Would you be ok with dating a girl who usually doesn't carry a purse/handbag?

[msss98]

I hate having to carry them i usually have a backpack or a fanny pack with me i wear across my chest or waist, i hate purses since they are so uncomfortable to carry around.

No, i like purses they look feminine

Yes, I think they are uncomfortable too

Wouldn't care

[ArnoldClark]

Wouldn't care less. So long as they're comfortable with their look.

[Kaneki05]

Your a smart women. And of course i would

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I thought i was the only girl that didn’t care for handbags

[msss98]

They suck

[Account]

I hate them too.

[mrfoox]

Yeah I'm the same. I think handbags looks nice, but gah I think they're annoying to deal with... I usually have a backpack. It's something I'm a little worried about too if my partner cares or not 😂 it's a norm for ladies to have handbags, so it can feel like I don't fit in. But I mind what my partner uses, as long as they're comfortable

[mrfoox]

I don't mind**

[Obtuse]

Fanny pack might send red flags to me like "dork alert", but I don't mind no purse or girly handbag. Whatever. But fanny pack. Ugh. I'm imagining a girl unzipping her fanny pack to get something. I would at least have to tease her about it. Tease her very much. Keep teasing her even if she stops wearing it. Keep bringing up years later.

[Obtuse]

Like you are neeerddddd! I will tease. It will be some affection if I got close. But neeerdddd! Fanny pack nerdddd! Tourist! You know. Like, lemme get my handkerchief from fanny pack. *Unzip* Nerddddddd! Nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd neerddddd! Dork! But you know, it will be with love.

[msss98]

Hahahha here they are a part of stoner culture

[Obtuse]

Hi, this is my stoner/nerd... I mean girlfriend... she wears a fanny pack!

[msss98]

hahhaha fair he hasn't seemed to mind but i deff see ur point

[Obtuse]

The backpack is reasonably cool to me.

[Obtuse]

Had an Austrian colleague in the US. He sported fanny pack all the time right over the crotch, and he'd put his hands on his waist and stand in a way that looked like he was thrusting his fanny pack/crotch out. Then when he went to store or fast food joint he was like, "Oh yes, yes, yes..." Then unzip fanny pack right over the crotch and bring out a wad of cash. Then I'm like, "You are neeerddddddd!" He told me that he hated people who drink Jagermeister. All they do is watch sports and fight -- all assholes he said. I didn't like Jagermeister so much until he said that. After that it became my fav drink.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I've gone out (even on dates) so many times without a purse/handbag. My clothes have pockets.

[AynonOMouse]

Yeah, I've always thought a fanny pack would make more sense so they don't have to constantly carry something and keep track of it. She would just need to wear it on the opposite side from where I stand so it doesn't interfere with hugging her.

[Anoniemus]

Why would they care? If a guy is more into fashion than I am, he’d be annoying.

[boggboss]

Why do u think people would have a problom with this a fanny pack would look a bit weird but apart feom that no one but you would care

[Nigjt]

Now that's a question for a man to answer.
I'd hope that any man wouldn't care about a handbag of any kind An rather or not that a Women would Carrie one or not to me that is stupid for a man to won't a Women to Carrie one.
But then that's my opinion.
God Bless

[Adam1978]

Unless you have a dress on it doesn't make sense to carry one around.

[VIVANT]

I never have carried a purse. I use back packs or messenger bags

why would a guy care or want you to use a purse?

they are so inconvenient and silly.

[WhiteShoulder]

I do carry a bag, but I’ve never heard of a guy using that as a dating criteria

[WhiteShoulder]

My girlfriend usually carries her stuff in her backpack. I’ll ask her if she’s ever been turned down or not been asked out because of that.

[PartTimeSaint]

Not carrying a purse hasn't even been on my mind as something that could be bad.
Increased chance of theft, lopsided weight for the back to carry... Yeah, you do you. Good luck dating!

[Bananaman177]

I'd be much more likely to want a date a girl who is practical enough to wear a fanny pack.

[MorticiAddams]

I personally have days where I wear my pocket skirts and just shove all my stuff in pockets because I'm over purses and I'd have NO problem dating a girl who didn't want to carry one! It's liberating!

