Well at least if they look nice when you meet them because you were attracted to them back then , you get to grow old and change together , not start out that way with someone new if get what I mean
on the other hand I hate how they seem comfortable with letting a guy approach them, I mean what in the world should happen if a girl approached a guy?
This is true to an extent but they must also be hot. From 20 to 60 is a long time to be uggo. Yes you can be relatively attractive to 60 easily. I've seen some old ladies i was like hmm i wouldn't mind that. And I've seen 20 year olds who are fucking hideous. I just couldn't.
No we all don't, I didn't... I based it off the person he was, the character, the strength the MAN he was... And my girls turned out just fine... Two good looking people don't necessarily mean they're kids will be... People kill me with that...
well you catch people's attention from your looks, then they decide if they want to go up to you or not. so in a way, looks kind of matter, since that's all they'll know when they approach you
You can't go "just" by physical appearance, but you can't disregard the laws of attraction either, particularly when you're young. It matters less the older you get.
Today's failure rate vs 75 - 100 years ago is based on more than just that. Divorce was not economically feasible for most women in the past. Security and family were more important, so great looks were simply a plus, and you stuck out your marriage even if it wasn't the greatest. Now, everything seems to be at the extremes. On one end, you have a proliferation of the "instant gratification" way of dating. On the other end, you have those saving it for marriage and building a fantasy that requires a mate with the exact same one. And, you have kids who go crazy in their teens because someone broke their heart and "wasn't the one". That's all emotion based, not even looks.
But still not getting looks are subjective per individual... And people didn't get, that was whole reason used personal body pics, something I never do, not cuz I have an issue with my body, cuz hello it's the internet lololol And I wasn't looking for compliments or insults, but funny... Got both... Now, which mattered more π€ neither cuz that would mean strangers opinions of me matter more than mine, and I'm sorry but they just really don't... But it does prove people look at the same person and see different things...
Your last sentence has always been true. I'd venture to guess that "most" people are unhappy with their bodies especially as they get older, so the whole "nudes" fad is dumb in my eyes. That said, you're correct that it fosters even more attention on the physical. If there IS a good thing about it however, it's an instant tip off and "pre-screening" for the girls, for free !! If a guy wants your nudes right away, drop him in a nanosecond. You just saved yourself a LOT of time and energy !!
People can do whatever they want, point is when that's how you choose your partner and it don't work out, then don't cry about it/whine about it when it backfires on you π€·πΌββοΈ
I mean I tend to go for personality, attitude and character more. but I personally think the 2020 photos look much better the then 2019 ones. both seem healthy options but like the curves she gained.
Thanks lol wasn't fishing for compliments... Just trying to show people are ever changing, but one thing is the same, I'M THE SAME in personality, and character whether I look like last year or now and could look totally different by next year
yes and because of you and a few other women I know that are older then me. you all kind of make me want to date slightly older woman. who knows how to treat her man like a man and not a boy or a fuck stick to bail on.
Well then go for it π and aww twins π₯° although better you than me lolol one baby at a time enough lololol waiting on my two year old grandson to get here π₯° they do adorable at that age.. The teenage years tho π±π± lololol
trouble for me is finding someone who would wanna date me knowing I have kids already. which I why I am open to dating women without or with children. because I know ones with children are in a similar boat. where they have limited options for long term partners.
Physical looks leave the first impression, and come on, you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone you don't find physically attractive, would you?
I'm not concerned about anything... I just see too many people in here taking so much about physical looks the whole point is people can change for the worse for the better, you pass sometime over for being a little overweight, when they might not always be that way, or date sometime just cuz they skinny when they might not always be that way
@Brainsbeforebeauty Poor diet choices are a lifestyle habit. There's nothing wrong with dating someone who is overweight, but they had better be willing to change.
And no, people won't always be skinny. But at least if they start skinny they have further to go before becoming obese.
I'm not trying to be mean or make anyone feel bad. These are just the facts. (And they apply to us men as well.)
Lets say person A and person B have a wonderful personality, a great heart and many of the sam interests as you do but you like how person A looks but not person B. Which do you think you should go for when it comes to starting a relationship?
You can see people change on the inside by things as simple as struggling to lose weight. When they struggle long enough, they give up. Now they have allowed that weight to change them inside as well. Now I donβt want to be with her for who she is inside. Not because of the weight she gained and canβt lose.
