Does being in a relationship make you feel tamed or do you feel stuck and crave rebellion? (Page 2)
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I surrendered to a relationship, and I costantly see other women on the side.
My girlfriend doesn't care, as long as I do what she wants.
I do not how to vote. I know I engage in self sabotage when it comes to any quality relationship so it’s hard to tell.
Self sabotage how?
Pick the wrong guy, ghost him, push the boundaries. So it may not be rebellion but fear of ‘success’ and being trapped or being happy, never been able to tell.
Tamed isn't the right word tho. Being with my girlfriend makes me very happy
glad you found happyness
I’m untrainable. I don’t feel stuck or tamed. I’m just me through and through… Some girls can handle that others can’t...
Relationships for me = stress , aggravation and being trapped and unhappy. Hence I will remain single for the rest of my life.
Agh i see
Some partners are experts. You can't even tell you've been tamed. I cannot tell if or not I have been tamed in any of my previous relationships. Maybe my partners were one of those expert tamers.
I’d like to try
Let's chat sometime
I messaged you back
Eh, my relationship's an open one, so I don't know if I can answer this. Lol
Damn 🤦♀️
Neither. Every relationship is an adventure, and I love adventures.
So wouldn't that be option B
Yeah
When I was young I thought i always needed to be in a relationship now I've been single going on two years and when i think i need a relationship i look at people that's around me and there relationships and i realise I'm good
If you feel trapped, chances are you never loved that person or didn’t want to stay committed.
Nah i think its more so like my case of the ex where i loved him but he showed his true colors later in the relationship but i loved him so much and didn't wanna waste time starting over that I began to settle yet felt trapped. I literally had to let him break it off so i could feel set free
Yeah that tends to happen more often than not
Neither. I have always been single and wish to remain single for life.
I feel like belonging to someone feels better than being aimless
Only if you're getting what you're giving. I love my wife but she's honestly gotten a little boring. (I apologize for the next sentence if it offends u, I dont mean to) sometimes I just want to give oral and she dont let me since she had the kids. So now I feel like I'd like to go find someone else to give oral. Does that make me a bad person?
It's a hard place to be. I think this is where couples counciling could be important. Now there is a place of selfishness but there is also a place of fairness. I think it's fair to want intimacy. But she's also not a gumball machine either. It's fair to express your feelings. I might even say that a night out with just the two of you and a sitter to watch the kids could be a solution. It's important though that kids should be something important to focus on and that sex will not occur as often as it was without them. That being said, it's being sensitive to her and having realistic expectations. I'd try to give her a chance still. Try to express of desire for intimacy as honestly and truly as possible but again be sensitive to her, it's not a demand but a request. I feel like if you are honest, patient and genuine, that you both could make an agreement
@Irishman41 That’s kind of jacked up. Sex is supposed to be about each pleasing the other person not just satisfying your own desires. If she wanted to do something you weren’t comfortable with, would you really be fine with her going and finding a man who is willing to do it?
I'm much happier when I'm in a relationship or when I'm at least seeing someone. I don't like being single. I crave attention.
Lmao same
I am free bird and always will be if someone trapped me I will break their cage and fly away...
Weird is good
@Irishman41 sure it is. i want to be different from normal... that's why I am kind of weird
Every one craves stability being in a relationship makes u more stable in life ( no it doesn't make me feel tamed )
Ohkay
But relationships need to be trustable (both sides should know that when to be strict and when to be flexible )
I don't really feel either way to be honest with you.
The whole have , fun,, and Seattle down when your ready thing, is bs, to each his own but I would not settle or be settled for.
I've never been in a serious relationship before, but if I was, I feel happy with the right person I'm with.
You need that good dick to tame you, put you in your place
Fuck yea
lol @DizzyDesii you are so funny
I don't feel I lose anything, I feel I gain much more.
Beautiful