No, I would not. I'm a biological man. Most biological men want a biological woman. Not someone who has to turn themselves into one. For 2 reasons really.
1. We want children. Our own. With the woman we love. No man really wants to raise another man's baby, or go through a surrogate to get his own. That's a woman's main job to a man, in my opinion.
2. You are still a guy in our minds. You were born with a dick, you forever have one. Doesn't matter how hot you are, if we know before, it's gonna ruin it. If we feel any stubble, if anything seems different, it will all set off alarm bells. Maybe we are conditioned to feel that way, but it is what it is.
There is no hatred involved, we don't give a fuck what you do with your genitals, we just prefer the original, uncut, pure product.
If you are trans, then you should find someone that is also trans, or is into that lifestyle. If you are looking to date the "normies" or whatever you want to call it, then you probably chose the wrong path, my friend. I'm sure you could find it, but will be much harder.60 Reply
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+1 yI wouldn't worry about it. As long as you're honest, you're in good stead.
I would not have a relationship with a transman because I like heterosexual, biological males and what they bring to the bedroom. I don't want to have sex with a vagina. I"m not bi.
I could certainly be good friends with a transman, but romantic involvement is where I'd draw the line. And I'd be upfront about that too.
But get a feeling for the room before you tell someone. I wouldn't do it on a first date. You might have a miserable time. No need to tell someone at that juncture. But IF you're having a good time and it looks like it'll get past a 2nd date, it's time to tell.
Don't be nervous about telling someone essential information At most, they'd be disappointed. At best, it won't matter.10 Reply
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+1 yYes.
I'm bisexual, though pansexual also applies to me, and my go-to line is "I date the soul, not the form".
I've also been exploring my gender identity more, realizing I was *raised* as a cis woman but may not necessarily identify as such. It's a work in progress and I'm probably years out from making any big decisions.
For me, if the connection is there and we click, I'm very happy to date and be intimate with a trans person.40 Reply
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1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. See this is one of those trick question that bait people like me, who are idiots and can't resist telling you the truth.
I am heterosexual, I self identify as being heterosexual, so HEL NO would I get with a transgender. Heterosexuals believe in biology and not whatever you confidence yourself in your head. So its impossible to self identify as a hetero and then be with a transgender. You literally have to be something other than hetero to be okay with being with being with a transgender.
I am not shaming transgenders, live and let live says me. But I don't want it round me, it makes me feel super creepy and uncomfortable and that is perfectly okay. Because we all like what we like and don't like what we don't like. I am not into period, I think its mental health issue and that is just how it with me. And for any transgender or anyone else that wants to tell me how screwed up I am... all I can say is that I can accept you for what you are without putting shaming you, so you got to respect me for me for what I am. Its a two way street. So do not fool yourself into believing that everyone will respect you for what you are. I forgive all types of people for being who and what they are and even though I can understand it on some level... doesn't mean I have to respect it.
I am PRO-HETRO and not anti anything... but I am PRO-HETRO so don't get it confused.20 ReplyNo, I'm only attracted to women.
Lots of men are "pansexual" (gay) nowadays, so transpeople don't exactly have a hard time finding potential partners to be with. As long as you don't lie or deceive them by making them believe you're a biological female, because they would not be consenting to gay sex (intercourse with a biological male), and you'd be committing sexual assault by not telling them if it got that far.
So just don't trick people into sleeping with you if you're going to be trans; because that's how some of them get killed, and frankly, I don't feel bad for them if they do. Same with any normal male rapist who got murdered by their victim.722 Reply- +1 y
@NobodyXox
An inverted, f*cked-up inside-out penis that needs to be kept from closing through dilation, is not anything close to an actual vagina. It's basically asking men to stick their dick in an open flesh wound. Not to mention, at leas half of trans people nowadays don't have get the "gaping wound, inverted penis" surgery.
And speaking personally, I'd never in a million years sleep with a transperson. Like I said, I have zero attraction to men, or men in wigs and makeup who believe they "pass" as women when 95% of the time, being 6'2" with a giant brow and boxer's jaw is a dead giveaway they're not female. - +1 y
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Keep thinking that, but Trans Panic is a thing in many places, and if I fully support if if transpeople want to rape heterosexual men.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_panic_defense
If they kill you because you raped them, you can't say shit about it. Don't cry or bitch about "transphobia: while you're willingly committing rape against men you know are not homosexual or "pansexual."
