Girls, Why would more girls like me than the girls I like?

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I've always had a problem where more women were into me than I was into them. I question whether their faking or what there motive is. In the past 8 years I've been attracted to 7 women, but 30 tried to be with me (that is women I somewhat knew) and more randomly approached me. I wouldn't say I'm visually impressive, I'm 6'2", 220 lbs, have light brown hair, and have dark blue eyes (fairly common). I know a lot of people taller than me. As far as personality, I've been accused of being a robot, though some people say I'm nice. I don't know if I appeal to some standard. What I never understood is why random women came up to me, for me there are too many unknown variables with people I don't know. Also I've never been approached by a woman I was attracted to, none of the girls were ugly but I felt nothing. The last woman I was attracted to the feeling was clearly mutual, but things didn't work out. I've been attracted to a variety of women, so my scope isn't too limited. I really like black hair, but I've been attracted to a red head and a blond before. If it's not mutual why approach. I could be friends with a woman I wasn't attracted to, but most don't seem to want that. I'm beginning to think more women like the idea of me than me.
Girls, Why would more girls like me than the girls I like?
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