You know if she's best friends with this person for a long time and known each other for awhile, there isn't anything wrong with hanging out once a week. You're just too insecure or probably jealous. I don't know about that weird rule of not letting her come here or whatever but don't mind it much. I have no idea what else you seem bothered by the friend unless you explain a full reasoning of the tea like if you and her dislike each other then we'll figure something out
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Ouch! When I read that I get the deep sense that there's a good god damn reason you don't want her hanging out with her... and no, I'm not hinting at attention whore wanting more attention reasons.
Is she pushing her to talk, dance, maybe end up cheating with dudes? ... in clubs/bars for instance? It starts out with stupid shopping trips, but turns into tourist destinations and all nighter clubbing?
I'd dump you if you told me I couldn't see my best friend if we were dating. That would cross so many lines and set off all my red flags. You're her partner, not her whole life, and if she's your's then you're probably developing toxic codependency issues.
There is nothing you can do about. Her bestfriend was there before you and will continue to be. Make it work with her bestfriend dont be an asshole. The more you push and demand her to cut tides the more she will sneak around to see her.
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I see the guy I'm dating a few times a month because our schedules don't line up. I have night shifts, he has day shifts, I work Saturday nights too usually. The only day we both have free is Sunday... and that's if I don't work a night shift on that day! :( I see my best friends once a month.
How often do you see your girlfriend? How long has she known her best friend? Does the girl know you dislike her? What would you like the outcome to be?Tbh I gotta agree with you on that.
I wouldn’t want my husband to go out with a girl every week. And well, my man also has a key to this girls apartment.
I’m sure he wouldn’t like me to have the keys of my friends house either.
If you are a lesbian and she has this close friend (a female) and she is so insistent to see her, I’d also raise an eyebrow.
Talk to her and tell her that this friendship she has is making you very uncomfortable.Nothing you can and should do. It's their best friend if you like it or not. Your girlfriend is not your proverty. You can't decide for her and she can be friends with whoever she wants. They were probably longer friends than you and your girlfriend are a thing. They have history and a connection.
To be honest, if you'd been my boyfriend I'd dump you the second you'd tried to forbid me to be with my best friend. Who are you to forbid her who he can socialize with or even to set up rules how often she should be "allowed" to see a friend?
Seeing a friend once a week isn't excessive. Your in danger of ruining your relationship over something insignificant. Deal with it
Why don’t you like her? Plus you have no right in telling her who she can or cannot see or be friends with, don’t be so controlling you’re just gonna drive her away from you.
So you no longer have to see or be around her yet that still is not enough. I'd say the problem lies within you.
You should try to accept the best-friend cause you’re just making things hard for your girlfriend right now. Hope she doesn’t dump you cause of that!
Girl, you need to learn how to love yourself that way you don’t let the insecurities take over and make you lose someone you care for.
Deal with it, it’s her friend, you can’t do anything about it
I never see my best friend once a week? We just don’t have the time for it. Why does she ‘have’ to see her every week? Lol. It’s not really necessary...
Just be polite. That's all you owe ANYBODY.
And you get to CHOOSE to engage. Otherwise you're under no obligation to be around her.Drop your girlfriend and her best friend. Your the man. You give her the ring. You provide the experience. You are the head not the tail. Success and failure will depend on you. If someone gives you bad vibes trust your gut.
What are you talking about girlfriend? You ain't a guy.
She her friend if you can’t trust her you don’t need to be with her. Plus you moved in with her how long they been friends?
Jesus fucking Christ ypure you're immature.
No, there isn't unless you want to lose your girlfriend.
Houston we have another toxic anon
that's pretty immature.
Deal with it. It's her BEST friend.
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