Because they are fucked up themselves 🤣🤣🤣 Anyone who is in a relationship should be mentally emotionally stable. If you can't love yourself first don't go start trying to love somebody else 🤣🤣🤣
Only been in one relationship, she just decided I wasn't worth waiting for (she lost her right to text guys for five months... We were in a ldr) didn't hear she gave me up for someone nearby untill she moved out
She started a mile away, got moved to an hour, then I was told she was moving two states away... She ended up moving two hours and giving up on me the first week... didn't get word till five months later, she already had a "friend with benifits"
The week she asked me to be her boyfriend I got another request from another girl... I knew them for the same amount of time and they moved at the same time, had a crush on them both... I'll never see either again
Nothing too terrible, I've raised my standards and gone back out into the single world... Here's to hoping I'll get someone who will at least make sure I know she's given up on our relationship
Because they don't have anything invested in it. A relationship to some is all about sex and not leaving any meat on the bone for anything else. When they get tired of sex with the same person they move on to the next, and unfortunately, sometimes leaving broken hearts and shattered love in their wake.
Well, we always say it's never too late to change, but we all do eventually run out of time. It just seems like people waste so much unnecessary time squabbling about little stuff they don't really matter
People are breaking up with people or cheating on someone for gaining 5 lbs. or being bored 🤷🏼♀️ so how's that trash? Trash is the people who are that petty
well if people break up with you for those reasons, shouldn't you be happle that the trash just litterally removed itself? xD like you dodged a bullet thanks to them :D
sorry to hear about your hubby. i mean there's dumb assholes out there that don't know how to have relationships, cause they never learned to or cause they have whatever issues personally. so maybe that's the answer to your question. that's why people behave as if they can't handle relationships.
well how do you know what to expect? how do you draw the line between "being selfish" and "standing up for yourself"? those are not easy to answer questions at all and i have big sympathy with everyone who struggles with that.
Cheating cuz you bored or unhappy without first trying to work it out with your partner... SELFISH bailing on someone going through a hard time or sick: SELFISH... sexting strangers online while your partner at work: SELFISH... Expecting people to sleep with you on first date: SELFISH What do all those things have in common, the thinking of yourself, your own happiness, own needs... And that's NOT how relationships work
See that part of the problem right there... Other people using "cases" or 'statistics" I'm going by " real" factual life or "real" behavior not what I've " heard"... What I've "seen"
i don't need statistics to make areal shade of grey that's hard to decide:
your partner has been putting on weight. they are growing unattractive to you, whereas you're in shape doing your best to look as sexy for them as you can.
at what point do you get rid of them for having gained weight and making no effort of trying to be attractive for you?
yes. if i gain waight and get fat while my wife is lean and sexy and she asks me to try and get a bit fit, even offering to diet and do sports with me but i won't do that, then i think my wife should leave me.
It is human nature to move on/migrate to places/things that they think is appealing in this cycle, the old genuine and good relationships are thrown out.
🤣🤣🤣 something smells rotten in Denmark 🤣🤣 but damn what if they just had gas? Don't throw em out, just buy em some Beano or something, now that's love 🤣🤣🤣
You sound like my mother.. lol she used to complain I never had chocolate here when she came to visit... She actually ate baking chocolate that was meant for a recipe 😂😂
I think they do it as a means of solving problems. If they can push the relationship away, they don't need to resolve whatever... thing... is causing their discomfort.
Either because they believe that's how things work through personal interaction or through what they have been taught by observing others, or they genuinely have no real care for their fellow human beings.
I have a boyfriend now so I am not too worried about people. What I have been through I realize that there isn't a perfect person. So dont try looking for someone is perfect because that doesn't exist. Everyone has flaws so cannot judge people just on their looks you gotta look what is within. If someone is willing to leave you let them. I had to learn when to move on when people show disinterest.
I think relationships and marriages are thrown out. B/c of realality shows , social media etc. Influence a mass audiance of morons that's just my opinion!
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Because they are fucked up themselves 🤣🤣🤣
Anyone who is in a relationship should be mentally emotionally stable. If you can't love yourself first don't go start trying to love somebody else 🤣🤣🤣
Well said 👍 Very true.. Something else people don't do anymore 🤷🏼♀️
Thank you thank you lol
But are you taking a bow as you say that 👏👏👏😂
Only been in one relationship, she just decided I wasn't worth waiting for (she lost her right to text guys for five months... We were in a ldr) didn't hear she gave me up for someone nearby untill she moved out
Sorry to hear that
No worries, she saw me as not worth it, so I just need to kick her out of my head
Someone else will take her old throne, this time I'll try to choose a different type of person
Why don't you stay in your area... LDR's rarely work out
She started a mile away, got moved to an hour, then I was told she was moving two states away... She ended up moving two hours and giving up on me the first week... didn't get word till five months later, she already had a "friend with benifits"
By my count our relationship lasted forteen months, to her it was a mear nine
The week she asked me to be her boyfriend I got another request from another girl... I knew them for the same amount of time and they moved at the same time, had a crush on them both... I'll never see either again
That sucks
Nothing too terrible, I've raised my standards and gone back out into the single world... Here's to hoping I'll get someone who will at least make sure I know she's given up on our relationship
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Because they don't have anything invested in it. A relationship to some is all about sex and not leaving any meat on the bone for anything else. When they get tired of sex with the same person they move on to the next, and unfortunately, sometimes leaving broken hearts and shattered love in their wake.
