With holding back information, stealing from my family, our families. Its time to do something different somewhere else. I dont give a second at a first impression.
@SlightlyEccentric are you really comparing splurging with gambling... Seriously? I agree that careless spending and excessive shopping is not a good thing, but it is literally nearly not as bad as gambling.
First of all whether or not you 'need' something is very subjective matter. Sometimes a person may think they need something that their s. o. doesn't agree with. Happens a lot with my own parents where mom buys sth that dad thinks is unnecessary or dad buys sth that mom finds unnecessary. If you buy things that you don't need you can resell them or donate/gift them or find a way to use them and usually some simple budgeting and discipline. And hardly anyone spends to the level of bankruptcy.
Gambling is on a whole another league. A gambler literally puts their dopamine rush above their family. The money is completely lost for absolutely no reason, at least an unnecessarily bought item like a lipstick can still be put on. Some gamblers are even willing to beat their wives to get more money from them or even let women in their families get raped by men for more money.
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Not feeding my pet and let my pet die
Yikes that is terrible.
I can't say anything but if he can't care with what important for me. Its mean he can't take care of me too ๐
Ruining our finances, treating our children badly, scamming me or my family members, doing illegal things.
Physical abuse, manipulation of certain degrees, if they commit some kind of serious crime. All these are deal-breakers for me.
With holding back information, stealing from my family, our families. Its time to do something different somewhere else. I dont give a second at a first impression.
For hating my parents.
Not respecting my opinions and feelings.
Finding out heโs a pedophile
Getting an abortion.
Neglect of our child that led to death or serious injury.
Hard drugs being used or regular drug use.
Saying he gay after 10 kids and 100 years 😭😭
Yeah for sure that definitely goes both ways!
Hurting/abusing a child, and rape
Aborting our child that I wanted to keep.
Sharing my nudes to others lol
Bahahahahahahaha
drama. accusing , verbal abusing , not keeping promise and not taking things serious.
If he eats my pie I will throw him out. Period.
Hmmmmm what pie are we speaking of?
Apple pie ๐๐๐๐๐
@Aakash_Hangargi obviously ๐
Verbal or physical abuse
If he gambled all our money away.
So by that logic I would be completely justified in dumping her if she spent all of OUR money to buy shit we don't need?
This is why I'd never agree to a joint savings account. More trust issues to worry about.
@SlightlyEccentric but you wouldn't have to dump her if she knew this and chose wisely to not spend all the money on shit you don't need.
@SlightlyEccentric are you really comparing splurging with gambling... Seriously? I agree that careless spending and excessive shopping is not a good thing, but it is literally nearly not as bad as gambling.
First of all whether or not you 'need' something is very subjective matter. Sometimes a person may think they need something that their s. o. doesn't agree with. Happens a lot with my own parents where mom buys sth that dad thinks is unnecessary or dad buys sth that mom finds unnecessary. If you buy things that you don't need you can resell them or donate/gift them or find a way to use them and usually some simple budgeting and discipline. And hardly anyone spends to the level of bankruptcy.
Gambling is on a whole another league. A gambler literally puts their dopamine rush above their family. The money is completely lost for absolutely no reason, at least an unnecessarily bought item like a lipstick can still be put on. Some gamblers are even willing to beat their wives to get more money from them or even let women in their families get raped by men for more money.
I can't with man logic, my gosh.
Watching our anime show without me, unacceptable!!!
Rape
Abuse
Manipulation
Lying
Verbal or emotional abuse and lying about her past.
I'm always willing to forgive if they are contrite about their mistake.
If she tries to poison me or kill me.
Ha Ha Ha
They may say drink hydrogen peroxide. And she /he may believe it
Happened to me before, luckily I swapped the plate as I caught her mixing something unusual in the kitchen.