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Have you ever been in, or would you consider a polyamorous relationship? (Page 2)
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No. And I’m not a cuck so I wouldn’t ever be in one.
You do realize that 2 guys with one girl isn't the only dynamic that exists there? Though out of poly relationships I've seen, besides simply travelling and keeping your women geographically isolated it is pretty stable.
I have been in one before and I didn't mind it but I don't wanna do it again
I respect that, a lot of women my wife and I dated said about the same, first time trying... last time trying lol
yea it was tiresome
It's a sound historical model. Can work well for people with their priorities and attitudes straight.
It works today, but only when what you wrote in your second sentence holds up.
There was a Poly Trio on GAG that were together for a lot of years but I recently seen her post that one of them recently died in a accident.
Oh shit, that's got to hurt a lot :( I figured there were other people on here who had experiences there, positive or negative, but like most cases highly unlikely to run into many people who are in/have been in a long term one. I hope they and their family are alright, even if they did just lose a member of it.
I wish there was something other than like or dislike...
No. If I were to have a girlfriend,... I want her to be romantically dedicated to me & me alone. That's it. I would prefer to have my cake & eat it too. Not have my cake & share it with the rest of the guys.
Never. I don't share my girl, with anyone. I'm old school, a relationship is her and me, and no one else.
If I, alone, am not enough for her, then we'll part way and she'll be free to do whatever she wants.
Its over idealistic and it reeks of egoism/selfishness
I can't argue with any of that, it is true, except the idealism gets hammered out pretty quickly. It's something I had never considered until it was offered to me, then the attention and joy were simply sublime, and something I couldn't let go of. When she left, I immediately started searching for someone else. Did not take long, but it is certainly to be more pleasurable, selfish... that's debatable.
You get more pleasure from giving more, ultimately you get more back, and more desire to be given attention and material rewards by putting that attention and care in. It works the same way in monogamous relationships.
I am in one, we ain't making much use of it, of course.
I here that, the dating pool gets smaller, the kids come along, when it isn't so much trouble and things calm down some maybe I'll try putting some effort out there again lol
Nah, I ain't pulling any effort outside of the relationship, if there's anything, then there's a thing.
Yes I have I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a woman and another man.
I would like to find a woman with the possibility of a LTR myself. My experiences so far make me think that's unlikely, but I'm stubborn and have a dream lol
What's the shape of your dream?
I would be in a relationship with another man while having a wife since I am bisexual
Ahh, well, I'm married to my wife, and for all the equality movements, she'd be charged with bigamy if she married both of us... Jesus, this is a record. Within a 24 hour period I have not started chasing 2 unicorns like a caveman seeing a deer lol
What you want is either fairly difficult, or fairly easy to obtain depending. If you're willing to get with another couple, as easy as picking up a penny off the sidewalk when 15 people are throwing rolls of them at your feet. If it's having a marriage to another woman first, hmm, from my admittedly limited knowledge of lesbian/bi relationships exclusively between women, most of the time one woman is well, more gay than the other.
Sorry, I don't know any nice way to phrase that :/ I've slept with a few lesbians, but more lesbian couples where one partner was very obviously not into it. I'm not trying to rain on your parade at all, and that is just my experience, and limited to me, not other women or what not.
Yes and it takes a lot of work and commitment, same as monogamous relationships.
I'd say more work from my experiences.
No. Have you ever dealt with two people in a bad mood? I'm perfectly content with one.
Yes I have, in a couple relationships I had. Generally it meant I needed to spend more one on one time with them. Prioritize who's most upset first, take them out for ice cream, go from there. If that doesn't work, dig deeper, could be insecurity, or them arguing over something they don't want me to know about.
Respect
My ex wife left me for MFM polyamory marriage. She now has hubby No. 1 and hubby No. 2
I'm sorry to hear that, and something I say to anyone interested in the dynamic. It isn't all sunshine and roses. I can't imagine the confusion and pain you went through being faced with that. Hopefully that made the divorce go more easily though, I'm not trying to belittle your marriage, but regardless of poly, she threw it out. That's pretty jacked up.
One weiner is not enough for her nowadays and also do tell people don't get marry in your very late teens because in your 20s that's the time you want to figure out on what to do for your life. She has the boys from Tuesdays through Thursdays because on the weekends thats her ✌️ quality times ✌️ with her husbands and I have the boys most of time. Also it's life but my boys are the best I ever had 💙💙
No, there's no point, it ruins the entire point of a relationship lol, id rather be forever single than have multiple partners
No all I want is threesomes
Are you saying that the poly dynamic opens up to more people, or that it's the relationship part you don't like?
I don't like the relationship part
Well, in your case you would be a unicorn, so it wouldn't be difficult for you to find or line up. They are pretty fun, if a little awkward in positioning. On my end I always hoped another LTR would be able to come about, but as that hasn't happened over the last... 9 or 10 years? Maybe 4 years of that being putting forth a lot of effort to that end.
So I doubt my fantasy will happen, while yours is more realistic.
What is LTR?
