How can we fix the male/female direct/indirect communication gap? (Page 3)

[Juxtapose]

Clearly just coming out with it and saying what you mean is the superior method of communication. Trying to hint at what you really mean is just cowardice and leads to confusion.

[Ninjazzed]

I’m unforgivingly direct and can often come off as “assholish” or “extremely blunt” so as a woman, it gets me nowhere lol

[Abduruser]

One has to take this into implementation. Like for real, they should lay it down clearly what's the issue and what not. If no one takes the step in such situations, then it's catastrophic.

[colin77]

U hav a good point... jus men need to overstand woman do things base on emotions and women need to overstand men do things base on thinking... they come from different angles of things

[AmandaYVR]

Women are more emotional, but don't divide the sexes between thinking and emotional. It's more fluid than that.

[colin77]

That's how we were created

[crazy8000]

Yeah.
Not totally accurate.
Not even biological.
Just a choice at some time in a person's life and the brain and mind develops to that.
More and more studies say that males are more emotional and deeper by nature then female's. because society and religion that shows it should be the opposite it gets accordingly with some funny side effects.
You can see it more clearly in more equal countries that female's get more hard with less exaggerated emotions and males begin to get more emotional and deep.

[colin77]

Nope u don't know what u are saying... woman are emotional beings because they were created as comforters... men has a sensitive side because we need to go into our feminine side to connect to a woman sexual and otherwise

[AmandaYVR]

Your last comment is not off base but you're not going to get anywhere saying that women are not "thinking." You kill the conversation with that.

[Jamie05rhs]

In summary:

Males: Direct facts
Females: Games, excuses, and avoidance

[AmandaYVR]

Ouch

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR I'm just saying it like it is.

[Torari]

No. We can't, because it is caused by the respective neurobiological differences between men and woman. You can't change the different male/female communication styles without genetic editing.

[worldscolide]

I just thank god my wife is very direct with me.. Never makes me play guessing games..

[AshleyMadison00]

Bring more awareness about the topic
Speak with youth but sometimes it's needed

[October808]

Ban cell phones from restaurants and social gathrings.

[StickStickity13]

Women are generally straightforward when they like you. If they're not clear, they don't like you

[AmandaYVR]

Interesting.

[Jamie05rhs]

I call bullshit on that. Women aren't straightforward at all. A lot of them will try to have sex with you but they'll NEVER tell you that they like you.

[OddBeMe]

I think the problem is people thinking the genders are different. Everything listed is a human trait that we all have (whether we admit it or not).

[Torari]

The gender are factually different. On both a societal, and neurobiological level.

[scooogy]

Men were there first. God should have seperated a brain cell instead of a rib, then men and women would think like-wise :P

[Avicenna]

You'll get a Nobel Peace Prize for fixing that

[dthomas89]

People not assuming we can read peoples minds

[simplelikeme]

Just start communicating

[yourpsychosuburban]

Get more females to download it

[Chill_Meta]

Not much other than sit and talk it out

[BareOrBsQuare]

We all want to be equal

[bannacookies]

Why care to fix it?

[LarryLawrence]

Take your time.