I think it would be great to be in a relationship with myself.
People always think that a person is only to be attracted to one kind of person eg. Gay -men only or lesbian- female only or straight- opposite gender only. And any person who deviates from the aforementioned is to be a difficult spouse in terms of relationship. This is simply false. Being gender fluid and pansexual in particular means only that you don't car about a persons gender or whatever they identify as. Apart from that. everything else is pretty usual. Same standard rules that apply to heterosexual or gay relationships, also apply to relationships that involve bisexuals and pansexuals.
When you say "change" it's quite offence and very incorrect. Sexuality is not something that you just "change" to whatever you feel want. Same laws that apply to heterosexual, attraction, applies to Pansexual attraction too, only difference is, that it can be felt to either gender. So you don't change this. It's rather correct to say that people who are not ascertained in their sexual identity, are the ones who may "change" but it's rather exploring and finding out what one is actually attracted to. Hence if the pansexual individual who you could potentially have a relationship with is affirmed within their sexuality then there's no need to worry of "change".
And sexually fluid persons are literally normal individuals. Whatever "firmness you are referring to, is to be determined in the exact same way as in other kinds of relationships.
Technically I can be considered pansexual, but I prefer to refer to myself as bisexual.
I'd be fine with this if the person has demonstrated to me they line up with what I value.
I'm mostly monogamous (open to rare threesomes, but with many conditions and lots of communication), and faithful. I have values I uphold and values I expect my partner to uphold.
If our values and expectations align, I'd date anyone - gender doesn't matter.
To me, it's the person and not the body/form they take. I love with my heart, not just with my eyes.
I'm pansexual and would be pretty upset if someone chose not to be with me just cause there's a stereotype that bi/pan are more likely to cheat. I've been in a realtionship for 7 years and have never even thought about being with someone else.
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Anonymous
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There is a difference between being pan and being a cheater. The likelihood of them cheating is the same as if you were with a straight person. Just because there is a larger number of people they are capable of being attracted to doesn't mean they will cheat
So... Why the fuck would you use a stupid word like Pansexual that has a retarted definition that basically means... Bisexual the word Pansexual is unnecessary the word Bisexual which was always used before was 100 percent adequate in using to answer the question at had.
Being Bi/Pan doesn't mean that they crave the other gender, it just means that they have a wider horizon of potential partners! I'm bi, and I've only dated men my entire life. That doesn't mean that I miss being with a woman, or feel like I'm missing out on anything. To me, the option of dating a man or woman is like the option of dating someone with blond or brown hair. Just because I'm dating a blond doesn't mean I miss being with a brown haired person. Sorry, English isn't my first language
I would never date someone like that. Being in a successful heterosexual relationship is bad enough. Why make things worse by dating a mentally ill crazy person?
Pansexual just means they date anyone, they aren't always gonna be the types to have lots of hook ups and stuff they can be. Depending how the person is like and who he/she attracts, they could be like that or they could be like the average joe
its a cult is what it is. there is no such thing as pansexual and mark my words yes they will change whenever the hell they want and probably even when they don't want, its going to be total instability
Yeah here's your answer. If they're trans gender they're clearly a melodramatic bitch with nothing else going on in there life other than worrying about labels and other gay shit. Fuck a real guy.
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Anonymous
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You can’t really change someone especially their sexuality