You're not doing transpeople ANY favors by excusing rape because you hid the fact you were a man to them and then tricked them into having sex with you, likely when they were super-drunk and couldn't think straight, no pun intended.
I 100% wouldn't feel sorry for you if they beat the shit out of you and/or killed you after that. You know damn well what you're doing is wrong and all kinds of fucked-up, but don't care because you're selfish. - +1 y
@NobodyXox
All of this bullshit and making excuses for rape, when there's plenty of gay men you could just go after. - +1 y
It's not rape. You gave consent.
If I fuck a guy and I find out that he's a drug addict after we had sex. I wouldn't have if I knew. But it wouldn't be considered rape because I gave consent in the first place right?
And at what point do you tell them? As soon as you look at a girl? When you start flirting? When you kiss her? When she's at your house? When you start undressing her? At what point does she have to tell you that she's trans? - +1 y
I can't speak every transperson, but if i meet someone through an online dating site or app, i make sure to CLEARLY state that i am trans not only in my profile but also through messages.
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@NobodyXox
I said legally it'd be "sexual assault," but in reality, they didn't consent to gay sex, which is probably traumatizing enough to make some men commit suicide. And any point before the bedroom, they can tell them. The fact of the matter is, if you trick a straight man into having sex with another man (transwoman), then he didn't consent to the gay sex that was going on.
And you can be "pansexual" (gay) all you want. Go find others out there like that. But don't sexually assault straight men who are not attracted to cock or Y chromosomes because you want to be a selfish piece of shit who has no regard for others. Crap like this is why the majority of people don't accept the trans-community and many of us don't even tolerate them anymore. As if anyone gives a fuck about being called "tRaNsPhObIc" at this point, when you're excusing rape. - +1 y
Is it rape, if both parties give their consent, and the transperson informs the other party clearly prior to even meeting? No it isn't.
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@NobodyXox
It's gay for two people of the same biological sex to fuck, yes. That's literally what homosexuality is.
@Girls-unite
Good that you tell them. Too bad so many other trans out there are fine with raping straight men, then want to bitch about "transphobia" when the victim goes apeshit on them, like your friend here. - +1 y
@NobodyXox
Fuck off, rapist.
I'm done with your shit. - +1 y
@NobodyXox
Just ignore this ignorant little pathetic excuse. - +1 y
@Girls-unite
If you want to know why most people are against trans-issues, among other things (like having them compete in women's sports), then that other guy is exactly why we feel this way. You can't pressure and harass people into "acceptance." I think more ethical transpeople need to speak up against the likes of Joe Rapist down there and all the other selfish assholes who thinks being trans gives them license to do whatever they want because Twitter and woke politics will protect them from consequences. - +1 y
Nobody here is trying to pressure anyone into anything.
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@Girls-unite your whole life has been an excuse LOL! Don't call anyone normal and excuse when your confused
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI have a friend who is transgender. The dating scene is so hard. I feel bad for her. She always talks to me about how she feels no one would ever love her or at least take her seriously. She was venting to me about how she always has to be hidden and how it makes her feel like she is not lovable like a normal human being. I can only imagine what it is like. She told me that when she goes on dates behind closed doors it’s like her dreams come true, the feeling, the interaction, affection. All she ever wanted and is so grateful for, when she At least gets to kiss a guy. That’s all she ever wants and have always wanted. She said it makes her feel so alive. Although again, always being kept a secret and behind closed doors. She has never been on a date ever. And she has never even been in a relationship or had a boyfriend. But she is so strong. I love my friend
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I feel her pain.
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She made her choice to transition. Men and women can make their choice on who to date.
Yes, of course! I like women, and that includes trans women.
I've never had a long-term relationship with a woman who was trans, I must say. But I think it's just that it never happened. I've been intimate with a few trans women, who I liked very much, and it's just as natural as any other relationship I had.
