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My wife cheated, I forgave. And now I have no idea what to do? (Page 2)
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She thinks you'll cheat because she did. She's insecure about her past and is still wounded, so she's trying to rub her insecurity on you. It has nothing to do with you, but with her. She needs to heal.
well how about you go counseling or divorce and stick to it she sounds off and it seems you guys are not talking it out and also do check im with a solicitor just to check all the bases and are you sure she is not in contact with the affair partner?
Plan your exit , she will have zero respect for you , therefore it is " game over " for your marriage , and she will see you as weak for taking her back , she is also projecting , by accusing you of the very thing she is guilty of.
How can you move away from everything that reminded you of the affair when you're taking the affair aka cheater with you?😂 does that make any sense? Should've just left her
This. I would never be able to work things out with a cheater. That's an every day reminder of the affair.
@Danielle93 đ I mean really like the dumbest thing ever. Doesn't want memories of the affair so he moves which was probably her idea so she can have an affair with someone else
I didn't need to move, she did. I would have been alright staying in the area. To be candid, i blame my would be friend. Me wife can't drive because of her anxiety, so she was always just at the house. He would come over while i was at work bringing movies and beer to hang out with her. They hung out like that for a year before the affair. She needed the move to help herself move past it.
She's not your wife dude she cheated on you and has you looking like the dumb fool that you are.
Be a man and dominate them both. They will like it. Your wife cheating on you she needed a man. Having a dick doesn't make you a man. Man up bro. Fuck your friend and make your wife eat the creampie. Happy family...
Ewwww not only is that fetishizing wlw but also r@pe. Go away creepo
Entitled child, you go away from my answer. Nobody asked you a question here let alone giving commands to a grown man...
Boy shut up. Grown men don't act so gross on the internet.
That's it child, you will not be able to comment on my answers anymore. Going to the crazy girls blacklist where you belong...
This situation is confusing ass hell but more power to you lol Iâll be jealous to if my husband cheats and likes another woman
And you need your ass whoop for all this damn trolling. Yâall keep taking shit of these people situations and making into yâall shit then lie like it ainât you.
I really never had blamed her. During the affair i was working 100 to 120 hours a week, always sleep deprived and could not give her the attention her needed. Plus we ended up in a slummy trailer park after being displaced by a natural disaster. I actually felt like it was my fault for working so hard to get us back on our feet.
Yâall brainwashing and manipulating people need to move on with yâall lives okay. Please know gag is logging yâall ip addresses. Leave this man and his marriage alone. Quit projecting situations into his marriage and making situations like they are yours in order to manipulate his wife mind to thinking something different. So what if he lived in a trailer, that ainât your business. Quit projecting situations that ainât yours and then lying like itâs not you. that man wasnât going to leave his wife and yâall need to stop harassing this girl on here.
Wow, sheâs trying to get out of her guilt by trying to get you to admit to âcheatingâ. Doesnât sound like a healthy marriage. But maybe therapy could help.
Forgiveness is a great thing to do, but chances are high she will cheat on you again, besides the fact it makes you look weak as a man taking her back.
What a shitshow😂 tell me again I'm single cus I'm a loser🧐
You both should try marriage counseling, but it sounds like she is the one who needs it more than you.
A wise person told me
People tell on themselves everyday is someone keeps accusing u of lying that probably means they are and same thing goes for cheating crime sex etc etc
it's because of cucks like you that women have become shameless.
Dude, she's already cheating on you. Haven't you noticed the behavioral pattern?
Cheaters, don't deserve a second chance. They're literally showing you, they don't like you anymore. You need a new woman!
Your wife like to sleep and sleeping with your best friend, now you sleep with her best female friend, you both will be equal
Here's a question: Do you see yourself as a cuckold?
No, never have and never will.
No offense but that's the direction you have been heading to.
How so? And i am legitimately curious.
Forgiving cheating. That should be a no go. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
No self respecting human tolerates it.
To be honest my friend turned out to be the aggressor. He convinced me to move into the state for a year before we moved. Got me the job that i later found out he found the company was abusive to their manager. He did not tell me i would be expected to work 100 hours a week which led to my wifes anxiety and depression which he cured by coming over with alcohol while i worked. Then i found out that the only reason why he wanted us to move was to get a chance with her. He manipulated at every angle to cause it. Plus he was forceful with her and claimed he would kill me if she didn't continue i only called it an affair because that is what she considered it and i wouldn't have to explain this. He is in jail for sexual assaults and conspiracy to commit because she saved the messages about killing me.
I forgave her for the dishonesty and inability to perceive what it actually was. Other then that i wouldn't classify it as cheating per say.
Understandable. So your general absence has been the reason for her infidelity (or shall we say her being raped) as well as your fake friend taking advantage of your wife.
It can happen. Even to the rapper's girls it has happened before.
In that case, not a cuckold thankfully.
But the disturbing part is your wife projecting cheating on you still. If a couple's counseling won't repair your marriage, then i don't know what will. Are you by any chance considering a divorce?
Yes, but i refuse to do so till we have tried counseling, but she won't.
Ah, I see.
In that case - Sorry mate. That automatically means it's over.
The longer you wait, the further you delay the inevitable. Time doesn't wait for anyone.
Itâs gonna be hard, but itâs time to leave. If she cheated she doesnât love you.
You are married and have kids. Just cheat back to punish her.
What? No! Two wrongs don't make a right!!
The hell is that gonna solve? It only makes matters worse.
There is no many other hell options lol. He can divorce, accept her like this or cheat back. There is nothing to discuss. He can't stand her due to cheating be he also did not want to divorce. Cheating back make it fair at least
And that's exactly how a vicious circle starts. Once you start, you don't stop đ
I dont know. He still wants her but also hates her due to cheating. They both should have marriage counseling or therapy
That's a better option. No need to twist the knife
Your wife probably cheated a lot more then that. You should drop her now.
Honestly Check your testosterone levels. Men should not forgive cheater specially if she's your wife