Either being cheated on or abused. I’m not down for either and couldn’t even think about doing those things to someone else. If someone did either to me, it’d ruin me
I had somebody break up with me in the most cruel way imaginable. I never saw it coming and she never apologized or explained. Knowing she cared so little was worse than the breakup itself.
I haven't been in one yet, but I guess it would be the fear of loosing her and never finding someone that good again, and that fear ruining the relationship. Also, getting deceived or turned down. I afraid of fallinv in love since it only ended badly. Another one would be, loosing privacy
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That she'll wake up one day and decide that she wants to go off and do her own thing, potentially running both our futures. If it happens, I imagine it'll be a surprise for us both so not really something we can plan for.
Jodi Arias killed her lover while Amber Heard falsely accused hers of abusing her while she herself abused him. Either of these would be my worst fear in a relationship.
Hercules loses his strength and not even the little blue pill can resurrect him he's down for the count, that's scary serious but I don't think much about it, too often, ok more with each passing year,
What it has always been, an unfaithful partner.. This is one of the reasons I have not had a relationship in over 15 years.. I don't date either (but that reason is to be answered another time)
Lying to me. Not necessarily about having an affair; it may simply be something she hid from me, but I fear not knowing my partner, not knowing what she's really thinking. To discover I've been lied to, that she is capable of deceiving me and pretending to be someone she is not would most likely drive me to end the relationship.
Finding out that she's unfaithful/queer, or that "she" is really a he. But yeah, cheaters, "bi"/queer women, and transwomen are the last things I'd want to date.
Lie about cheating. I might forgive cheating if you tell me soon after it happened. I won't if you don't. So 3 days after cheating, you might keep me. A month probably not.
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Tell me that my penis is too small and dump me because of that ☹️
The worst is loving a woman, and trusting he completely that you have no problem with her visiting friends in another state (even though she never asked me to go with her, nor asked my permission)
Drove her to the airport and not wanting to be clingy we didn't talk much. I asked her as she got out of the car if she was coming back? Yes she stated quietly... We performed concerts in Pennsylvania, Ohio and Jersey...
Anyway I got out of the RV and went straight to bed. It was 12 midnight when the phone rang.. I was so happy to her voice say that she loves me and misses me.. She knew what that had meant me..
OKAY... HERE IS WHAT IS WORSE THAN CHEATING (in my opinion)
She called me the very next day to tell me she cheated at a party and that she was not coming back..
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Either being cheated on or abused. I’m not down for either and couldn’t even think about doing those things to someone else. If someone did either to me, it’d ruin me
I had somebody break up with me in the most cruel way imaginable. I never saw it coming and she never apologized or explained.
Knowing she cared so little was worse than the breakup itself.
I haven't been in one yet, but I guess it would be the fear of loosing her and never finding someone that good again, and that fear ruining the relationship.
Also, getting deceived or turned down. I afraid of fallinv in love since it only ended badly.
Another one would be, loosing privacy
That she'll wake up one day and decide that she wants to go off and do her own thing, potentially running both our futures. If it happens, I imagine it'll be a surprise for us both so not really something we can plan for.
Being used and dumped again.
Tired if spending years of my life working two jobs to pay off women's debts.
Jodi Arias killed her lover while Amber Heard falsely accused hers of abusing her while she herself abused him. Either of these would be my worst fear in a relationship.
Hercules loses his strength and not even the little blue pill can resurrect him he's down for the count, that's scary serious but I don't think much about it, too often, ok more with each passing year,
Stop loving me one day or leave me for a girl better
That they have been lying to me about something essential all along or for an extended period of time.
Breaking my trust by either not being loyal or talking about things I’ve told him about myself to others.
Having my heart broken, whether through being cheated on or her finding someone better.
What it has always been, an unfaithful partner.. This is one of the reasons I have not had a relationship in over 15 years.. I don't date either (but that reason is to be answered another time)
Lying to me. Not necessarily about having an affair; it may simply be something she hid from me, but I fear not knowing my partner, not knowing what she's really thinking. To discover I've been lied to, that she is capable of deceiving me and pretending to be someone she is not would most likely drive me to end the relationship.
The other person in many ways I always end up chasing after mental people it woudlnt suprize me If my ex girlfriend was the next charles mansion
Manson even
Finding out that she's unfaithful/queer, or that "she" is really a he. But yeah, cheaters, "bi"/queer women, and transwomen are the last things I'd want to date.
Lie about cheating. I might forgive cheating if you tell me soon after it happened. I won't if you don't. So 3 days after cheating, you might keep me. A month probably not.
Tell me that my penis is too small and dump me because of that ☹️
Being cheated on just makes you feel totally worthless
@karaspara hugs
Yes it does... But it's not the worst..
The worst is loving a woman, and trusting he completely that you have no problem with her visiting friends in another state (even though she never asked me to go with her, nor asked my permission)
Drove her to the airport and not wanting to be clingy we didn't talk much. I asked her as she got out of the car if she was coming back?
Yes she stated quietly...
We performed concerts in Pennsylvania, Ohio and Jersey...
Anyway I got out of the RV and went straight to bed. It was 12 midnight when the phone rang.. I was so happy to her voice say that she loves me and misses me.. She knew what that had meant me..
OKAY... HERE IS WHAT IS WORSE THAN CHEATING (in my opinion)
She called me the very next day to tell me she cheated at a party and that she was not coming back..
that means she never even liked me as a friend
@Pummel That is awful hun so sorry
Join a MLM pyramid scheme cult. I don't date man that are involve with MLM's.
What’re MLM’s?
Lmao
I 100% forgot MLM also stands for multi-level marketing and I read it as "men-loving-men pyramid scheme" and was very intrigued
My greatest fear is that I could do everything right and still end getting dumped and broken.