One would need to see the video footage of the body language involved in the conversation you had with the other guy. Was the other guy attractive? tall? flirtatious?
Well, would you want him to forgive you for a screw up that you owned up to or would you want him to kick you to the curb for making one mistake? That should answer the question.
This is a great way of looking at it, thank you so much! I guess if it was the other way round then I would want him to forgive me because I still love them and it was a mistake. Thanks for your advice😊
he's obviously a dumb drunk. If he makes this mistake again you should leave him, but you won't because I've seen many girls stay and it always get worse
This is helpful thanks. Yeah I mean I hope I’m not in that position. IF he does do it again to the extent he has done it will definitely be the last time I accept it. Thanks 😊
Your boyfriend needs to go to AA. He doesn't seem to know there is a proper time to drink, which is not at a wedding. If he can't judge that he shouldn't get near alcohol.
Sure. Everyone has their moments. His was just under the spot light. He seems to have shown remorse and even apologized to your friends. That takes a lot.
If he only gets jealous while drunk I think its okay cause he's drunk. But if he's jealous while he's sober then I think that is a issue that you guys must resolve. and see whether its forgiveable.
I guess I shouldn’t feel embarrassed but he really was embarrassing on the night, but I know he was drunk and wouldn’t embarrass me when he’s sober. We’ll have to see 😊
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One would need to see the video footage of the body language involved in the conversation you had with the other guy. Was the other guy attractive? tall? flirtatious?
I definitely did not flirt with the other guy, nor was he attractive to me. I can see why you have suggested this but it wasn’t like that :)
Well, would you want him to forgive you for a screw up that you owned up to or would you want him to kick you to the curb for making one mistake? That should answer the question.
This is a great way of looking at it, thank you so much! I guess if it was the other way round then I would want him to forgive me because I still love them and it was a mistake. Thanks for your advice😊
Not a problem.
he's obviously a dumb drunk. If he makes this mistake again you should leave him, but you won't because I've seen many girls stay and it always get worse
This is helpful thanks. Yeah I mean I hope I’m not in that position. IF he does do it again to the extent he has done it will definitely be the last time I accept it. Thanks 😊
Your boyfriend needs to go to AA. He doesn't seem to know there is a proper time to drink, which is not at a wedding. If he can't judge that he shouldn't get near alcohol.
Who doesn't drink at a wedding?
@alexxela42 But not to excess. This is supposed to be a time to be remembered, not one to regret asking some certain people to the wedding.
If he is a guy you really like then yeah give him a second chance espessily if this was a first time think and not a continuous issue
Thank you for your advice :)
It doesn't sound that bad. The important part is his intentions were in the right place.
I guess so yeah. Thanks, think at the time if just seemed a bit extreme
It usually does
You should forgive him with a promise to not to drink
Okay great advice, thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊
Sure. Everyone has their moments. His was just under the spot light. He seems to have shown remorse and even apologized to your friends. That takes a lot.
That’s true, thanks for your advice :)
Sounds like an isolated incident, if he generally doesn't behave this way I would forgive him
No, YOU embarrassed yourself. Quit blaming everything on somebody else.
You're lucky he didn't just tell you to fuck off and leave you there.
Just give him another chance
Thank you for your answer 😊
If this is not his normal behavior and is a one-off, then you should probably forgive but make sure he knows it won't be tolerated again.
We all make mistakes, we're only human.
That’s true. I guess if I made a mistake depending what it was I’d expect to be forgiven or at least given a second chance, thanks :)
If he only gets jealous while drunk I think its okay cause he's drunk. But if he's jealous while he's sober then I think that is a issue that you guys must resolve. and see whether its forgiveable.
People make mistakes, just think of how you would want him to forgive you if you make one
Forgive him
Thank you for your answer 😊
You are welcome :)
If you're embarrassed by your boyfriend, you're probably with the wrong guy
I guess I shouldn’t feel embarrassed but he really was embarrassing on the night, but I know he was drunk and wouldn’t embarrass me when he’s sober. We’ll have to see 😊
Like I said, if you feel embarrassed by a boyfriend, you're likely with the wrong guy
Definitely forgive him once.
Play it hard girl
I'd dump you asap.