I just wanted to add that most people who say "no" have never had the chance to actually get to know a trans person. GAG in particular seems to be a bit conservative in this sense. Most people don't know what "trans" means and are confused to believe that it's all an act or a fetish or something.30 ReplyYes I'm kind of doing now. She is an amazing person and I do care a lot about her. But I'm not sure how attracted I am. But it has more to do with her looks right now than the fact that she is trans. I know looks are not everything but I'm sure if I can look past it.
But I would for sure date another trans woman or trans man again.40 Reply692 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope, not at all, but that's just my preference. Everyone has a different preference for dating. I get shot down a lot because I'm married and still chasing after women. You don't know who's going to be into you and accept you for you until you throw yourself out there.
Much like I've experienced with women "wanting a relationship" but just wanting a threesome, you'll likely get a lot of people who just view you as an experience to have, rather than a person. Don't let it get you down though, dating/love is just rough, regardless of who you are.01 Reply- +1 y
'I get shot down a lot because I'm married and still chasing after women. You don't know who's going to be into you and accept you for you until you throw yourself out there.'
What did I just read. 😂
+1 yI think the honest answer to this question is that you really just don't fully know until you are put in that situation. While I know not everyone is open-minded enough for that, I would at least hope enough are that someone would genuinely find you amazing and love you for who you are completely.
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+1 yTruthfully, no. I like the idea of being with a naturally born girl. The thing is, I've noticed online that transgender girls (I think that's what it's called) seem to be a lot more bold and attempt to be more seductive than a lot of real women, but it's still not enough. I'd still only date a natural female. I wish you luck in your endeavor though.
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+1 yNo I wouldn't.
If you don't mind the advice, I understand dating can also be dangerous for trans people. If you are dating, please tell the person before you meet them anywhere.
It is important that they know while you're in a safe place they don't know.
You should want a person that will accept this aspect of you.40 ReplyYes. And it doesn't matter what your gender identity is, I have no problems being romantic with anyone who is transgender.
Honestly, I have fantasized about it, specifically transgender women with a penis and testicles. Breasts would be nice as well, but I'm fine with no augmentation or hormones.10 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope. I have no problem being friends with trans people, but I would NEVER have a sexual relationship with one. I'm into honest to goodness females.
It must be awkward for you, because if someone tricked me into thinking they were female and later admitted that they were trans, I'd be pissed that they had been dishonest and played me.28 Reply- +1 y
Doesn't sound like this person is into "tricking" people. Sounds like they're simply nervous about telling someone. I think that's a reasonable reason to be nervous. Some people are violent toward trans people. I'd play that card close to my vest. Tell when it's necessary, a few dates in. OR, right away if it seems the first encounter is going very well and a second date is impending.
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@Screenwriter m. nah, that’s being deceptive, especially waiting for a few dates. And being deceptive is what’s most likely to cause problems.
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Exactly, Avicenna. A guy could definitely feel like he was tricked into spending time, energy and money on a phony. The idea that a straight guy wouldn't care if you were trans once he got to know you is delusional. It could also be dangerous.
I would recommend being up front about who you are from the get go. Tell any suitors that you are transgender 'before' the first date. Put trans on your dating profile. That way you'll know that any guys who want to date you are fine with your identity. - +1 y
@Avicenna If you go on a first date and it turns out badly, what is the point in revealing something this personal? If the first date goes well, then you have the option of telling then and there. That's not being deceptive, it's being cautious about spreading your personal information all over town. I have a medical condition that's personal. I reveal it to very few people and certainly not to people I don't know well. That's not being deceptive, that's being careful.
If I have one date and nothing goes past that, what would be the point of total revelation? And, you're right, some straight guys could be mad. Someone mad could announce your status all over the internet or the date site.
Some things are personal. Everything doesn't need to be revealed all at once. I say, feel out how things are going, then decide. First or second date is good enough. But often even after. a second date, things go south. Then it's no loss about issues that are private and touchy. - +1 y
@Screenwriter. If you are "trans gender", transvestite or gay, own it. Don't try to lure straight guys. That's deceptive and creepy as fuck.
