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Engage in conversation with him.
Try and talk about what things you like.
And rejection is not always welcomed.
If you said no then try to explain him the reason.
If he's mature he'll understand and try to make it better or dicuss it.
If not then time to say goodbye
Give him the silent treatment in return. It seems like he has no respect for you and takes you for granted, so give him some attitude to make him realize what he’s doing
You're at a good point as it is, in my opinion. If he truly is only interested in sex I wouldn't expect gratitude from anything else. From my experience as well, it isn't always a pleasing thing to hear any sentence start and end with "I don't want to... with you."
He needs to learn how to respect how you feel if he can't you need to leave his ass. I can see he is the controlling type.
If anyone does that to me I flat out tell them that they better get used to being silent because I don't play that shit and will not chase them.
He is a bit immature. But I think you hurt his feelings. Write him that you are sorry if you offending him, that you’ll try to understand him better next time etc. But then do not chase him, cause I sense he will make you pay that for a loooong time.
He sounds like a horny child who whines a lot when he doesn't get what we wants. Not worth your time love.
The silent treatment is childish - consider it a red flag, this may simply not be a match.
OTOH, you're a PITA. Consider just dumping him, try again.
I completely agree with debi2622. He sounds very immature. But give him one last chance to prove he's a grown man not a child.
Give him an ultimatum and try to talk, if he can't understand you then tell him to go fuck himself. But depending on how much you are pissed off just break up
Try not to worry have you tried talking to him if so and you still are getting the silent treatment don't worry show no concern as he's being an idiot by treating you like this x x x
Sounds like he's not serious. That you're basically a booty call. Take away the one thing he wants and he throws a fit? Please. Ignore him back. Hell come crawling back if he wants too. Or he will move on.
Sounds like someone I dated and unfortunately now have to live with. I think these people are extreme narcissists with huge personal problems. In the case of the person I know, they have a messed up family and childhood. However, that doesn't excuse this behaviour at all. I'm being forced through the silent treatment right now simply because I asked him to show me more respect by not insulting me in my face. The nerve...
He's dumb, but I wish my girlfriend would want sex... we hangout, go to movies, hike, travel locally, and I'm always put down with anything sexual. I'm constantly horny, but the rejection has always made me more aggressive and angry but it's still hasn't worked out for me.
It sounds like there are absolutely no other activities when you're together but having sex. If that's the case then it falls on both sides, he's immature and you enabled that action. But that's contingent on other unknowns like how long have you been a couple? But using what you posted, he is immature and you should not waste your time
Sounds like you are both acting like children. There's obvious incompatibilities between the two of you. Break up and move on with your lives.
Hmm, call his bluff. He wants to have sex all the time?
*challenge accepted*
if he doesn't deliver, you can take an educated guess on the other things he'd supposedly do.
I think its weird that woman think guys should be oaky when they are always rejecting sex with their boy friends, but when they guy does it they get all kinds of pissed
She said she doesn't want it all the time, that doesn't mean she doesn't want sex at all.
@kaskas19 I understand that, but my comment still stands. he rejects her a few times and she snaps at him
He was doing it out of spite and "revenge"- for back of better word.
You sound fuckin arrogant. Do you want him to pursue you? Lol. You are doing the mindgame here. Seems like neither of you want each other
HAHA brutal honest
It sounds like you two need counselling. Mainly him from the sound of it. You should not have to have sex if you don't want to. Either leave him or get professional help.