Why do people get so possessive and insecure in relationships? (Page 2)

[FunkyColdMedina11]

Fear that your feelings aren't reciprocated, that you aren't good enough

[MarlonBrandoOrNot]

If it means a lot there's always a fear of losing someone you care about

[LonelyGuy87]

I guess because people are unfaithful. If you don't keep your eye on your girl she could be getting with other guys.

[Ellie-V]

It’s not your responsibility to maintain another persons sense of self control

[LonelyGuy87]

True but girls are always on the lookout for an upgrade on their boyfriend.

[Ellie-V]

That’s not correct.
Also there’s such thing as evolving. As a person grows into something else, they usually want to find like minded people who have also grown in similar ways.

[Ellie-V]

Sometimes that means leaving certain people behind

[LonelyGuy87]

I think girls will get bored of ANY guy, no matter how great he is. Girls want fun, exciting and dramatic lives, no?

[Ellie-V]

If that’s what you think then it must be true

[Jackieboi]

Because theyre afraid of losing what they have

[taleswapper]

Because they think that's what a relationship is.

[fahit]

Most of the time because of insecurities

[100lbguy]

That what scares me of having a relationship

[twerkingonsatan]

Because I hate myself

[OpenWine]

you must be very social then

[Aysev]

Maybe theyve been hurt before

[CoffeeWC]

Because they don't trust their partner

[legalboxers]

they feel the need to be controlled

[julianawoooo]

Just the way things are

[Ceramic_bloke]

Because they care?

[RandyOliver]

Fear of losing them

[SouthernGirl23]

Bc they're insecure

[Sagar1233]

Because of sex