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@Screenwriter: A person being trans is not the same thing as a medical condition. If someone isn't comfortable about being trans or telling prospective dates that they are trans, they should not be dating,, period. And not mentioning something like that is being deceptive, especially when a dating profile leads men to believe that a person is a biological woman.
Regarding medical conditions, even those sometimes should be disclosed. If your date unexpectedly shows up in a wheelchair and it turns out they can’t walk, that’s something you should have told them because it greatly affects your dating life. - +1 y
@Avicenna If someone is uncomfortable about telling people they are trans they shouldn't be dating? You aren't being realistic. There is such prejudice about this subject. I don't think it matters until the person finds out if they like the person they're on the date with and it's mutual. If it's a washout, no harm, no foul.
16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Absolutely not.
The vast majority of people would never do that, so it is best for you to be completely upfront about it, including putting it on your dating profile and ensuring anyone who is interested in you understands you are in order to avoid any unpleasant surprises.20 Reply
+1 yOnly a fag is going to want to suck a dick. Sad but true right, I'm not trying to be mean here... it's just a fact. I think if you're honest from the start and don't "trick" people you'll find people that want to get with you just fine and won't end up getting ended by some Marine with a complex. Personally, I've had my dick sucked and I was tricked... just don't fuck around with trying to trick people and you should be fine.
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+1 yNo I don't think so. But I could have a very good friendship with one.
I consider the point that even though my deep core values might not agree with another's it doesn't mean we can't be fantastic friends. They obviously have to at least have that same belief.00 ReplyYes, I would have a romantic & intimate relationship with someone (male or female) transgender. They are human just like the rest of us, their heart beats, they have feelings. I could go on; however, I am on my weekly *soapbox* as I call it. Life is way too short as it is to miss out on happiness. However, remember no one can make you happy, only you can make yourself happy! Congrats on 'coming out', I think it's great.
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+1 yDear Person,
Personally, as a guy/man/male. I would not want to have a romantic &/or intimate relationship with a transgender. Unless, the other is a female. However, that is just me being traditional. Set aside your fear becuase love has no boundaries.
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+1 yI would not, simply because I want kids with my partner, and that kind of precludes it.
You could of course though find a transgender person to date, and take it from there.
I am sure a lot of people appreciate your honest though, best to get that out of the way before too much emotion, feelings and time is wasted if it is a problem.00 Reply
+1 yAre the answers going to hurt you?
With everything in life, there will always be yes and no from people. Maybe this is a confirmation type question. Gag is a small sample size.
I personally wouldn't have a relationship with them.
It is much safer and advantageous to be honest... especially if you want a person to love all of you and to understand you better.00 Reply
+1 yWould I have sex with a female that believes That she Is a man but if Fucked she would get pregnant.
No I wouldn’t but I would recommend her to Head down to her local Mental hospital 🏥
To get her Hallucinations and delusions fixed.
These People aren’t right in the head. They are jealous of the other gender because they wanna be that gender but are not so that Jealousy has turned into full blown hallucinations and delusions.21 Reply
+1 yLook I been crossdressing for close to 40 years and with all that experience being in the public eye.
I still get nervousness every once in while out in public
I may not be transgender, but I know what its like to spill your guts to a love one00 ReplyNo, I view this as corruption of the natural order. I also think it's choosing desire over what's good for society. Trans don't have children & they also fail to accept how god made them. This is just my opinion & I don't think I have the right to impose what I believe over others. I respect free will.
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+1 yit is good that you tell the people you are dating that you are transgender, because honesty is the best policy, but I would never date a transgender person, they are not my preference at all, that's just my views though.
10 ReplyI know several transgender people who are lovely to be around. Sadly in my two separate attempts to involve transgendered individuals in my life I found them to be extremely emotionally unstable and borderline narcissistic. I simply am not willing to experience that again.
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+1 yI’m demisexual, so if my girlfriend was trans, I’d still love her the same. If she was a man, I’d love him the same. It’s all about the emotional bond and the chemistry for me. I fall in love with souls, and souls transcend gender.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYou probably will always get nervous, but as long as you're upfront and let them know early, that's your best way. Usually the only time it will upset someone is if they are lead to believe otherwise and find this out later. So the earlier the better.
