At your age, I'd go for a soft landing. I'm very very happy my wife is pregnant right now at 30. If she was pregnant a decade from now it would be less of an elated, happy feeling, and much more stress with a hint of worry and fear.
58 for high school graduation? 62 for college if that goes ideally? Seeing grandkids is unlikely, great grandkids impossible. I'm not trying to bring you down, just pointing out that things like retirement, travel, many plans are going to go on the shelf until you're too old or too dead to do them. Kids as a concept are one thing, as a reality quite another.
Most Helpful Opinions
Get a lot of boxes of differing sizes. In the smallest one put a cute baby item. Wrap it up with gift wrap and then place it in a slightly larger box and then wrap that up. Continue till you have a very large box wrapped. When he gets home from work, put him to work opening the boxes. Have fun.
By the way, along with the cute baby item, you could also include a note saying, "This doesn't mean we can't continue to have fun practicing."
I got a custom onesie that had his old nickname on it with a 2.0. Custom onesies are great because you can put whatever you want them, but you are going to have to wait a bit for delivery.
You could also do funny shirts for the both of you. Something like this...It really just depends on what you think he will appreciate. But giving him something will also commemorate the moment.
Congratulations!!! I can't wait for the day I found out I'm pregnant I think I wouldn't be able to keep it as a secret from my partner for too long tho. You can either keep it simple and place the pregnancy test on his night stand along with a sweet & cute note or you can offer him a t-shirt or a mug giving him a hint that you're pregnant.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
45Opinion
- u
Just telling him will be enough of a surprise.
Congratz! You'll both bless and curse the day you'll have your baby, but I'm fairly sure that the good sides beat the bad, at least if you're going to be an attentive and present parent.
I'm going to be one myself in about 7 months, and I'm already trying to fit a parent's pants.Congratulations! 👶🥰 YouTube has a compilation of ways to surprise your husband, such as leaving tiny clues everywhere and so much more. You should see those and maybe you will find one you want to try out~ If none of them works for you then you could simply just tell him you're pregnant. Might make him as happy as you where when you first found out.
Telling him 9 months from now would be very suprising 🙃
Do it while you are doing something fun together. Or when something nice/sweet happens and you can say "damn, you will make a nice dad, in about 9 months".
Or when you have sex and he is about to cum, "hey, no need to pull out, i'm already pregnant". Suprising and will give him the strangest cum 😅Bring him some Cinnabon and then put a note on it that says “Thanks for putting a bun in my oven. Now here’s a bun for you straight from the oven” That way he’s happy and gets to be a father and even if he doesn’t want to be a father, he can have a Cinnabon to eat while he’s sad about not getting sleep for the next 2-3 years.
How exciting, congratulations! Maybe get him to do a scavenger hunt with clues/riddles around the house and the final spot is a box with the pregnancy test inside.
Congratulations!
If an anniversary or birthday is coming up you could always give him something as a present? Or you could always just have a dinner and tell him? Maybe gift him with a baby’s top saying something about dad?I think, Morticia did it with style.
Just knit a baby romperI felt the same way lol couldn't find shit I finally just texted him n told him. Don't remember what he said how he reacted. Only remember when I told him my water broke he puked.
Tell him you think he is getting sick and take his temperature.
give him a thermometer (which is actually the positive pregnancy test) and then when maybe 30 seconds go by, take it out and be like “hmmm, pregnant?”
and he will be so shocked.Put a bun in your oven and then ask him what is in your oven. I saw a video of this that was hilarious because it took the guy ten minutes to understand what she was hinting at. But he ended up crying with joy when he realized that she was pregnant. Very touching.
Have him open two small boxes and inside have blue question marks on paper and the other pink? s and wait for the look of wonder
Check YouTube videos that can give you a list options.
Give him a doctor's note that says you're very ill.. You have developed a sudden allergy to sausage. It makes your belly swell up
Scavenger hunt. Put clues around the house and let the last clue be the pregnancy test
Honestly if she just came to me and told me that I'd be more than delighted, I don't see any other way that would make me any happier
I was gonna say bake a cake, tell him you just wanted to have some dessert after your dinner, but then have the washed-off pregnancy stick buried in the bottom of the cake. When he cuts a slice, he's gonna hit something and pull it out.
Make it an event... dinner damcing whatever you do... And congratulations
Leave it by the bathroom sink & write OOPS on the tester.
Wow! Congratulations! 😊
I think you should decore your room with toys, he'll get a hint. 😇
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!