What's your definition of keeping things "equal" in a relationship? (Page 2)

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I've seen this a lot on here. To me, it means INFINITY on both sides :) I've seen some say 50/50. I've seen some who just prefer that neither party gives any effort, so 0/0. The problem with these, in my eyes, is that they have caps on them and show lack of effort. If both parties are infinitely willing to contribute and be happy together, it makes for a success. This is a HUGE part of what's wrong with relationships and marriages today. What's your view?

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Well I'm open to sharing responsibility and things being equal in a relationship but I don't think things will ever be equal. I just think its certain things a man is supposed to go plus I like spoiling the woman in my life

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t subscribe to that. Women and men are biologically different, and therefore offer a lot of different things within a romantic relationship. When you start attempting to make everything 50/50 it doesn’t make sense and it throws off the dynamic.

Meangurl · Answer

I agree with you it takes each person giving 100% in a relationship to make it work

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ve never been in an equal relationship I’m the one that Does all the work paying for things organizing things

TheAfrikan · Answer

We both have to play an equal part, because a relationship is made of two sides man n woman. So once we come together and help each other out, that way we can stay strong.

mrgspoter · Answer

Well im quite clumbsy and I can't be trusted to do dishes or cloths, so that's a start but I'm also good at dirtying them both too so there is that to think off.

scooogy · Answer

He does his best to make her feel happy and she does her best to make him feel safe and at ease with her.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

If I'd be the one doing all effort to keep the relationship going and have to initiate everything, its a not. There should definitely be equality

InferiorElegy · Answer

50/50 for sure, once one hand gets tired switch to the other.

alance99 · Answer

I will do or sacrifice anything for my partner and expect the same

Amer96 · Answer

I think equality won't work all the time for example there must be a dominant and submissive while having sex

Anonymous · Answer

She cooks, cleans, sucks and fucks  She can have a job if she wants.. I work as much as i can.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Then we would be good together. 😎

Nayyr · Answer

She takes all my money and she gives me nothing

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I really like your viewpoint

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