00 Reply976 opinions shared on Dating topic. No.
Besides the obvious reasons, I'm not into people who can't accept and be proud of themselves as they are, or pretend to be someone they aren't. It's a huge personality flaw that turns me off in pretty much any context.10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Then you're not as "happy" as you like to pretend you are.
You expected validation, and got none. Don't see what else you were expecting when no one really cares about your mental non-issues.10 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yHmm Maybe. I think it would depend on the person.
It's also important to me that they're open about it and I know that early on.
But I've never been in the situation, so it's hard to tell really.00 Reply 393 opinions shared on Dating topic. I wouldn’t but I would be still friends with someone transgender and support them. It’d be an attraction thing for me personally and I want to be able to have children with my partner without outside help.
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+1 yno i wouldn't. but so what? if someone says no, you just move on. that's how we all do it.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo, because I'm not gay.. I'm sorry.. But unless you're born genetically a woman, you simply are not a woman. Period. It's basic genetics and biology.
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Opinion Owner+1 yAnd any trans person that believes they are entitled to straight men need to wake up and understand that most rational thinking straight men do not want you.. Period.
Opinion Owner+1 yTo those that downvoted me, your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer.
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Opinion Owner+1 yMost leftists can't handle facts
Opinion Owner+1 yThank you by the way.
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+1 yNo. I want a man who was born a man and is comfortable in his body and his masculinity
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+1 yNo. Gender (Man/Woman) may be a social construct, but biology (Male/Female) is not. I'm not attracted to biological males, regardless of how they present. Even worse, the more feminine their presentation, the more I experience an Uncanny Valley anxiety.
I'll use she/her pronouns and treat them as they want to be treated, but until we actually figure out how to manipulate DNA and biologically change someone from a male to female I'll remain a hard NO.20 Reply
+1 yYes, if I like that person then it won't matter what gender they identify with or their transition
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+1 yNope... and that is all I am going to say about that
50 Reply I don't want to have a relationship with someone who was born as a male.
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+1 yNo. I would never consent to having a romantic/intimate relationship with a transwoman. If I was ever tricked into it (raped), you can expect a violent response. Tell them.
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+1 yNot for me but I would encourage you to never feel bad about yourself and definitely continue down your path and I wish you the best of luck
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+1 yAs much as I would want to say yes I have to say no. I really want kids but I am sure you find a man willing to date you don't give up. Keep searching for them.
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+1 yNo, because I only date women- "transwomen" are not real women, they are men who have a severe mental illness, and they need significant psychiatric help.
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+1 yNo, it'd be pointless. I'd like to have kids. Why should I waste my time and emotion on someone that'll never give me any? If she got a uterus transplant and COULD get pregnant and have kids, then I'll consider it.
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no person born a biological man can have a uterus transplant, they tried making this happen in 2017, it's 2022 now and still no progress on it at all.
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@Starlight007 Sure they can! They were doing it back in the `90's. The only problem is, the kid had to be born via C-section.
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@FunkyMonkee, please send me a link to prove that because scientists are struggling to perform uterus transplants on biological men. check even on the tans women websites, the only options they have is a vagina surgery and hormone therapy, no uterus transplant option.
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transwomen*
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Womb/uterus transplants can only be done on biological women.
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@FunkyMonkee, I have now finished reading about 3 articles stating that uterus transplants cannot be successfully done on biological men, and that biological men can not al all get pregnant, they can only produce breast milk if they increase their hormone intake, but also increasing your hormone intake has fatal health risks, eg. blood clots, breast cancer.
Scientists are literally saying that it is impossible to perform a uterus transplant on biological men, a uterus implant is only possible on biological women and that's the facts.
The reason why doing this surgery is impossible is mostly because transgender or not you cannot change your biological make up, if you are born a male you are going to remain a male, even if you take feminizing hormones you will still remain a biological man, even if you get the vagina surgery (vaginoplasty) your sex reproductive organs are still male sex reproductive organs and the same happens as well for transgender women. So if you are a biological male you can never have a uterus transplant because your body was not designed for that so this means you can never get pregnant, scientists have tried to make this happen but they always fail and now they even state that it's never going to happen. - +1 y
at not al*
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and the same happens for transgender men not transgender women* please forgive my typing errors i type fast.
