My girlfriend wrote a pros and cons list about me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

She is married, but her husband cheated on her first and is abusive. I am 32 years older than her. I found a pros and cons list about me and her husband on her work desk.

Her cons were:
1. He can't manage money at all (even if he won the lottery).
2. Other people say the age gap makes him a predator.
3. My friends say he is desperate.
4. Might be after divorce money.
5. Is a renter and has bad credit (irresponsible)
6. Kind of controlling.
7. Makes comments about other women in front of me.
8. Can't give me another blonde-blue-eyed baby again, for sure. (Her and her husband are both blonde-blue-eyed and I have brown eyes)

She says she loves me and I really thought she did. Her son passed away a year before we got together. She was really depressed, but being with me seemed to make her happy again.

[boggboss]

Lol that con list is a little brutal although you should open your eyes clearly u have money oases that's a problom you need to sort out even if this relationship ends the other points are on her to deal with but seem a little petty

[mattdzz]

She could still have a blue eyed baby with you, but the 32 year age gap is something serious, and it sounds like she doesn't even like you that much.

[PondyPand]

If she's married, regardless of that, WHY are you with her? Let her get divorced first. 🤦

[Spider-Stan]

Wow. This seems childish. Is she a child? Sounds like you need a more mature woman.

[Anonymous]

And you want to stay with her? More fool you.

[lakos]

Write one about her to show her how it feels.