Long term relationship
Not my type of fun. One person is more than enough for me.
I'm in one. It's really great. <3 :*
I'm glad to hear that, if you don't mind me asking, how long have y'all been together?
I'm open to it. I'm pansexual, so I'd want it to be a bi or pan relationship. I'd be open to it being another guy or woman.
Nah. I'd be jealous. Plus I rarely get to date, so I ain't sharing lol.
Yes and I am in poly relationship
Are all of you married?
@stargazeraug1989 You can't legally marry more than one person in the US due to Bigamy laws
@Kelly6 Is it long term? I've always been curious about that. The only guys I knew who had long term stable poly relationships kept families in different states and, well, for lack of a better term, rotated with his job. Then he retired and just rotated. If I remember right it was like 4 families.
Getting past that jealousy and puppy love step to LTR is the biggest obstacle I'm curious about, and people who have overcome it. The geographic isolation solution is not at all appealing to me.
No not all are married
I'm sorry, not trying to be pushy, but I am curious if you do have another partner LTR, dynamics that "work" with that are rare, and it intrigues me as there's a lot I could learn there.
Again, if I'm being too pushy, or asking anything too personal, I apologize.
I have not, nor do I plan to
I get that JJ, you're still looking for that special someone, correct? Or am I remembering wrong?
This thread has so much to keep track of now lol
I am 😊
Nope I would not let my girl hv another guy when we both seeing each other.
FUCK NO! IM NOT SHARING MY GIRL WITH FUCKING NOBODY, NOT EVEN HER MALE FRIENDS OR FOR GODS SAKE HER FUCKING EX. I WOULD BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HER EX IF HE TRIED TO GET WITH HER. she's ALL MINE
Woah man, I don't think anyone on this board is trying to steal your woman... maybe check for caps lock, or if it was intentional, check to see if the roids gave you a staph infection. That can be lethal man...
I belong to my husband and love being shared by him but he is the only one I can love.
Yea, but only if I'm the only guy in this relationship, and the only guy the girls fuck.
Yes with that girl in the first picture
Heh, tineye the image, you never know unless you try.
I had to search hard for non-licensed pictures that were romantic, non-sexual, and easy to differentiate from simple friendship, I had to look for articles on poly couples, so so many images I sifted through to get those. The second was harder to find. Google 2 girls one guy... so much porn lol
if the woman looked good and I felt it was an opportunity not to miss, than yes
Nah seems immoral to me.
If everyone is honest with each other, with no deception, and there is ample basis and history for it in pretty much every culture on the planet, how so? I mean, if it is to you personally, I get that, but as a whole I don't and am curious.
Yeah, it just seems immoral to me can't rationalize the whole of it cuz difficult people have different ways of seeing it.
Well hey, we may disagree, but I respect that you think for yourself and have your own opinion there. I hope you find someone who thinks similar and y'all can make each other happy :)
Well, thanks for understanding have a good day!
Not on your life, sport
Well, really yours, not mine... I'm not betting my life on any one else's proclivities except my own
I like things as simple as possible.
I can't argue with that
I have not and would not consider one.
Got it, well, we all have our preferences.
Interesting enough question or dig deeper? lol
It’s actually is a very interesting question. For this question I don’t have much input to offer but I did enjoy reading all the answers.
You’re a really good conversationalist.
The chicks don't seem to dig it.
Yeah, it's a lot easier to line up "other" women when you're younger, this is fact.
Are you from California?
Shit no, Louisiana. That state is a strange strange place... then again here is too, so that is a little of the pot calling the kettle black lol
I wouldn't. It feels weird.
From past experience, or just thinking about it in depth?
I would DEFINITELY consider it.
In what paradigm?
I would definitely not be into anything like that.
I respect that, thanks for sharing.
Your welcome.
I could never ever. Big no from me.
Can you tell me please
What it is
Well, ask different people practicing and you'll get different answers, so I'll break down to the most simple explanation. Poly- more than one Amorous- love. You love more than one person with everyone involved knowing about it. That could be in many different forms.
As opposed to monogamous relationships where you love one person, and for either partner to have a romantic and/or sexual relationship outside of that would not have conversation or consent, but be cheating.
Sure. But finding the right person is the bitch!
Person or people?
Ideally a bisexual lady around our age and perhaps if she had a straight husband, would entertain the idea. Primary thing would be chemistry between everyone.
Hmm, I'd suggest trying a swingers group, it is far more simple to start there and see where things may go if you've never explored the dynamic more. Also the difference in terms, polyamory, polyandrous, polygamous, those are more terms that came into popularity in the last 40 years or so.
Swinging, swingers, especially in swinger's clubs, S&M clubs, and dungeons have been popular terms since the 40's. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to tell you what lane to drive in, just ease of access, and not going through the wringer to find the same out later. Choose whichever door seems right to you at the end of the day.
LOL! We've been the Lifestyle for 20 years now.
Ahh, so I'm not preaching to the choir but the bishop lol
No. The two ministers we know in the Lifestyle would say wannabe deacon at best. LOL!