[Shiver]

Yeah, seems like a really stupid reason not to date a girl. I got everything my girlfriend would put in her bag in my car already, so she doesn't even use one when she's with me.

[egarcia1360]

I literally could not care less, unless that means she's constantly asking me to hold all her stuff or something along those lines.

[MannySimms]

I recently dated 2 women that didn't carry one. It's better for both.

[DOGMA1954]

I am going out with you and want to spend time with you. I would not care at all how you carried your things. All I would care about is the time I get to see you.

[JackSmy]

Of course! Why would that matter? She likes what she likes, and I am fine with that!! Carry a wallet, in your back pocket, if you want!! :) :)

[seniorghostman]

Most of my past didn’t even own a purse. The few that did left it in the car or in the house. Didn’t lug it everywhere

[Sixgun77]

That's not something I consider at all when I'm looking for a girlfriend.

[Eduardodealba]

It doesn't matter they look hot with with their little back packs too.

[Dchrls78104]

As long as she's not carrying a schoolbag, it's not an issue for me.

[burger151]

Don't care if girl uses purse or not. And who says backpack doesn't look sexy on girls?

[I-C3_ME]

Do people care about this? Like if u change your mind about someone purely cuz she doesn't want to wear a handbag, how shallow can u be lol?

[dragoblack]

I would make her a fashionable belt with side pouches that way she will always have pockets

[ProfessionalMusician]

I wouldn't mind abit and we would not have to wonder where is her purse is

[TallAnon]

The fuck would I care whether you got a bag or not, lmao

[kajoharudo12]

It doesn't matter that much. Feminine or not, what matters is whether or not they love me

[GabrielsMinds]

Of course not. How would I smuggle food into the movies?

[October808]

Get one of those small form factor bag with long straps. They hold your phone, some credit cards and some cash. You can wear it cross chest.

[Bman4907]

If she uses her own pockets, its fine, but I'd be worried if I have to hold everything in my pockets.

[Surely]

Would prefer that they wouldn't carry one.
Had to watch too many purses when they go to the restroom.

[chriscdi]

i really couldnt care less what she carries around honestly 🤷🏻‍♂️

[alance99]

Its fine if she doesn't want to carry a purse or handbag, she should always feel comfortable thats all i want

[BoxySama]

I used a satchel handbag
The kind that goes over your shoulder
Is extremely convenient
😎😎😎
Extremely unigender

[NorthwestRider]

My fiancée never carries one

She is a tomboy

[clampfan101]

I’m not seeing a big difference between B and C.
C is true, but B is one reason why.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Really? I just now remembered that they carry purses

[termanator]

Yes absolutely , means I would never have to hold it in public. Holding a backpack is ok though

[HOAAH]

I don't like purses either. I only have a wallet.

[cooldude64]

I ain't paying for all your stupid junk. Get a wallet if a purse is too big for you. Noob females trying to make excuses so a guy buys all your stuff

[msss98]

Lmao that wasn't the reason i don't carry one 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Redstang88]

Yeah, why would I care?

[Kurαȷ]

It would be a red flag for me personally.

[msss98]

How so?

[Koalamate]

Yes but a fannypack is the biggest cockblock

[msss98]

How come?

[Koalamate]

There a literal cockblock.
Personaly i hate how they look my mum went through the same phase she started wearing one and got a lot of looks and for her birthday she got given multiple handbags she ended up using a leather satchel type handbag.

[msss98]

Usually wear it across my chest

[sammayer43]

Shoot as long as one of us has snacks somewhere

[DanOh2018]

It's a pet peeve. I'm not a beast of burden LoL

[Exorcist_Rampage]

I really wouldn't care.

[SilverRain92]

I would not care about that. It's not my business

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's a stupid reason not to date someone

[Agape93]

Yeap

[TheFlak38]

what difference does it make?

[Nahid1707]

That’s a good question, it’s okay

[GreatnessBack]

Most don't care.

[wulibuli]

Use w/e you want?

[Razal]

Wouldn't care

[loveslongnails]

Why would I care?

[TheAteam1978]

Who cares