No, I would not. I'm a biological man. Most biological men want a biological woman. Not someone who has to turn themselves into one. For 2 reasons really.
1. We want children. Our own. With the woman we love. No man really wants to raise another man's baby, or go through a surrogate to get his own. That's a woman's main job to a man, in my opinion.
2. You are still a guy in our minds. You were born with a dick, you forever have one. Doesn't matter how hot you are, if we know before, it's gonna ruin it. If we feel any stubble, if anything seems different, it will all set off alarm bells. Maybe we are conditioned to feel that way, but it is what it is.
There is no hatred involved, we don't give a fuck what you do with your genitals, we just prefer the original, uncut, pure product.
If you are trans, then you should find someone that is also trans, or is into that lifestyle. If you are looking to date the "normies" or whatever you want to call it, then you probably chose the wrong path, my friend. I'm sure you could find it, but will be much harder.
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I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you're honest, you're in good stead.
I would not have a relationship with a transman because I like heterosexual, biological males and what they bring to the bedroom. I don't want to have sex with a vagina. I"m not bi.
I could certainly be good friends with a transman, but romantic involvement is where I'd draw the line. And I'd be upfront about that too.
But get a feeling for the room before you tell someone. I wouldn't do it on a first date. You might have a miserable time. No need to tell someone at that juncture. But IF you're having a good time and it looks like it'll get past a 2nd date, it's time to tell.
Don't be nervous about telling someone essential information At most, they'd be disappointed. At best, it won't matter.
Yes.
I'm bisexual, though pansexual also applies to me, and my go-to line is "I date the soul, not the form".
I've also been exploring my gender identity more, realizing I was *raised* as a cis woman but may not necessarily identify as such. It's a work in progress and I'm probably years out from making any big decisions.
For me, if the connection is there and we click, I'm very happy to date and be intimate with a trans person.
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See this is one of those trick question that bait people like me, who are idiots and can't resist telling you the truth.
I am heterosexual, I self identify as being heterosexual, so HEL NO would I get with a transgender. Heterosexuals believe in biology and not whatever you confidence yourself in your head. So its impossible to self identify as a hetero and then be with a transgender. You literally have to be something other than hetero to be okay with being with being with a transgender.
I am not shaming transgenders, live and let live says me. But I don't want it round me, it makes me feel super creepy and uncomfortable and that is perfectly okay. Because we all like what we like and don't like what we don't like. I am not into period, I think its mental health issue and that is just how it with me. And for any transgender or anyone else that wants to tell me how screwed up I am... all I can say is that I can accept you for what you are without putting shaming you, so you got to respect me for me for what I am. Its a two way street. So do not fool yourself into believing that everyone will respect you for what you are. I forgive all types of people for being who and what they are and even though I can understand it on some level... doesn't mean I have to respect it.
I am PRO-HETRO and not anti anything... but I am PRO-HETRO so don't get it confused.No, I'm only attracted to women.
Lots of men are "pansexual" (gay) nowadays, so transpeople don't exactly have a hard time finding potential partners to be with. As long as you don't lie or deceive them by making them believe you're a biological female, because they would not be consenting to gay sex (intercourse with a biological male), and you'd be committing sexual assault by not telling them if it got that far.
So just don't trick people into sleeping with you if you're going to be trans; because that's how some of them get killed, and frankly, I don't feel bad for them if they do. Same with any normal male rapist who got murdered by their victim.Yes, of course! I like women, and that includes trans women.
I've never had a long-term relationship with a woman who was trans, I must say. But I think it's just that it never happened. I've been intimate with a few trans women, who I liked very much, and it's just as natural as any other relationship I had.
I just wanted to add that most people who say "no" have never had the chance to actually get to know a trans person. GAG in particular seems to be a bit conservative in this sense. Most people don't know what "trans" means and are confused to believe that it's all an act or a fetish or something.Yes I'm kind of doing now. She is an amazing person and I do care a lot about her. But I'm not sure how attracted I am. But it has more to do with her looks right now than the fact that she is trans. I know looks are not everything but I'm sure if I can look past it.
