How do you deal with a guy who is guarded? (Page 2)

[jake1230]

I think he just needs to know how much you care. Constantly tell him you are there for him and he will eventually start opening up. It will be slow but it will work.

[Anonymous]

Both. Guys tend to open up on their terms so you gotta be patient and wait but you shouldn't stop trying.

[Luke______]

If he responds within 5 minutes he absolutely wants sth from you...

[niceguyantonio]

Yeah he's probably doesn't want to expose himself and you'll think he's weak or something.

[Jltakk]

I was told this a couple of times. Ehh.. is my reaction

[ConfusedEye]

Just ask if you can talk about and see what he wants

[neurolove]

He's keeping you on some back burner it seems.

[Asker]

That is my biggest fear but yet he has already changed sooo many things that we have talked about. Like if I tell him I don't like that he does blank... he will change it. If he upsets me he's always the one to reach out to me & will apologize. So I'm so confused. He is very guarded though... he tries to come off as an asshole just to throw people off... but deep down he's not & he knows I know that.

[neurolove]

He may have deep seeded issues from his past. Hard to say.

[StickStickity13]

You can't, you just wait until he does

[skateordiesv]

Use a trojan horse and sneak in past his guard

[CoffeeWC]

You just gotta keep trying.

[RIVERTAY888]

How do you deal with a girl that is very guarded

[Anonymous]

Get bigger guards than his

[Asker]

I am already pretty guarded myself!