Will u still text your ex if you miss him/her?

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Like u will just put your pride aside, and text him/her "I miss you". Despite the fact that they are the one who initiate the break up and it kinda end in a bad way

For me, I really want to say whatever I want as long as that person is alive. Like saying "I miss you" or "I care for you" while we both are still alive.

I mean I've read too many stories where a person regret not saying anything, and then suddenly the person they care is dead.

But well, consider case above, which one is better? "Regret not saying the I miss you" or "regret not keeping your pride and just don't say it, they are ex after all"?

tallandsweet · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the guy, if he came across as generally needy and initiated the breakup he is likely to enjoy hearing from you again.

However, if he is an emotionally stable and mature person who initiated the breakup you will come off as incredibly needy if you tell him that you miss him.

If you initiated the breakup, some guys will think you want to get back together, and others may feel disgusted at your comment.

Look at your options and decide for yourself, but while at my age the accepted level of humiliation is quite high, I feel like you may have to raise the bar a bit and accept that if you want to feel worthy you should not chase after someone who broke up with YOU.
If you feel like he is "the one that got away", tell him. If you feel like you can deal with not telling him, don't, and be proud at yourself while doing so.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

If they initiated the break up, they’re probably already aware you miss them. Just try to focus on your life and move on.

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

I used to. But not anymore. I had to learn that they are an ex for a reason and life moves on. We can all cherish memories and I know at the time we loved and cared for each other. But an ex means no more communication and the feelings fade away.

LeoElias · Accepted Answer

I've never missed an ex. I missed talking to someone but I've never actually missed anything related to them. I have always been happy to end things. Always felt like a weight lifting off of me.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Oh god... tbh no.

But this hits a nerve for me cause my recent ex tries getting my attention by randomly texting me this bs yet her other actions prove that I’m nothing more than a fall back option to her

Jrockit98 · Answer

Absolutely not, an ex is an ex for a reason. Learn the lesson you were meant to learn and move on

Ken201 · Answer

For me it was saying it. Tried it twice both ended differently but badly.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I do not miss exes. Which zero to do with pride and more to do with moving on without them.

Tylenol · Answer

Hard as it is, most people agree that the best thing to do is to not communicate with your ex unless you have to. It will get easier with time and eventually someone or something else will fill the hole in your heart. Stay strong!

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

It depends on the person and why you broke up with them. Do you miss him

OddBeMe · Answer

I do sometimes and talk old times. Never a booty call tho.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

NO! Being done proves to be quite comfortable after the 4th or 5th time..

amconfused · Answer

Nooooooo... I forget her

On_cloud_wine · Answer

I’m very closed off regarding my feelings.

Anonymous · Answer

No, they are an ex for a reason

doctorANnis · Answer

Maybe

commander53 · Answer

No never

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