Are most people just hypocrites about cheating? (Page 2)

[nathanp97]

I don't think they are being hypocritical. I'd assume those that cheat understand why they cheated and what it means, so when someone they love does it they know why, and it hurts.

[Rajdlk]

Humans are such people they talk about being wise but are not wise themselves we talk about peace and go to war , we talk about justice and do injustice so in general terms we are hypocrites

[xaneyy6]

We are not in the same category. Speak on behalf of yourself. You are not a mouth peace for others , so don’t talk about how “we” are hypocrites. A sheep can’t speak for a wolf. What you said about war well , as long as we live in this accursed world we will never know peace.

[Rajdlk]

What about a wolf in sheep's clothing

[Sensmind]

Tough call, I don't have stats to give a full answer but I am 50 and never cheated or went with anyone who was cheating - I can only judge by my own personal experience

[NightFlirt]

I think most people are yes. If I have the urge to cheat on my partner, I will talk to them about the possibility of swinging so that they can have a little fun as well.

[LoU_Hades]

Not all people. Cheaters are specific kind of people who use the pronoun 'I' very often with emphasis on positive things and 'we' and 'you' on negative ones.

[Perhaps]

No. I have never cheated in a long-term relationship. It's emotionally impossible for me having sex with someone else when I'm committed to a partner. I'm completely promiscuous outside relationships.

[R4vedave]

"Most people" lmao, citations? "Most" people aren't cheaters.

[R4vedave]

Ahhh I misunderstood your post, my bad. Yeah, the people who excuse that behavior is almost as shitty as the person who cheats in my opinion.

[Asker]

It's also shocking how many people have been with a person that had a partner or spouse, but see themselves as innocent.
It's complicated, but in reality none of us are as innocent as we claim.

[meesegoMoo]

@Asker Amen to that last claim. Motes and beams.

[StafJ]

No excuse for cheating. If you don't feel good in a relationship, end it yourselves and not by cheating. I've never been cheated on cuz I'm only 16 but I can tell, my friends get cheated on sometimes and it's devastating to see them like that.

[DiscomfortZone]

No. You obviously are, but I'm not and none of my close people are, because I don't like human filth around me. Try thinking of better questions instead of using "bump" like a sorry little 12 year old blogger.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I don't know to be honest. I never cheated and I don't think I ever would.

[Athena098]

I think they think it’s ok as no one get hurt until their caught and then they blame person they cheated on.

[HoratioCaine]

How is having a crush on someone else cheating? Everyone gets that and its not like everyone acts on that crush

[maxmoody1986]

You've already said you were cheating on your boyfriend so maybe you could have a guilty conscience

[luvstoned4him]

Maybe but they ain't me

I have never cheated nor will I!

[winterfox10]

I think they are! As a general rule, the first person to pass judgement on you is the one most likely to commit the same, if not worse, crime.

[Dongtai]

So then if I say rapists are bad people that means I’m likely to commit rape? That’s the most flawed logic ever.

[winterfox10]

@Dongtai No, stop twisting my words. That's not my argument and you know it.

[Anonymous]

Yes most people are. I’m not one of those people. I want a man all to myself not to be shared with any other woman at any point and I would never steal another woman’s boyfriend. I’m too beautiful for that and can easily attract my own

[Anonymous]

People in love don't cheat 90% of the time. If someone cheats there is something wrong with their relationship, something mentally wrong with them or a combination of both.

[Asker]

That may be true to some extent, but it doesn't address my question.
Most of the people that they cheat with don't really take any responsibility for their actions.
Some will even look down on cheaters and claim superiority.
When in reality they weren't able to resist the cheater and caused just as much pain in that couple's relationship.
They don't want to be cheated on, but will sext, flirt or sleep with a cheater.
Most of us are hypocrites in my opinion.

[clok3]

I feel like it's the boyfriend or girlfriends fault for making a person cheat. you shouldn't be so boring or make them want to see other people. it's you not them. sincerely, a cheater

[brkninpcs70]

Hell yes we are! I have been married twice and while I have been faithful they did not. Now now I'm like I don't care and at the same time I don't want to put somebody else to that pain

[sp33d]

You speak too comfortably for others. You can only speak for yourself ;)