When you think of your crushes, the early and most substantial ones in life, do you still feel the same feelings? Can you identify those feelings?
Are they feelings of love (longing to be with), lust (desire for sex), friendship... still there? Or were they feelings of infatuation... they come and went?
For e, say of all these years, when I think back to the early crushes I had, my feelings are the same. Once they ignite, they don't die out. This is most true if I never got to know them at a personal level. I also have these feelings for prior GF's... as in, relationship may not work, but my feelings don't go bad for them, I still see them in their special light. I realized, I don't disconnect very well at an emotional level, I may be different.
Would it bother you if your GF/BF (committed) expressed there were still positive thoughts/feelings for past relationships? Feelings as in... I see them for their value to, positives, not that they intend to or want to go back.
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No, lol. I just laugh/giggle everytime I think of those days. I was only 6-7 year old shy girl who had a crush on a small boy named Rohit. I actually talked to other kids but the moment I used to see him, my cheek flushed and my tongue didn't seem to work. All I could do was nod and shake my head if he asked me anything and I used to look at him secretly but the moment he caught me looking at him, I just used to look down and he used to try to hide the fact that he was looking at me when I was writing in my book lol. Our hands accidentally touched when the teacher made us sit together at the class, I used to get scared. Now I just laugh at myself. It was one of the most funniest experience for me. 😂
I don't have feelings for him at all. It was merely a crush and we were kids. It's just a funny /sweet memory for me now, I've shared this with my ex even he smiled and found it funny and he shared about his.
that's real cute. I'd call that infatuation... early feelings of chemistry/connection in a mind not yet formed. Ty for sharing the sweet memory. I wish we could ask him:)
No, I'm pretty sure it was a crush I used to think about him a lot 😳 lol
Oops, I meant shy boy**
And you're welcome :)
Thank you for MHO!