Why dont fathers want their daughters to date?

[Anonymous]

I just had a baby with my soon to be fiance. Anytime I talk about our daughter, and what its going to be like when she gets a boyfriend, etc. He gets irritated and hates the idea.

But yet if we ever have a son he is totally okay with him going out with girls.

Why is it different? I think men dont want their daughters to be looked at sexually, but doesn't care if their sons go out and express their sexuality. I dont get it.

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+1 y

Also, a son watching porn at a young age is fine, but his daughter cannot go out in shorts and a crop top.

[0112358]

He’s afraid of her being exploited.

remind him that if he tries to hide her that would actually leave her vulnerable in her naivety. What he wants is her to learn what she wants and how to find it with as few missteps as possible.

he has a big role to play there and it’s not by being hyper protective. What he needs to do is be the sort of man he wants her to end up with, because there’s a good chance she will. He is her model of what a “real man” is.

[ohshee]

Because in one way or another we have all hurt a girl in some way,, form or another.. or st least i have not in a bad way just in a yah never mind I'm sure it was bad then we have our pig friends we hear all there story's. And those friends move on and have kids lol. All men know that all men 1 day will be a non caring pig and will not care about anyone's feels but there own we don't want to see our daughters hurt

[ohshee]

Thank you

[elizamichale1]

Yea its kind of true upto some extent coz not all men behave that way
My dad has always been supportive whenever i went dating and all was concerned was he didn't want me to come home with some junkie or any guy who does drugs

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for MHO honey

[TacocaT6969]

Fathers don’t like seeing their daughters lose the prime of their life to unprotected sex.

[Asker]

But its better for their son to be a dad through unprotected sex at a young age?

[Asker]

I guess fathera understand a guy wants sex and should be encouraged. But a daughters wants to feel desired but that upsets them

[TacocaT6969]

How many single fathers are there vs single mothers?

The sperm donor can say “fuck this shit I’m out” whenever they want.

Not that easy for the birth giver.

[Asker]

Legally, they have to pay child support. And morally- thats a piece of shit boy

[TacocaT6969]

Money is jack shit compared to the hard work and responsibility of raising a child for 18 years.

[chriscdi]

because us men know how it is to be men so we see shit happen that women are blind too, we see how men use women and manipulate them in so many ways that we feel like we need to protect our daughters from dating as much as we can

[Asker]

Oh we arnt usually blind to it. We just crave love so much that we settle. As well as already being insecure and thinking thats just how men are.

Yet boys are free to go out and have sex with whoever they want as long as its safe. Pfft

[chriscdi]

I don't know what this response has to do with fathers protecting their daughters, this seems deeper, and by the way you can thank the porn industry for that, it shows society to treat women like trash and makes guys look like kings, thats why i believe its like that, because porn is teaching to fuck women like toys and when women like to sleep around they are seen like sluts because women sleep around a lot on pornography, i guess the way pornos make men look like they rule everything and make women look like cum rags and society is only getting worse and teenagers watch porn and think thats reality and then go around looking for girls (like your daughter) to fuck them, use them, leave them and then brag about it, can you blame a father for being protective, its so much deeper than just doing it cause men can sleep around and women are just sluts when they do it

[Asker]

Of course i dont blame any father for being protective! But they dont seem concered about what their sons are doing to contribute to the men who are like this.

[chriscdi]

because its worse to get fucked then to be the one fucking, not only that, men dont usually get manipulated into shit they dont want, women dont usually manipulate for relationships or nothing, and of course gender plays a big role here, you feel more forced to protect a daughter more than a son when it comes to this, im still not sure why but these are my believes on why 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

Boys are a lot more sexually reckless

[chriscdi]

yes indeed they are and those boys target girls like your daughter, you feel like you need to protect the prey more than the prediator no? lol

[Asker]

Of course. But what im saying is.. if you're going to protect your daughter from predators.. then guide your son into not being one. They just dont seem to care as much when it come to boys dating and going on to parties and whatever else because sex feels good so just be protected.

[chriscdi]

well i agree with you on that but its kinda hard to guide them if they have many more bad influences around them, girls are more careful when it comes to influences they hang around, men dont care, no matter how hard you try to guide them, they will most likely find their way back to the bullshit, its why i preffer no kids lol

[888theGreat]

well I would want to protect her. Daughter will always be daddy's little girl. Then once I accept the idiot that is going to marry my little girl , i have grand children and that is the highlight of your life.

[Asker]

By why are fathers so lenient with their sons?

[888theGreat]

We know sons are idiots , they go 70 in a 30 MPH zone. Jump off the house top into a pool. You have to let boys make mistakes and recover.

[Asker]

I get that. But sexually, they should be guided more by their fathers

[Anonymous]

Because we are biologically programmed to protect women. It’s inherent.
Our society is also gynocentric.
Protecting women is what society is all about.
Women always want to make this a victimhood and say its a double standard and then will also turn around and jump on the metoo bullshit.

[ecfresh]

Double standards. But congrats on becoming a mother and your upcoming wedding. Sounds like a new chapter in your life.

[Sarahr123]

My father aswell he said if I like a boy I should get married period

[Anonymous]

I don’t think men in general think like this just him. I think it’s just a sexist thing and he shouldn’t think like that. Women should have a full life too.

[loooooop]

It's just because of the idea that promiscuous women don't make good wives.

[Asker]

What about boys who are taught sex is okay with anyone just as long as its protected? Why can't fathers be more concerned about the fact that their son is wanting to go out and possibly bang a girl and get his dick sucked? I guess that doesn't concern them as much because they are the same way

[loooooop]

It doesn't concern them as much for that same idea. Traditionally men were the breadwinners so their goal was to find the best wife. Women's goal were to be the best wife. This translates to player culture and slut shaming.

[Asker]

In my opinion you're standards and morals should be the same for each gender. If you dont feel comfortable with your daughter dating because of how guys are. Then teach your son to be the guy that isn't like those guys either.

[NewZion]

Instincts:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NnFi7U0GzRc

[Liam_Hayden]

Probably because the dads remember what they were like when they were the age of the guys looking at his daughter (s).

[Asker]

Yet they dont teach their sons any differently

[Cryptic-Game]

Men usually are very protective over their daughters.

[JuniorH]

Because little princess is daddies property

[abbie_wright]

Their protective