@Brainsbeforebeauty I am going to use an extreme example to make a point here. Their left foot is webbed. They have an extra toe on their right foot. Their right leg is serverly biw legged. When both arms are stretched straight out in front of them the fingers on their left hand end at their right elbow. They have an ectrodactyly right hand. They have severe acne and tons of warts all over their body. Their eyes are severely crossed. They have at least 25 ear, facial and body piercings. They have at least 30 tatoos which any number of them might be pornographic or sacrilegious. Are you going to want to be with that person looking like that tegardless how how good their personzlity and heart are and how many interestsyou share with themp? Most likely not but your question nullifies a person's looks. Most people do not want to start a relationship with someone they are not physically attracted to or who is not physically attracted to them regardless how the other person is as a person.
So what if your partner got burned by acid and it scarred them, it was in a fire and it scarred them? Would you discard them? And I'm not saying Physical attraction shouldn't matter at all, but yeah both times I married, it was for who they were cuz neither would of been what I'm physically attractive to just based on looks
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Well at least if they look nice when you meet them because you were attracted to them back then , you get to grow old and change together , not start out that way with someone new if get what I mean
I think it's like telling them that sweets are bad for your teeth. They still eat them.
But then cry when they gain weight or get cavities ππ
on the other hand I hate how they seem comfortable with letting a guy approach them, I mean what in the world should happen if a girl approached a guy?
This is true to an extent but they must also be hot. From 20 to 60 is a long time to be uggo. Yes you can be relatively attractive to 60 easily. I've seen some old ladies i was like hmm i wouldn't mind that. And I've seen 20 year olds who are fucking hideous. I just couldn't.
Lol.
Well now you know I'm disappointed to say the least
Disappointed?
That crease in the bed it's very annoying
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No seriously, just please
Sorry my "crease" disappoints you π€£π€£π€£
I don't believe that's good enough
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Because we can't help it no matter how many times that is said.
It's more physical because naturally whether you realize it or not we each look for signs of fertility and for possibly good mate.
No we all don't, I didn't... I based it off the person he was, the character, the strength the MAN he was... And my girls turned out just fine... Two good looking people don't necessarily mean they're kids will be... People kill me with that...
well you catch people's attention from your looks, then they decide if they want to go up to you or not. so in a way, looks kind of matter, since that's all they'll know when they approach you
You can't go "just" by physical appearance, but you can't disregard the laws of attraction either, particularly when you're young. It matters less the older you get.
Ever stop to think why do many relationships fail with younger people? Cuz they went by just looks, maybe π€
Today's failure rate vs 75 - 100 years ago is based on more than just that. Divorce was not economically feasible for most women in the past. Security and family were more important, so great looks were simply a plus, and you stuck out your marriage even if it wasn't the greatest. Now, everything seems to be at the extremes. On one end, you have a proliferation of the "instant gratification" way of dating. On the other end, you have those saving it for marriage and building a fantasy that requires a mate with the exact same one. And, you have kids who go crazy in their teens because someone broke their heart and "wasn't the one". That's all emotion based, not even looks.
But still not getting looks are subjective per individual... And people didn't get, that was whole reason used personal body pics, something I never do, not cuz I have an issue with my body, cuz hello it's the internet lololol And I wasn't looking for compliments or insults, but funny... Got both... Now, which mattered more π€ neither cuz that would mean strangers opinions of me matter more than mine, and I'm sorry but they just really don't... But it does prove people look at the same person and see different things...
Your last sentence has always been true. I'd venture to guess that "most" people are unhappy with their bodies especially as they get older, so the whole "nudes" fad is dumb in my eyes. That said, you're correct that it fosters even more attention on the physical. If there IS a good thing about it however, it's an instant tip off and "pre-screening" for the girls, for free !! If a guy wants your nudes right away, drop him in a nanosecond. You just saved yourself a LOT of time and energy !!
Because responding to physical appearance is pretty much hardwired into our brains.
Because you cannot see a personality. Looks do matter. They are not as important, but they do matter.
You look really good 😉
Work in progress always lolol but thanks ππ
Well you still have an attractive body shape, looking really good girl π
Thanks π
Men are visually stimulated, this is biology no amount of wanting us to do differently is going to change that
People can do whatever they want, point is when that's how you choose your partner and it don't work out, then don't cry about it/whine about it when it backfires on you π€·πΌββοΈ
How would it backfire?
are those photos legit you?
I mean I tend to go for personality, attitude and character more. but I personally think the 2020 photos look much better the then 2019 ones. both seem healthy options but like the curves she gained.
