Those women are not ready to be in a relationship. I can be empathetic but I'm not letting their drama into my life.
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I am one of those damaged women all I want is for a guy who is kind and caring and supportive and understanding and more important not lie to me lies are one of the reasons for why I am a damaged soul and lies will only damage me even further
If I like her, I make sure to be here for her, to listen to her, to make her feel safe so that she can open up more, to help her if I feel like I can and to direct her towards therapy if she is not in therapy already/
Great comment!!! Perfectly said. You can be supportive, hope they're getting emotional help through therapy and if it's not working... kiss them, wish them luck and head elsewhere!!!
Be patient and understanding. Once a person has been broken it is very hard to fix.
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You give them a false name instead of the real one, do not let her know where you live, give them an alternate email, claim not to be on social media and dump them after pumping them a few times.
Love her, respect her, show her the kindness she may not be accustomed to. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE YOU TO USE HER NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AS A WAY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OR MANIPULATE HER.
All are different Most will mention triggers... just be a good guy if it’s too much leave but try to explain why maybe she’ll try to work on herself more instead with professional help
My God, I would never call anyone "damaged". At best, I would use the word "scarred" for both men and women alike, and the answer to your question is that I would love her like no man has ever loved her.
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If any of those are an issue for you, just don't deal with those women. Period.
Those women are not ready to be in a relationship. I can be empathetic but I'm not letting their drama into my life.
I am one of those damaged women all I want is for a guy who is kind and caring and supportive and understanding and more important not lie to me lies are one of the reasons for why I am a damaged soul and lies will only damage me even further
My early sexual experience was not one I had agreed to thanks though! Wow quite some assumptions there
Avoid them.
Most people aren't charities so it makes sense to be with someone in a similar position in regards to "damage".
Same reason we tend to persue people of similar looks or socioeconomic status.
I direct them to a good therapist. I empathize, but I also refuse to be mistreated because of what others did.
If I like her, I make sure to be here for her, to listen to her, to make her feel safe so that she can open up more, to help her if I feel like I can and to direct her towards therapy if she is not in therapy already/
Treat them with love be careful and know when to call it off
Great comment!!! Perfectly said. You can be supportive, hope they're getting emotional help through therapy and if it's not working... kiss them, wish them luck and head elsewhere!!!
Be patient and understanding. Once a person has been broken it is very hard to fix.
You give them a false name instead of the real one, do not let her know where you live, give them an alternate email, claim not to be on social media and dump them after pumping them a few times.
You don't. Leave them for someone else to babysit. Foggedaboudit.
It's not your job, and you can't fix them anyway.
Honestly I don't know,
Probably be more gentle? Im pretty damaged but i dont come off that way so il treated normally,
How you have been damaged
I'm a damaged guy myself and I usually end up with damaged women because we can relate, I don't think I can get along with regular women
I did a myTake on this: The kind of woman men shouldn't date/marry.
Love her, respect her, show her the kindness she may not be accustomed to. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE YOU TO USE HER NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AS A WAY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OR MANIPULATE HER.
All are different Most will mention triggers... just be a good guy if it’s too much leave but try to explain why maybe she’ll try to work on herself more instead with professional help
Easy give her what she has never been given which are any number of those things listed above
Don't. Save yourself the heartache she will cause you down the line and run, don't walk away.
My God, I would never call anyone "damaged". At best, I would use the word "scarred" for both men and women alike, and the answer to your question is that I would love her like no man has ever loved her.
Run. Because they won't listen to anyone unless your a demon.