What's the problem with being too available in a relationship? (Page 2)
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I think my role is to serve my women so yes i am available
Yeah, that's basically how I feel. I want to be there for her when she needs me. I want to be her everything.
There is no problem with guys but for a woman , they will make a guys life hell discussing the things which are not important in their relationship.
If you're with the right person, there is no problem with it. That's what love should be like.
I don’t have a problem with that.
It’s annoying that some women seem annoyed by this.
It is clear the partner that is too available has no life, is dependent/clingy/suffocating, and would never survive independently.
The flip side of that is, the person who is available is available for their love interest, NOT for everybody in the big blue. They make time to be available for that person. They have other obligations, etc., but they take care of them while making sure SO is top priority. I would hope SO does the same for me.
@Screenwriter Exactly. I take time for her because she matters to me. If I didn't love her then I wouldn't care.
Nothing, I wish somebody would be with me and be always available
You could end up confusing boredom with affection.
There are chances of being taken for granted.
You get taken for granted
It may give the impression that one is desperate.
Relationship What dat?
People take advantage of you...
It feels like you don't have any life
You get taken advantage of.
You may be seen as clingy or obsessed.
Nothing if you're with the right person
They take you for granted
You are not a" rockstar" anymore.🙄
More availability makes relation boring
complacency