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@Starlight007 I know of no link. It was something I read in a newspaper back in the `90's.
Well, they STILL say there's no cure for cancer! In the meantime, we've had LOADS of them for who knows HOW long! I used 2 of them to cure mom a few years ago. She was LOADED with cancer!! So, cancer is NOT fatal... unless you either don't do shit about it or continue to use their antiquated and somewhat useless methods of dealing with it.
Yeah, I KNOW FTM's are gonna always be stuck with their vaginas.
No hormones are needed for men to breast feed. The kid just has to suck longer to get it started. If flat-chested women can still breast feed, why can't men? I know of some that do. They never took hormones to get it started.
I have a shitty keyboard and make lots of typos, too. That's why I usually proofread. I still might miss a few, though. - +1 y
hun, women have hormones like estrogen and progesterone, these hormones are what allow them to breastfeed remember a women's body is meant for giving birth and taking care of the baby by breastfeeding, men who want to breast feed need to take the feminizing hormones called progesterone and estrogen so that their brain can stimulate their body to produce breast milk, breast feeding a baby as a man with no feminine hormones will only grow your nipples no milk will come out no matter how long you do it for.
look hun I am well learned in science, I study it even so let me tell you this, a biological man will never be able to be pregnant and have a baby, the news paper you read probably said a transgender man gave birth via a uterus transplant. Some trans men are intersexual or are born with no uterus/womb but because they are already women biologically doing a uterus transplant is doable, because their bodies were meant to biological have a uterus, if a transgender man (a biological woman) has already done bottom surgery by getting male genitals then they cannot give birth naturally they require a c section. When i was in primary the news that a man gave birth was trending but now cause I know better that man was actually a biological woman who became transgender and got a penis surgery she gave birth to a healthy baby via c section.
In terms of cancer, there is no cure for it but you can still recover from it, many people managed to recover from cancer via chemotherapy, and other methods but these things are not a cure because they don't work for everyone many people unfortunately could not heal from cancer and they died. the one's who survive it are considered to be super lucky.
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Also remember what i said, transgender people take either feminizing and masculine hormones these hormones have fatal health risks such as strokes, blood clots, breast cancer etc. so if a guy takes the feminizing hormones, which grow the man's breasts but if they increase the dose it will help their body produce breast milk like i said and increasing the dose makes them even more susceptible to getting blood clots and breast cancer etc., because those hormones are meant to be possessed by biological women and because they are biological men taking them does their body harm, because they are introducing a foreign substance in their body that struggles to benefit their bodies because it does not belong there so it does them harm as a result.
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@Starlight007 Listen and learn.
https://youtu.be/ipSK8uN3AnI
Men also have estrogen. That's why they start growing tits in their later years. The testosterone isn't running as rampant in them ans much as it used to so, the estrogen they have kinda starts to take over. Just the reverse is true with women and why their tits go flappy after the baby factory closes up shop for good! I suspect this is also why so many of them get their hair cut REAL short to point of looking like men with tits.
And I have already said that cancer can easily be cured!
" the news paper you read probably said a transgender man gave birth via a uterus transplant." Isn't that what I've bee saying? He went trans and he decided to try out this new thing they had where he (now, she) could get a uterus and get pregnant and have a baby, and it worked.
Why would an FTM need a c-section? He's already got the pussy! - +1 y
@Starlight007 There are nearly 400 known natural cures for cancer!! Chemo and radiation are NOT on the list!! I cured mom's cancer with baking soda! I started giving to her the day I found out she was LOADED with it!! She had HUGE green and purple welts all over her body!! Within a week or two, her Dr. came into her room at the hospital and told her, "I don't know what you're doing and I DON'T WANT to know but, whatever it is, keep doing it because your cancer is going away!!" Within 2 months, she was clean as a whistle!! The best cure I know is blushwood berries. I don't know what they do to them but, whatever it is, it can cure even stage 4 cancer within 48 HOURS!!