<3 Those people suck. Hopefully they grow up or change. :(
Well, we always say it's never too late to change, but we all do eventually run out of time. It just seems like people waste so much unnecessary time squabbling about little stuff they don't really matter
Agreed... they should consider themselves lucky to be in a relationship at all.. 🥺
Exactly!
because they have no respect for true love and they are not honest. They are just running after sex and bodies than soul
That's true there
Because they think there are thousands more people just waiting from them on dating apps
Yeah I guess... Don't get me started on the whole dating site thing lol I'm just not a believer in that 🤷🏼♀️
I agree. But you're intelligent, hot and charming, so guys swoon over you.
Thank you for the compliment 🙂 see, getting better 😅
Very good, and you're welcome!
it takes time to find out that someone is trash. and if they are trash, what's wrong with throwing them out?
People are breaking up with people or cheating on someone for gaining 5 lbs. or being bored 🤷🏼♀️ so how's that trash? Trash is the people who are that petty
well if people break up with you for those reasons, shouldn't you be happle that the trash just litterally removed itself? xD like you dodged a bullet thanks to them :D
*happy xD wtf is happle auto correct?
Umm this question not personal... I haven't dated anyone since my hubby passed.. Cuz people these days tripping too much for me
You mean auto incorrect 🤣
sorry to hear about your hubby. i mean there's dumb assholes out there that don't know how to have relationships, cause they never learned to or cause they have whatever issues personally. so maybe that's the answer to your question. that's why people behave as if they can't handle relationships.
Or just people are more selfish these days 🤷🏼♀️ or expect too much
well how do you know what to expect? how do you draw the line between "being selfish" and "standing up for yourself"? those are not easy to answer questions at all and i have big sympathy with everyone who struggles with that.
Cheating cuz you bored or unhappy without first trying to work it out with your partner... SELFISH
bailing on someone going through a hard time or sick: SELFISH...
sexting strangers online while your partner at work: SELFISH...
Expecting people to sleep with you on first date: SELFISH
What do all those things have in common, the thinking of yourself, your own happiness, own needs... And that's NOT how relationships work
yeah dude. you know it's easy to find cases where it's very black and white. live is rarely like that.
See that part of the problem right there... Other people using "cases" or 'statistics" I'm going by " real" factual life or "real" behavior not what I've " heard"... What I've "seen"
i don't need statistics to make areal shade of grey that's hard to decide:
your partner has been putting on weight. they are growing unattractive to you, whereas you're in shape doing your best to look as sexy for them as you can.
at what point do you get rid of them for having gained weight and making no effort of trying to be attractive for you?
Or at what point do you encourage/support your partner? So if YOU gain weight, that's a good reason for your wife to leave you,?
yes. if i gain waight and get fat while my wife is lean and sexy and she asks me to try and get a bit fit, even offering to diet and do sports with me but i won't do that, then i think my wife should leave me.
It is human nature to move on/migrate to places/things that they think is appealing in this cycle, the old genuine and good relationships are thrown out.
People too selfish these days
I don't know good question, but it's mainstream these days, this is why we can't have nice things
Right! 🤷🏼♀️
You mean keeping them around until something starts to smell :)
🤣🤣🤣 something smells rotten in Denmark 🤣🤣 but damn what if they just had gas? Don't throw em out, just buy em some Beano or something, now that's love 🤣🤣🤣
You 20 to 30 Somethings Amaze Me All The Time, In You're Own Stupidity And Cut Throated Animalistic Behavior Towards Each Other
Ahh to be 20's or even 30's again lol well not in today's world tho lol🤷🏼♀️
You Individually Crack Me Up. You're way too funny
I am sooooooooooooo with you on that BFB, have you the chocolate question yet? Do you think chocolate really understands us?
Lol no I don't think I saw that lol think we understand chocolate tho lol or my mom does anyway lol
I love chocolate.
You sound like my mother.. lol she used to complain I never had chocolate here when she came to visit... She actually ate baking chocolate that was meant for a recipe 😂😂
I've done that. Shot's disgusting!!
Meant to say shit's disgusting
I think they do it as a means of solving problems. If they can push the relationship away, they don't need to resolve whatever... thing... is causing their discomfort.
Because people only see things at face value nowadays
Agree
Either because they believe that's how things work through personal interaction or through what they have been taught by observing others, or they genuinely have no real care for their fellow human beings.
I have a boyfriend now so I am not too worried about people. What I have been through I realize that there isn't a perfect person. So dont try looking for someone is perfect because that doesn't exist. Everyone has flaws so cannot judge people just on their looks you gotta look what is within. If someone is willing to leave you let them. I had to learn when to move on when people show disinterest.
Some people are just trash for treating others like that
I agree
People rarely value other people, and only think of what the person can do for them.
You said true mouthful there! 👍
Thanks. Very sad.
I agree... Life is so precious and people just wasting it on petty bullshit
yes exactly
But yet telling people 🤷🏼♀️ just falls on deaf ears 🤷🏼♀️
Yes of course it does.
Cause they think they can do better or gods gift to the world.
Yeah those types 🙄
Bow Down 🙇♀️
😅😅😅
I trip someone by bowing but I really ticked they wasn’t paying attention where they were going and well they trip and flipped.
🤣🤣🤣 wish I'd been there to see that lmao
I tried moving out of the way no matter where I went seem come at me.
I think relationships and marriages are thrown out. B/c of realality shows , social media etc. Influence a mass audiance of morons that's just my opinion!