But I would for sure date another trans woman or trans man again.I have a friend who is transgender. The dating scene is so hard. I feel bad for her. She always talks to me about how she feels no one would ever love her or at least take her seriously. She was venting to me about how she always has to be hidden and how it makes her feel like she is not lovable like a normal human being. I can only imagine what it is like. She told me that when she goes on dates behind closed doors it’s like her dreams come true, the feeling, the interaction, affection. All she ever wanted and is so grateful for, when she At least gets to kiss a guy. That’s all she ever wants and have always wanted. She said it makes her feel so alive. Although again, always being kept a secret and behind closed doors. She has never been on a date ever. And she has never even been in a relationship or had a boyfriend. But she is so strong. I love my friend
Nope, not at all, but that's just my preference. Everyone has a different preference for dating. I get shot down a lot because I'm married and still chasing after women. You don't know who's going to be into you and accept you for you until you throw yourself out there.
Much like I've experienced with women "wanting a relationship" but just wanting a threesome, you'll likely get a lot of people who just view you as an experience to have, rather than a person. Don't let it get you down though, dating/love is just rough, regardless of who you are.I think the honest answer to this question is that you really just don't fully know until you are put in that situation. While I know not everyone is open-minded enough for that, I would at least hope enough are that someone would genuinely find you amazing and love you for who you are completely.
No I wouldn't.
If you don't mind the advice, I understand dating can also be dangerous for trans people. If you are dating, please tell the person before you meet them anywhere.
It is important that they know while you're in a safe place they don't know.
You should want a person that will accept this aspect of you.Yes. And it doesn't matter what your gender identity is, I have no problems being romantic with anyone who is transgender.
Honestly, I have fantasized about it, specifically transgender women with a penis and testicles. Breasts would be nice as well, but I'm fine with no augmentation or hormones.Nope. I have no problem being friends with trans people, but I would NEVER have a sexual relationship with one. I'm into honest to goodness females.
It must be awkward for you, because if someone tricked me into thinking they were female and later admitted that they were trans, I'd be pissed that they had been dishonest and played me.Absolutely not.
The vast majority of people would never do that, so it is best for you to be completely upfront about it, including putting it on your dating profile and ensuring anyone who is interested in you understands you are in order to avoid any unpleasant surprises.Truthfully, no. I like the idea of being with a naturally born girl. The thing is, I've noticed online that transgender girls (I think that's what it's called) seem to be a lot more bold and attempt to be more seductive than a lot of real women, but it's still not enough. I'd still only date a natural female. I wish you luck in your endeavor though.
Only a fag is going to want to suck a dick. Sad but true right, I'm not trying to be mean here... it's just a fact. I think if you're honest from the start and don't "trick" people you'll find people that want to get with you just fine and won't end up getting ended by some Marine with a complex. Personally, I've had my dick sucked and I was tricked... just don't fuck around with trying to trick people and you should be fine.
No I don't think so. But I could have a very good friendship with one.
I consider the point that even though my deep core values might not agree with another's it doesn't mean we can't be fantastic friends. They obviously have to at least have that same belief.Yes, I would have a romantic & intimate relationship with someone (male or female) transgender. They are human just like the rest of us, their heart beats, they have feelings. I could go on; however, I am on my weekly *soapbox* as I call it. Life is way too short as it is to miss out on happiness. However, remember no one can make you happy, only you can make yourself happy! Congrats on 'coming out', I think it's great.
Dear Person,
Personally, as a guy/man/male. I would not want to have a romantic &/or intimate relationship with a transgender. Unless, the other is a female. However, that is just me being traditional. Set aside your fear becuase love has no boundaries.
Humbly, Humble Stranger.I would not, simply because I want kids with my partner, and that kind of precludes it.
You could of course though find a transgender person to date, and take it from there.
I am sure a lot of people appreciate your honest though, best to get that out of the way before too much emotion, feelings and time is wasted if it is a problem.Are the answers going to hurt you?
With everything in life, there will always be yes and no from people. Maybe this is a confirmation type question. Gag is a small sample size.
I personally wouldn't have a relationship with them.
It is much safer and advantageous to be honest... especially if you want a person to love all of you and to understand you better.Would I have sex with a female that believes That she Is a man but if Fucked she would get pregnant.
No I wouldn’t but I would recommend her to Head down to her local Mental hospital 🏥
To get her Hallucinations and delusions fixed.
These People aren’t right in the head. They are jealous of the other gender because they wanna be that gender but are not so that Jealousy has turned into full blown hallucinations and delusions.Look I been crossdressing for close to 40 years and with all that experience being in the public eye.
I still get nervousness every once in while out in public
I may not be transgender, but I know what its like to spill your guts to a love one
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