The problem is, you only know corporate "science". They only taught you what they WANT you to know! Now, had you been studying REAL science, you'd know a lot more stuff! You're young, you can still learn about this stuff and more.
Stroke is also very close to being curable! There's a Dr. in Florida that tried something on a stroke victim and it actually worked wonders! He's treated many others since then with, not exactly amazing results, but WELL more than was hoped for and enough to raise hope for a cure. So far, the results just keep getting better and better! One shot works wonders immediately but, over time, the patient just keeps improving!! - +1 y
Yes men have estrogen but not in high amounts and women have testosterone but not in high amounts when you take the hormones (trans hormones) you increase the testosterone and estrogen/progesterone levels it negatively impacts your body because your body because it was not built to handle those hormones it in such high amounts. only biological women are biologically wired to possess estrogen and progesterone in higher amounts than in biological men. that's why long term use, increased dosage and even taking these hormones in general is discouraged because then you became more susceptible to experiencing the fatal symptoms, blood clots, cancer, etc.
As for the trans birth I though you said a transgender woman (biological male) had a uterus transplant and gave birth via c section so my argument was it is impossible for a transgender woman to have a uterus transplant successfully because their bodies will always be biologically male regardless if whether they take feminizing hormones or not, you can never change your biological make up, and biological men can never be pregnant or have uterus transplants.
That''s the facts!. As for the C section not all transwomen got a vaginoplasty some still have their natural sex organs so if they ever got pregnant (hypothetically speaking) they would need a c section and then also the trans woman vagina does not function like a biological woman's vagina, it is not as elastic as the biological woman's vagina in fact a trans woman's vagina needs to be dilated, and, some trans women cannot use their surgical vagina for sex even and they need to have sex anally because their vagina cannot stretch wide enough for vaginal intercourse. - +1 y
As for cancer those natural cures are not really cures because they do not work for everyone unfortunately, most people still die after using those natural cancer remedies. This is the harsh reality of things, and certain types of cancer are more fatal than others.
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Also prevention is better than cure any way, its better to eat foods and take great care of your body, cause we can all agree on the fact that taking good care of your body and health can prevent any illness.
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@Starlight007 The ones that never got their bottom done are, technically, not called trans. I've been away from the trans world for a few years so, I forget what they're called.
A bigger issue is that their hips are not built for having babies so, that's why they'd HAVE to get a C-section!
As for them not being able to fuck, those dilators they use are at least as big as a dick! I've seen some of them that a friend of mine had to use and the bigger ones were bigger than my dick, and that's NOT small!! If they can take those, they can take a dick! At least the average dick.
There are nearly 400 cures! if one doesn't work, which is highly doubtful, try any of the other 400!!
Cancer is cancer. There are no various types. Maybe getting it in one part of the body is worse than others but it's still cancer. It feeds on sugar and can only live in an acidic environment. Make the environment it's in alkaline and it'll die off! That's where baking soda comes in. Just don't use Arm & Hammer because it has aluminum in it! It'll still kill the cancer, but the aluminum could cause other problems.
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@Starlight007 It sure can but, some people don't listen or care.
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My main point is that trans women can never have uterus transplants and they will therefore never be able to get pregnant, that's a fact!. As for cancer, A man once told me that in life everyone has the right to believe anything they want to believe, if you believe that cancer has 400 cures that work for all people I will never try to make you believe otherwise even though people are dying of cancer everyday who have received all kinds of natural remedies.
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@Starlight007 All I know is, dad had thousands of tiny spots of cancer all over his body. After he died from it, I decided to look online for cancer cures. I went to YT and searched, "cures for cancer' and found loads of info on it!! I wish I had looked it up BEFORE he died!! Mom got cancer 5 years later and didn't bother to tell anyone about it for 3 years. Once I found out, I got the stuff I needed to make a cure and, as I said, within 2 months, she was clean!!
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I'm sorry to hear that and also my condolences to your dad💓🌹
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I know it happens that people with cancer try out natural remedies and heal in that way so i am happy your mom healed from that horrible illness.
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@Starlight007 Thank you for both. sadly, she died 8 years ago. She didn't die OF cancer but it did play a role in her demise. She lived at least another 14 months after I cured her.
