I was never able to experience dating a guy who was your friend first. I always wanted to because it seems like an unstoppable relationship. You know each other so well as friends and as lovers.
I rarely had guy friends but never felt attracted to them.
Most of my relationships so far developed out of a friendship, my boyfriend now included. So basically, the last three options would be correct for me since I'm still good friends with one of my exes but drifted apart with other two (we still got eachother on facebook but thats it).
I did but I don't think he was aware even after I made him aware but he's was either blind or didn't want to outright say he wasn't interested and now the roles have reversed years later coz we've reconnected and I think he has some feelings and I have moved on and only see him as a friend coz I had to accept that's all I'd ever be to him and have emotionally moved on
I hate being friend-zoned so I never reveal my true feelings, even if I develop any in the first place Either be an friends with benefits, relationship material or just stay the f away from me by being just an acquaintance I don't have time for silly romantic games, just cut to the chase
I had a great female friend who had a great connection with me I had feelings for her but i couldn't tell her i did as she was a great friend my feelings dissipated... which I thought was gods as i liked having a female friend who had loads in common with we.. for me it was platonic and I liked and enjoyed that more just being her friend
I always crush on guys who make me feel good and who look after me. That’s why friendships with men are my weak spot. After a week or two I want to nurture them and take care of them as a girlfriend. And when they are taken that brings problems :-(
voted g. we met randomly at a concert. over the course of a year became really close friends. i started catching feelings about 10 months in and told her when we were on a trip. we dated for nearly 2 years
We're still friends. I asked for a date and to catch up on things a few years back , didn't know she was seeing someone and ended up marrying him and moved to Texas. I had feelings for her back in middle/high school but I was a bit shy to express said feelings to her.
Yes, I have developed a sexual or romantic interest in someone who was already a friend. I revealed my feelings to them, they were interested, we started dating, and we developed a great romantic relationship
Yes that is how my friends with benefits came to be. We were talking one day and we both realized we both wanted the same thing so we went for it. So far, so good.
Yes that is very possible but we are taking it slow. I have rushed into too many serious relationships in the past. I am not going to make that mistake again.
Bro, it happens all the time, with both girls and boys. When you spend time with a cool guy/girl a lot, and he/she is attractive on top of that too, there is nothing you can do about it. It just happens.
I had a fleeting fancy for a guy friend. I brought it up to him in a roundabout kind of way, and he said he doesn’t see a girl in a romantic way once he becomes friends with her.
My best friend has been the love of my life we have had feelings for 11 years before acting on them don’t give up and take the plunge you won’t lose them as a friend forever they will always be there no matter break up because true best friends will make it through thick and thin
I developed a sexual interest with a fiend of both myself and my husband, well not a real close friend, we developed a threesome together which is still ongoing
I said G - Entered and in a relationship with a very good friend - The relationship only started at end of July so early days - My point is that you do feel wary of it but It had got to the stage where we were a couple in everything except romantic affection and sex - It was funny looking back but our interaction was dripping in romantic/sexual tension - We were friends so a bit wary, I think acquaintances would have bit the bullet a lot sooner and broached the subject
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I was never able to experience dating a guy who was your friend first. I always wanted to because it seems like an unstoppable relationship. You know each other so well as friends and as lovers.
I rarely had guy friends but never felt attracted to them.
Most of my relationships so far developed out of a friendship, my boyfriend now included.
So basically, the last three options would be correct for me since I'm still good friends with one of my exes but drifted apart with other two (we still got eachother on facebook but thats it).
I did but I don't think he was aware even after I made him aware but he's was either blind or didn't want to outright say he wasn't interested and now the roles have reversed years later coz we've reconnected and I think he has some feelings and I have moved on and only see him as a friend coz I had to accept that's all I'd ever be to him and have emotionally moved on
Yeah, I did let her know, we dated and it was great but ultimately we are not together now.
I can only speak for myself but I’m glad that we tried. I’m happy for the time we had and nothing lasts forever.
I choose to smile when I think of what we experienced rather than focus on the fact that it ended.
That’s just me and my opinion though.
I hate being friend-zoned so I never reveal my true feelings, even if I develop any in the first place
Either be an friends with benefits, relationship material or just stay the f away from me by being just an acquaintance
I don't have time for silly romantic games, just cut to the chase
I had a great female friend who had a great connection with me I had feelings for her but i couldn't tell her i did as she was a great friend my feelings dissipated... which I thought was gods as i liked having a female friend who had loads in common with we.. for me it was platonic and I liked and enjoyed that more just being her friend
I always crush on guys who make me feel good and who look after me. That’s why friendships with men are my weak spot. After a week or two I want to nurture them and take care of them as a girlfriend. And when they are taken that brings problems :-(
At least you have some awareness of what you are doing!
Yeah but usually it’s painful and I force myself to avoid them because I don’t want to interrupt in the relationship :-)
As you get more experience, you will become more protective of yourself.
voted g. we met randomly at a concert. over the course of a year became really close friends. i started catching feelings about 10 months in and told her when we were on a trip. we dated for nearly 2 years
We're still friends.
I asked for a date and to catch up on things a few years back , didn't know she was seeing someone and ended up marrying him and moved to Texas. I had feelings for her back in middle/high school but I was a bit shy to express said feelings to her.
My husband and I were casual friends for several years before we started dating.
I think it is always worth taking a chance on pursuing a romance with a friend.
Yes, I have developed a sexual or romantic interest in someone who was already a friend. I revealed my feelings to them, they were interested, we started dating, and we developed a great romantic relationship
Yes that is how my friends with benefits came to be. We were talking one day and we both realized we both wanted the same thing so we went for it. So far, so good.
Do you think it will become more than FWB?
Yes that is very possible but we are taking it slow. I have rushed into too many serious relationships in the past. I am not going to make that mistake again.
Experience is a bitch of an effective teacher, ain't it?
Yes it is.
Bro, it happens all the time, with both girls and boys. When you spend time with a cool guy/girl a lot, and he/she is attractive on top of that too, there is nothing you can do about it. It just happens.
I had a fleeting fancy for a guy friend. I brought it up to him in a roundabout kind of way, and he said he doesn’t see a girl in a romantic way once he becomes friends with her.
Nope, as the virgin king I don't develop those sorts of feelings
One day, you will abdicate the throne!
Never!
You should never say never. . . or you should never say never most of the time. :)
My best friend has been the love of my life we have had feelings for 11 years before acting on them don’t give up and take the plunge you won’t lose them as a friend forever they will always be there no matter break up because true best friends will make it through thick and thin
I developed a sexual interest with a fiend of both myself and my husband, well not a real close friend, we developed a threesome together which is still ongoing
I said G - Entered and in a relationship with a very good friend - The relationship only started at end of July so early days - My point is that you do feel wary of it but It had got to the stage where we were a couple in everything except romantic affection and sex - It was funny looking back but our interaction was dripping in romantic/sexual tension - We were friends so a bit wary, I think acquaintances would have bit the bullet a lot sooner and broached the subject
Ya kinda. And to be honest we didn’t do anything. Just got a little close. One or twice. Nothing super sexual. Maybe kissing and touching.
To be honest nothing changed. We just never did again. And went back to being friends
Lol. All depends how panicky one gets. If you are cool and easy breezy. Things just work either way
Yes! it has happened to me a lot growing up to be honest. I'd always develop crushes on girls who were already close friends of mine!