Was my boyfriend flirting with her? Should I be worried? (Page 2)
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He was just being nice, giving compliment. Take it easy.
But he said "you look stunning"
And
"Keep being sexy"
Thats flirting?
@Asker sometimes its the truth. she may be sexy for a woman with 3 kids. He didn't say nice rack or ass.
All I got from this is that you are controlling and insecure. You made him unfriend her, you interrogated her and him all because you feel like it crossed the line when in actuality it was a harmless compliment. The only problem here is you and how you reacted.
My god you are both stupid and crazy. He was showing off to a girl who ignored him in highschool, now she is a single mother and he is higher value now. Granted he is immature. But you are looking at his texts , making copies and messaging this woman. You broke trust. You are the one who deserves to be dumped. Shame on you.
She wasn't looking at his texts. those were comments on Instagram. It was on a public site.
So the fuck what, means he has nothing to hide. He is a show off douchebag and she is crazy.
she's crazy for making sure nothing was happening between them after he was flirting with her?
She exhibits classic jealousy and paranoia.
Well, he was flirting with someone so, I would be paranoid too. I would have just dumped him actually. He seems immature.
He was showboating. Never said she shouldn't dumo him. I said they were both fucking stupid.
He broke trust for flirting with another woman. I fail to see how she broke it. She wasn't looking through his texts.
If you cannot flirt in a relationship, then that is an unhealthy relationship. He also did it publically, so either he is stupid or it meant nothing. She clearly has no trust to begine with. Stop being a white knight and defending her just because she is a woman.
Uh no. Nobody should be flirting. I would say the same if a girl was flirting.
You're saying if people can't flirt with other people in a relationship, then its unhealthy? I got news for you, most people dont want their partner flirting with other people. And no, It's unhealthy to flirt with other people when you're in a relationship. I dont flirt with other people because I'm loyal to my partner only. Unless you and your partner discussed it being okay, then dont do it.
Eh... I wasn’t thinking much about it till I read the word “sexy”. Yeah, it’s good you checked your dude. Maybe he didn’t really see it as flirting but he kinda crossed a line.
the main issue is that you sent her a message. you obviously have issues with your relationship. work on being more at ease and confident in yourself
I think he's just trying to compliment her so she feels good about herself after having kids, I wouldn't worry x
He complimented her but didn't do anything else. It doesn't seem like you need to worry about it. He is with you, not with her. Forcing him to delete her on his social media was likely an overreaction - a boyfriend / girlfriend should never tell you who not to be friends with.
Also she is taken.
I would be pissed if my boyfriend did that. We both know what boundaries not to cross in our relationship and that's one of them.
Let him know your thoughts on what he did, tell him u didn’t appreciate it etc. and if he does it again. Leave him
I don't think he was flirting. He was complimenting what could have been a an old friend if he has never done anything to break your trust then he deserves your trust
He was defo flirting in the second comment that’s obvious but you handled it well and he still loves you it seems
Lol @ handled it well
I think he was just being nice. But youve known him for a year, whereas this is literally the only information we have. Is he not like this with everyone/all girls?
Making him break contact with an old friend was a bad move though. Because now his friends won't like you. They dont want you pulling him away from everyone just because your scared of him cheating.
If he is cheating on you. He dont love you, and he will find a way to escape your isolation.
Theyre not even close friends
They hardly talk
Ok well whats he like around everyone else?
Damn I'm glad that I'm not your boyfriend.. He just made her a compliment
Wow immediately talked to her about it. No he wasn't flirting with her. Plus she is a mother of three. That's a big nope for him. Personally I think u overreacted. Not being rude just being blunt. Was just a compliment.
I don't know but it was a lot of winking emojis in there
he's just giving his former classmate a compliment, not a big deal
He's just catching up with a friend, don't worry about it
Guys tend to talk like these to girls, especially if that have confidence... No worries
I just can't believe you messaged the girl that is so embarrassing lol. obviously, if she's. Mother of 3 she has someone in her life.
Nothing is wrong with him complementing other women especially if he knew her for highscool. I think it was harmless and git nothing to worry about