Good looking young women love older men (who have money, decent looks, somewhat fit, and confident) otherwise they don’t like old men. Trust me. I’m a doctor
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Older men are more settled, unhurried and tender lovers
but it doesn't make any sense though. If you are willing to grow old with someone, then why not start dating someone who's 23 if you love them? you're telling me that as a 40 year old man, the only women you'll be dating will be 18-22? yikes. better start digging the gold if you wanna keep attracting them.
@DianaWest in my opinion 22 is the cut off. Usually girls that make the best wives and mothers are married by that age. The ones that aren't, are not going to make the best wives and mothers. So i want to grow old with someone who is awesome. Love is really irrelevant, if someones a great wife and mother i wouldn't be able to not be in love with them. Someone who isn't that great i could never love.
But your point about making money to get gold diggers is so wrong. You think that. There are sweet innocent good hearted women who wouldn't even have that thought cross their mind. Thats who im interested in, girls like that.
@bamesjond0069 okay, i respect that. you can live your life how you want. but it's a bit extreme to expect all 22-year-old married women to make "good wives." most women at that age need to establish a stable career, ensure a steady income, before settling down, buying a home, and having a child. how is a 22-year-old ready to start a family when they're barely out of college? not saying it can't happen, but your expectations are high.
@DianaWest why do they need a career? One of the best things about an age difference is at my age i make a good stable income. I dont need a second income. There are women who have no interest in a career and would love to just have kids and be a very involved mom. Thats the kind of girls i date.
@DianaWest not all 22 year old and younger wives are good wives but all the best ones are part of that group. And when i say best i say most fertility, least sexual history. There's more to it than that but those two factors drive benefits other than the obvious.
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It's true for some women, but false for others. Everyone has their own preference. You'd have to ask the specific woman you're talking to about it.
I would say that depends on the woman. But generally women do look for older rather than younger i've noticed.
In my experience it seems that girls 18 to 24 are more interested in me now at my current age than they were before.
yeah, the gold diggers.
One to seven years older. More than that and I find it weird.
Maybe but the older women sure like to play mommy-with-benefits with me.
It's true for basically all of them. Just depends on how much older.
For the most part it's true, for a lot of reasons. Do you know what they are?
Cuz they can buy drugs and alcohol?
@MoneyBeets - Well, guessing from the photo above I don't think that's relevant.
Any other guesses?
Cocaine and wine
Women like guys that can provide, that just usually means older guys.
Good looking young women love older men (who have money, decent looks, somewhat fit, and confident) otherwise they don’t like old men. Trust me. I’m a doctor
Older men are more settled, unhurried and tender lovers
I think the confidence and the independance is what attracts them
Generally this holds true now and throughout history
Could be for some women. But i like guys around my age.
Depends on their age. To say all women do is false. But it’s never that much older.
Hey why’d you dislike the truth? By the way at your age? Most women don’t like older guys lmao
Generally they prefer older, however, my mom, married a younger man (she's 63, he's 62)
Im 32 and never dated someone older than 22 in my life so id say yes yes yes.
wow. so once your bae turns 23, she expires according to you?
@DianaWest no. I never started dating someone older than 22. I dont care if they get older than 22. Lol thats ridiculous.
but it doesn't make any sense though. If you are willing to grow old with someone, then why not start dating someone who's 23 if you love them? you're telling me that as a 40 year old man, the only women you'll be dating will be 18-22? yikes. better start digging the gold if you wanna keep attracting them.
@DianaWest in my opinion 22 is the cut off. Usually girls that make the best wives and mothers are married by that age. The ones that aren't, are not going to make the best wives and mothers. So i want to grow old with someone who is awesome. Love is really irrelevant, if someones a great wife and mother i wouldn't be able to not be in love with them. Someone who isn't that great i could never love.
But your point about making money to get gold diggers is so wrong. You think that. There are sweet innocent good hearted women who wouldn't even have that thought cross their mind. Thats who im interested in, girls like that.
@bamesjond0069 okay, i respect that. you can live your life how you want. but it's a bit extreme to expect all 22-year-old married women to make "good wives." most women at that age need to establish a stable career, ensure a steady income, before settling down, buying a home, and having a child. how is a 22-year-old ready to start a family when they're barely out of college? not saying it can't happen, but your expectations are high.
@DianaWest why do they need a career? One of the best things about an age difference is at my age i make a good stable income. I dont need a second income. There are women who have no interest in a career and would love to just have kids and be a very involved mom. Thats the kind of girls i date.
@DianaWest not all 22 year old and younger wives are good wives but all the best ones are part of that group. And when i say best i say most fertility, least sexual history. There's more to it than that but those two factors drive benefits other than the obvious.
Yes it's definitely true just as much as we love younger girls so works for us both
Hardwired to be like that and men prefers younger women
No I prefer guys my age
I already have a dad and a brother
ha ha
I know I don't
It seems I'm into younger guys actually (based on my dating past) 😄