She had cancer at least 3 years before we found out about it and she knew it but never said anything us about it until it was all over her body. She had a stroke a few years after dad died and she said that she suspected she had cancer and was going to have it checked out but, she had the stroke, first and lost temporary use of her right arm. The day she was rushed to the hospital, her Dr. told her she has cancer and e could cut it out then and there but she's also lose temporary use of her left arm so, she opted not to have it dealt with `til she could use her right arm, again and told him not to say anything to us about the cancer. At least 3 years later, we found out and, by then, it had eaten thousands of tiny pinholes ion the bones in her left leg!! They said that, had she waited any longer, her bones would've shattered to crumbs! They put a rod in her leg and, as she was healing up from that, I made this stuff to cure her cancer.
Later that year, Christmas night, about 8 months after I cured her, she discovered that she couldn't walk anymore. The metal in her leg no longer had anything to attach to because her pelvic bone was gone. She spent the next (her last) 7 months in a chair lift or wheelchair. Because she jjust sat all that time, she developed a big saddle sore on her as! The visiting nurse said she'd have to stay in bed for a while `til that healed up but that's what killed her! Her muscles atrophied and, within 2 weeks, she couldn't even swallow or talk anymore! After just one week, she couldn't even lift the t. v. remote, anymore! She died 6 days after my b-day. And my ex-sisters turned the whole thing into thee biggest nightmare of a funeral I've ever seen!! And then, they SEVERELY fucked ME over!!
+1 yOnly a transwoman with their parts still intact.
I like man parts too much to switch to tribbing. And i want to be able to conceive children naturally without a 3rd party.00 ReplyI would if I would be single. It depends on the person before anything else. As long as they are a men I dont care if trans or not. I am just not attracted to women of any kind.
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+1 yNo at all, God created everyone beautiful in their own image and marriage is to be between one man and one woman. Not man with man or woman with woman
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u +1 yNever. Absolutely not.
60 Reply No. I am straight and I completely respect people's decisions but no, because it's hard to adjust i guess you could say?
10 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. If you look this feminine then sure:
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+1 yWhy would I want to get in a relationship with a man? And why do they always look like men even after changing their gender?
20 ReplyYes no problem, be amazing if she told me later, ie after a few kisses and cuddles, but please be careful and upfront, some guys go mental if they dont know at first,,,
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+1 yFuck no because:
1. They have serious mental issues.
2. They have a dick or they look like a man with a pussy. So either way just hell no.40 Reply
+1 yI would not because I am a girl, but guys should consider it
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@jengeorge26 what the hell is wrong with you?
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Meant to address @jengeorge26.
But @JohnK123 you can stick yours whoever feel happy to stick it. But a will not for a second tolerate being “shamed” for not wanting to date nor should anyone else.
But that is really going on. Transsexuals are trying to shame cisgendered people for not wanting to date them. It’s sick and twisted. - +1 y
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What is wrong with you? - +1 y
Honestly the ONLY thing that matters is whether you have a sweet personality, caring nature, and whether you radiate feminine energy or not.
It really is that simple.10 ReplyI wouldn't. I am only attracted to natural born women
20 Reply312 opinions shared on Dating topic. yes if the attraction was there, also many are also bi or pansexual, non-mono or poly so that's a plus.
00 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I could be friends with someone who was transgender but I wouldn't be in a relationship with them.
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+1 yI would not. Friendship, sure. An intimate or romantic relationship, no.
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+1 yhell no, they aren't real women. just living a lie. plus they are very unhealthy and need constant surgery and medicine. talk about an expensive date for something that barely looks human
10 Reply 6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope I wouldn’t.
No hate or anything I’m just not interested or attracted to it.20 Reply- 601 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI support anyone who dates transgender and all that, I wouldn't date one. I like my women born, not made. lol
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Girls-unite, I can understand your apprehension. Men don't like being lied to about the gender of who they are dating. I know you are a woman now, but most straight men want a woman who was born that way, because babies.
I don't know what can be done, but maybe try looking for sites where trans people can meet others who are accepting.
Good luck.
+1 yI personally wouldn't.
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