Love handles, hot or not?

[preciouspressure]

I'm 5'4 & 126 pounds, which I would say is normal & I'm def not fat! Other then I have indented love handles on my lower back, even if I'm not wearing any bottoms, tight or not, I have love a little extra around my back at my hips level.

Don't get me wrong, it literally doesn't even bother me that much just I have pointed it out to a few guys and they said that they find them hot. I just wanna know the truth, hot or not?

[udolipixie]

No it is fat 126 lbs 5'4'' is fat unless you're a naturally chubby (medium frame) or naturally fat (,arge framed) girl.

Normal yes because 68% of Americans are overweight or obese.

Love handles are not hot to most except chubby chasers.

Not hot /= ugly most guys don't mind a few extra rolls.

[madmisskelly]

Large framed doesn't mean you are naturally fat. It means you have a broader skeleton, and the fat and muscle is placed differently. I am 5'1 and 130 and comfortably wear size 4 jeans and small shirts as well as work out multiple days a week and eat healthy.

[udolipixie]

Medium/Large framed = you put on more fat.

Placed differently is just the kind way to put it.

What's with the issues girls have about fat?

[madmisskelly]

because putting all women who have a "large frame" and calling them fat is unfair, because its a case by case thing. Being someone who is broad framed- broad shoulders, ribcage, and such, I can gain weight easily, but its my metabolism, and I can also gain muscle and tone quick. I can gain, and have it not be so readily apparent on my frame. Its not the frame that allows you to put on more fat, your frame is your skeletal size. You metabolism is what causes that.

[udolipixie]

frame and metabolism are usually linked.

"I can gain weight easily"

Naturally fat

[madmisskelly]

no, frame and metabolism are not usually linked. Metabolism depends more on the amount of muscle you have. Your natural frame size is skeleton. Gaining weight easily, does not mean naturally "fat." Does it mean I have to work harder, yes, which I do. Its not just in terms of "fat" or "not fat" And as a matter of fact, you took my comment completely out of context, I said "i gain weight easily, yet tone and gain muscle quickly." Your attitude makes me think you've got some eating disorder.

[peace-love-couture]

124 @ 5'4 isn't that big imo. I'm 5'3 and I was once at that point and while I may not have liked the number, I wasn't fat.

[udolipixie]

Eating disorder?

I'm not the one with a fat issue.

Or going on about my body & how I'm not fat.

Stop projecting.

Gaining weight easily = naturally fat

Losing weight easily or keeping weight off easily = naturally skinny

Putting on muscle easily = naturally muscular

Yeah metabolism and body frame are linked as well as age and gender those are the uncontrollable aspects of metabolism.

[udolipixie]

@Evangelina

It seems to big to mean unless your medium/large framed.

Then again I'm 5'6'' and 105 lbs.

[MyNameIsJonas]

Shes not fat. A woman with a shapely frame would easily be at that weight. you are just unusually skinny. If a woman does have a larger frame around her hips, she will have a larger back side. (witch is attractive IMO) Not to mention the weight of the bone structure. Men like shapely women, not skinny little girls who look like boys.

[udolipixie]

@MyNameIsJonas

lol

"Shes not fat."

If she's medium/large frame yeah she is those frame put on weight easier and have more fat,

Fat doesn't mean overweight.

[udolipixie]

@MyNameIsJonas

"A woman with a shapely frame would easily be at that weight."

That shape comes from frame & fat.

"you are just unusually skinny."

In today's world being at a healthy weight for your frame is unusual.

Being skinny is rare.

[udolipixie]

@MyNameIsJonas

"If a woman does have a larger frame around her hips, she will have a larger back side. (witch is attractive IMO)"

That large frame = more fat.

That backside is fat.

"Not to mention the weight of the bone structure. Men like shapely women, not skinny little girls who look like boys."

Yep shape comes from frame & fat.

Gay guys & pedophiles could like the little boy look.

Lol at you trying to define what all men like based on your tastes.

You seem to have a fat issue as well.

[udolipixie]

Lol

Unless you have a medium/large frame you are fat if you're that weight at that height.

Medium/Large frame = puts on fat more easily and has more fat.

The reason you're fat if you have a small frame at that height/weight is because the body usually shouldn't have that much fat since you don't have the frame to position it properly.

[madmisskelly]

Listening to you describe the way you have been thinking, makes more sense. Before hand, it sounded like you thought in terms of fat or not fat. However, as a large frame you carry more mass which can be muscle or fat. The ease at which you do that depends more on metabolism. However, if you have a broader body frame, your body and metabolism won't let you go below a partiular weight, unless you take to drastic measures.

