it's pretty slow going. Why do women care if it slows down? Why can't you just be chill and comfortable in the relationship?

Jbush69 · Answer

Because sometimes it becomes overwhelming to be the only person being romantic.

abubakarijaz · Answer

Coz they really love his partner  They never change... but if they change than the reason behind that is they not getting proper attention or love their partner...

Ruben2937 · Answer

I think its about keeping ur relationship active and also giving space and doing something back for them. With me if i receive after i did something I'm always willing to something back

Anonymous · Answer

They want you to be impressed then they show their true colors :/

LeeOndricek · Answer

Some don't some try their damndest to be that way the whole time but some get caught up in normality and get used to being together and don't care anymore

ENTP_EMO · Answer

Nah you dated a "nice guy"

gclark2708 · Answer

People get too comfortable and feel they don't have to try as hard

Lovvyyy · Answer

I don't think they change. They just get comfortable if you let them do so.

clampfan101 · Answer

First impressions, maybe? Personally, I’d start with friendship.

BigJake · Answer

Because men are programmed by God Almighty to go after new, to spread our seed like the bull elk.

A-man-22 · Answer

If we had the same level of romanticism every day you would get used to it and be bored eventually.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Why are women so loving and appreciative in the beginning?

DamnMan · Answer

We trying to get that pussy. I thought that was obvious.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women act not crazy and actually interested in sex at the beginning... You do what you know the other person wants to get them interested.

red324 · Answer

Why do you not care as much for your car after owning it for 4 or 5 years?

abubakarslim · Answer

Because when you first meet people you se the representation of them not the real person

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Because they work to make the lady theirs, and then maybe the chase was better than the catch..

torwulf · Answer

Some guys fake it in the beginning because they're acting how they think you want.

Anonymous · Answer

Women won't be with them otherwise and being romantic is exhausting

donald-dix · Answer

I feel like they feel the need to show their best qualities in the beginning and just lose the feeling that they need to impress you as time goes on.

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