I’ve been seeing a man for 1 1/2 years and recently a woman came to my door looking for someone with my first name but a different last name. I told him and he said oh that’s my girlfriend I’m so sorry. Then decided to tell me he knows I’m in love with him and isn’t in love with me and is going to give his relationship a chance for one year and see what happens. I never went to his house because of his kids there. We were not super serious but we talked for hours a day via text and phone. I’ve known him for 4 years and had no clue. He coached my son and nobody else ever knew he had a girlfriend. She never came around. So how do I handle this. My heart is broken. I actually love him and I’m in shock.
You handle it like a unbothered fool, cause honestly how well could you have known him within 1 1/2 you didn't realize something was off. You should just cut ties, no words needed and work on your ability to be a SO & the things needed to have a relationship.
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Been through something similar, wish I had any advice for you, but I'm still reeling from the blow myself.
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Not much you can do you have to move on as he clearly don't care about you so that's literally your only choice
You're what's called the 'backup plan', or the 'door mat'. It's amazing you'll go there voluntarily.
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Leave that sorry bastard. He makes us loyal and faithful guys look like shit
Easy, you cut him out of your life.
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