Yeah i probably would.
Oh, if it was like low risk, high convenience or something?
With 2 girls i would... probably
Weird, are you still seeing that spam message? I reported it but it says it's already gone... this thread is breaking the site for me lol
I reported it
Never been in one and would never consider it
Honey you could not handle it and not for nothing you have no passion not your fault now I see that is your upbringing and you know exactly what I'm talking about better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all you people you neither know the Sweet Victory of success neither the stinging burn of loss you guys like The Walking Dead. Don't play elect games when you're not the elect the stuff is only fit for Kings.
I don’t know what you’re talking about but ok✌️
Exactly my point that's okay your stay in your lane and I take over the highway that's the way I work anyway.
https://youtu.be/9BjUtZLmYGw
I don’t care✌️😌
https://youtu.be/ZQ11Ws3tqP0
That's why people like you should never breed. Keep it tight and out of sight don't forget to wipe.
🥱👍
Yes I would if it has been properly discussed
Communication is key.
Nah.
https://youtu.be/zg7iBAgMT5Y
Interesting topic which touches on the subject interesting notes about which mating systems are prevalent in which scenarios and why. As I recall, polyandry (per first photo) is only common with males with close familial ties when there’s a need for surplus labor and limited resources as both males have a shared lineal interest in the woman’s children and therefor lower conflict with the other male.
From what I understand from an evolutionary perspective as hunter gatherers humans have been mostly monogamous from the way that woman typically have one child at a time, pleasurable sex, the fact that compared to other apes men have larger penises, but smaller testicles.
Like the scenario many people like to say if 35 women were alive and one man, you could repopulate! ehh, women's ovulation and periods sync up too, so upper bound of sore, tender balls every day, maybe 9 women a month, which would be sex with 3 a day, and that last one you'd likely have to have sex with twice. Your sole job would have to be screwing every day, all day as you'd be too sore to do anything else.
Compare to the Bonobo chimps which have proportionately smaller penises, and massive testicles, they screw constantly, all day every day.
I wonder how much differently we'll change because of farming, chemistry, communication, and war if we survive as a species to evolve further.
Watch the video if you’re interested it’s relatively short. But in antiquity we’ve mostly been serially monogamous or polygnous. Full Monogamy is a more novel phenomenon in that it brings every reproductive adult into the breeding game. This is most common when we find new land and have the need or desire to populate quickly.
That was a good video. I'll admit, some parts of it I wasn't paying attention to as it's very long and I did other stuff in the background, but new info for me. Thanks man :)
Glad you think so
I'd love to date 2 girls at once.
That isn't so hard to do if you keep that as a bare bones objective.
No and yes.
Sorry I didn't ask for more detail, this post got way more traffic than I thought it would.
So you've never been in one, but you'd consider the possibility if it came up? In what dynamics?
Do you mean what would be acceptable? I have no idea, all my partnerships were exclusive. But I know two couples that I've been told are in open marriages and it seems to work for them.
No, and no.
Hard no.
HELL NO
I didn't quite catch that 👯♀️🤺
@madisonblakelybby But wait... tell us how you REALLY feel!
no and no.
I respect that.
well you not respecting that wouldn't matter to me :D it's my decision either way xD i stil appreciate your positive feedback tho ;)
No and no
I wouldn't like it at all.
I would like to be with lesbian girls too
Well, I have been before, so I can't comment on the reality of it. But let's say it sticks to ideology, how would that work?
Nope
Yes, and yes.
Every man should have a harem.
Ehh, that's a stretch, I couldn't handle a harem. 2 women yes. Honestly if I was with 3 women or more though, that would be my full time job, and I'd be neglecting them anyway to spend time with my kids.
I never thought it was something I deserved or was owed. Simply something I could grasp for once my wife introduced me to the idea. Every woman we've been with has been effort, luck, and a new experience. It wouldn't be the same if I was living like a Saudi Prince, I wouldn't be able to care, and that part intrigues me the most. If it was just the sex I'd simply make more money, have had less kids, and buy hookers.
If U can TRUST your harem! All of them.
YES, I would
What attracts you to the dynamic if that isn't too much to ask?
Firstly I wouldn't get bored and secondly, two dicks in my pussy 😋
Well the adult industry is always looking for good talent if that's where your interests lie, WoodNymph.
She 17 years old and she's already looking for a job in the porn industry tisk tisk tisk
I'm seriously thinking about it hehe
I would do a 3some not relationship tho.
Not for me
I don't think you have to be anon to say that... I only allowed anon opinions on this one in case it was something people didn't want to be open about as part of their "identity" because that does happen. I had one girlfriend that liked sleeping with me and my wife, we went to a wedding all together, but whenever we went out in public, it was me and her, or me and her. I just had to divide roles between what each of them enjoyed going out and doing the most.
I don't think you need to go anon to simply state that you align with most of the country in wanting one, rather than multiple partners.
I am very shy almost all of my answers are anon
Ok, I was just curious.
I have not and I have no interest in doing that
No and No.
No way