I went through a big breakup 2 months back, and i was not in a good place in life for two months. But then i started talking to this girl who made me really really happy, and i started having a huge crush on her. So i told my crush i liked her, and she told me she liked me back. That was one month ago. She told she needs some time to be with me, but told that she does want to be with me but doesn't wanna mess it up like the previous relationships. But then she told be a few days back that she wants to focus on her studies at the moment because its her final year and in the past she didn't do well academically and that she wanted to change that. And she told me this over a voice message "so i had to decide if i wanna be with you now for a short time cuz if i date you now, my parents will obviously come to know, or whether i wanna be with you for a long time" so i dont know if she meant that she wants to be with me in the future, but i dont know if i should ask her if i should wait or not also (please tell me if you think i should ask her if i should wait for her or not) and she also said that her previous relationships were not even a percent as good as this one even though this wasn't a relationship. I really love her and I don't know if she knows this, but im ready to wait for her even if it means i will have to wait for months for her.