My boyfriend’s exes are darker haired Hispanic women and I feel like he’s not actually fully into me because I’m not? Im psyching myself out?

[Anonymous]

I realize I have no reason to even make this assumption... but I noticed all his exes are brunettes and out of 5, 2 were Hispanic. I’m a redhead, light skinned... I just feel like I’m not actually what he wants because of his past and also he follows some Hispanic female musicians on Instagram. He wants to move to South America one day and I just feel like I’ll never measure up because I’m not of that origin. Is this dumb? He has never said anything to make me think this or given me any real sign this is the case besides what I said but we only recently started dating (a month).

[hughmathews]

i think its a bit too early to think he may not be into you, especially if he's given you no reason to think that way beyond you looking up his exes. maybe he just wants to experience a different kind of girl from the rest he's been with. give him a damn good impression :)

[Asker]

Ty💞

[hughmathews]

you're welcome, dont mess with your own head, although definitely talk about that whole moving to south america thing, thats gonna need a serious discussion some time down the line

[Asker]

Very true

[dolemite89]

i’m like your boyfriend lol i’m a white guy that prefers brown girls over white girls in general but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t think ur hot or doesn’t like u as much as them. You should think of yourself as the one that’s cute enough to steal him away from his normal type 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I hadn’t thought of that! Haha thanks

[pleasestopthis]

Maybe he wanted some change? I don't think you should worry too much about that, I mean... he chose you for something and he probably likes you a lot.

[Curmudgeon]

"we only recently started dating (a month)."

Repeat these words to yourself. It's still early.

I get that men will have a past preference, but you might just be a refreshing change of pace. My current girlfriend is just that.

[slatyb]

You can never know what someone else is thinking, so don't worry about it. Focus on what he says and how he acts. If his words and actions are loving, that's about all you can ask for.

[4dmins-4-13itches]

The only red flag I see is that he wants to move to South America. Do you want to move to South America? That could be a big division between you two. Everything else you said didn’t seem to raise a red flag to me.

[kkirk4442]

Your hair color will not keep him from being fully into you.

[Anonymous]

Well, is he Hispanic? Because maybe that’s all his choices were if he is from an area mostly Hispanic

[Asker]

No he’s white completely

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you should probably move on to someone else. He will leave you once a Hispanic girl comes along. Don’t ask for details on this

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m just kidding. Just give him a chance.

[Luckycharms12]

Guys can like girls of all race's

[WhiteWolf69]

I think you're doubting him and yourself.