Legit yeah, the hair should be recognizable π
must say you look great in both timelines
Thanks lol wasn't fishing for compliments... Just trying to show people are ever changing, but one thing is the same, I'M THE SAME in personality, and character whether I look like last year or now and could look totally different by next year
yes and because of you and a few other women I know that are older then me. you all kind of make me want to date slightly older woman. who knows how to treat her man like a man and not a boy or a fuck stick to bail on.
seems like women 40+ are more likely to have traditional values for a relationship.
Age doesn't always have to be a factor but will be if you still want kids... For those that don't, really don't, then it's not such an issue
have a set of twin boys from a ex. so don't plan on having more biological children really.
Well then go for it π and aww twins π₯° although better you than me lolol one baby at a time enough lololol waiting on my two year old grandson to get here π₯° they do adorable at that age.. The teenage years tho π±π± lololol
trouble for me is finding someone who would wanna date me knowing I have kids already. which I why I am open to dating women without or with children. because I know ones with children are in a similar boat. where they have limited options for long term partners.
You will
trying to date in a pandemic is a pain however.
Well yeah there's that
Physical looks leave the first impression, and come on, you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone you don't find physically attractive, would you?
Physical attraction can build just like love can
True
Mainly because they don't understand that personality is important.
Your right my legs are sexy
Oh bite me lolol told you your legs were sexier, don't gotta rub it in lololol
But your hair is much nicer than mine. But some how my hair lost body and bounce.
Now I sound like sampoo comercel
Lololol and I got better boobs hahahaha
I beg to differ. A wet tee shirt would prove settle this.
At least my boobs have hair
Hairy boobs don't mean better... Bet if you poll guys if they like hairy boobs, I'm pretty sure most will say no lololol
Okay okay you win. I submit and bow out. Besides most women dont like hairy boobs either
Why I shave mine lololol KIDDING πππ
No your not, the truth comes out hahahaha
Fine you got me...
https://images.app.goo.gl/ZFcmXLEBkWtnk2XJ7
Ooooo your a bad person. You used Google
Here is how you duckduckgo it
Lololol either way aren't I purty in purple :))
Well you look good in purple, but im sexy as hell in pink
Pretty in Pink lolol
I'm always sexy, so I don't care ;)
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When you pick a puppy to take home, do you pick the cutest or the ugliest?
People aren't puppies and you ain't ever seen people with ugly pets ππ
They probably found those and felt sorry
I don't understand; what are you concerned about? You look great in all of those photos.
I'm not concerned about anything... I just see too many people in here taking so much about physical looks the whole point is people can change for the worse for the better, you pass sometime over for being a little overweight, when they might not always be that way, or date sometime just cuz they skinny when they might not always be that way
@Brainsbeforebeauty Poor diet choices are a lifestyle habit. There's nothing wrong with dating someone who is overweight, but they had better be willing to change.
And no, people won't always be skinny. But at least if they start skinny they have further to go before becoming obese.
I'm not trying to be mean or make anyone feel bad. These are just the facts. (And they apply to us men as well.)
People can change physically and mentally.
But their heart and soul rarely does
You still should like how a person looks that you are with.
But the looks change so are you going to stop loving them then?
Lets say person A and person B have a wonderful personality, a great heart and many of the sam interests as you do but you like how person A looks but not person B. Which do you think you should go for when it comes to starting a relationship?
You can see people change on the inside by things as simple as struggling to lose weight. When they struggle long enough, they give up. Now they have allowed that weight to change them inside as well. Now I donβt want to be with her for who she is inside. Not because of the weight she gained and canβt lose.
@Brainsbeforebeauty
I am going to use an extreme example to make a point here.
Their left foot is webbed.
They have an extra toe on their right foot.
Their right leg is serverly biw legged.
When both arms are stretched straight out in front of them the fingers on their left hand end at their right elbow.
They have an ectrodactyly right hand.
They have severe acne and tons of warts all over their body.
Their eyes are severely crossed.
They have at least 25 ear, facial and body piercings.
They have at least 30 tatoos which any number of them might be pornographic or sacrilegious.
Are you going to want to be with that person looking like that tegardless how how good their personzlity and heart are and how many interestsyou share with themp? Most likely not but your question nullifies a person's looks. Most people do not want to start a relationship with someone they are not physically attracted to or who is not physically attracted to them regardless how the other person is as a person.
So what if your partner got burned by acid and it scarred them, it was in a fire and it scarred them? Would you discard them?
And I'm not saying Physical attraction shouldn't matter at all, but yeah both times I married, it was for who they were cuz neither would of been what I'm physically attractive to just based on looks