[udolipixie]

@madmisskelly

It's what I said from the beginning people tend to respond better to sugarcoating than my bluntness since I don't sugarcoat because they get so defensive.

Girls on here respond weirdly when hearing the word fat.

"However, as a large frame you carry more mass which can be muscle or fat. The ease at which you do that depends more on metabolism. "

That was covered in "Putting on muscle easily = naturally muscular"

People are either fat, muscle, or lean.

Few are the perfect three

[MyNameIsJonas]

Fat is a term that is usually used to categorize a person who is over weight for there frame unattractive ect. You are using it out of the norm context. You should say body mass. Agreed.

Most men prefer a shapely frame. Not saying all men. As for my taste, on a biological and subconscious level I am attracted to women of that build because they are healthier for breeding. Just as most women are attracted to males with a wide chest.

[udolipixie]

Uh no the norm has taken the term out of context resulting in a whole curvy vs stick etc etc and sensitivity.

Fat is adipose tissue/energy.

I'm not changing words because society is becoming weightist.

Notice how at small frame I say she's fat not overweight because fat doesn't automatically overweight even if the fat doesn't fit the frame.

Most men actually prefer hip to waist ratio. Attraction is quite easy to define.

[12elizabeth]

Hahah I'm exactly your height and weight. Anyways, I think they look cute, actually it reminds me of the claspers on a shark or male insect used to hold their female by. Anyway, aside from that if they don't bother you and other guys find it attractive than no doubt their hot on you.

[nermalinda]

It sounds normal. If it bothers you, then work out more. If a guy likes you or finds you attractive, then he'll find random stuff about you "hot", so maybe that's why they said that. To me, it just sounds normal.

[MachineMan]

It doesn't matter really, stop focusing in on every little thing that you can't really change about your body and be confident and happy about who you are. Trust me when you realize that you are beautiful, and start loving your self for who you are, you will lead a happier life.

[preciouspressure]

Calm down bra, I said that it doesn't bother me I was jut wondering if guys were just saying that or if it was genuinely something men like. lol, don;t worry I wasn't getting all insecure on everyone ass I hate when people do that.

[drummerdude25]

Sounds like you don't have anything to worry about... I know I'm not perfect for example, so it's not like I'd expect a girl to look perfect either. It's definitely good to be in fairly decent shape tho, at the very least...

[preciouspressure]

So your saying its not like you get turn on by it or nothing, but its not a bad thing in any means?

[drummerdude25]

Yeah pretty much... It can kinda just go unnoticed. Not a turn-on, nor a turn-off..,

[peace-love-couture]

Not.

I notice it tends to be a "hot" trend amongst ahem, white people(no offense at all). But a lot of white girls walk around thinking that's hot and white guys tend to like that.

[preciouspressure]

Lol, I appreciate when different ethnicity open up about their perception of white people. But no, you see those people are just dumb white people.. like for every race it always somehow turns out to be the idiots that influence people starting stereotypes.

[peace-love-couture]

It's just observations though. Obviously not all, but from what I have personally seen. I come from a suburban town in Tx, so what I see more than likely does NOT reflect much haha

[madmisskelly]

I used to live in a poor white trash town in Cali, and damn, plenty of girls were walkin around in skimpy stuff that were twice as big as me, but Ill be damned if they didn't have dudes chasin after them. haha. Wasnt just white dudes either.

[peace-love-couture]

LOL, in my area it tends to be the...how do I put it, teenage girls who are cake faces and dye their hair blond. It isn't a common phenomenon, but among them, I guess the morons you could call them, it's common. The airhead chicks and their minions

[madmisskelly]

Haha, nice. To me its proof that confidence is just as important as looks. See, we see girls that aren't dressing for their shape and think that they shouldn't be wearing what they are wearing. However, some guys se a girl wearing it and think "oh damn that's hot." Men tend to see what they like first, not so much what they don't like. So they may see that girl and see T & A and hips. Its amusing in a way.

[madmisskelly]

Some guys like it, some dont. Guys don't so much notice the things they don't like on women first, unlike women. So he's not going to see all the things he doesn't like before he sees the things he does like.

[Mortalgod21hfzelvqr]

To most men, that's hot, believe me.

I think it's weird that girls are always worrying about that because men tend to like that sorta things instead of not like it, so I've never understood that.

[smexiliciousss]

Well for me, since I'm a girl absolutely not!

[Appletini]

Girl, I got love handles...just work out more.