Is it fair to break up with someone in a long term relationship if you found out they cheated YEARS ago? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person some can accept that to others it's not just that you betrayed them by cheating but you had been lying to them for years.

It may hurt that he broke up with you but also try to think of how hurt he might be about what you told him.

[exitseven]

He is hurt and betrayed. Maybe his whole picture of you has changed. Most of it is his problem. Maybe give him time to process this and reach out to him again. I am sorry this happened to you.

[Anonymous]

You waited 5 years to tell him and you made a lame excuse saying that you "were too drunk to even know." I hope you didn't tell him that verbatim. He was hurt and he was right to leave. These actions speaks volumes about your character.

[Opinion Owner]

If he can forgive you, that's up to him. I wouldn't chase him

[bamesjond0069]

"I had a drunken one-night stand with a guy, it wasn't my fault, I was too drunk to even know."

So was it rape and you will be reporting it to the police or was it completely and totally your fault? Its one or the other.

[Aurora1010]

Of course it would be fair to break up, I would have also

[prakhindev92]

Coz you are an idiot to expect him to be okay with what happened , of course you want to be clean with him , but dirty truth shall not to be told to anybody , it might cost everything you love and everything you stands for!

[Subarugirl]

Fair has nothing to do with it, he feels hurt and betrayed. If he want's to break up that is his choice.

[yahyahyah]

Yes of course it is - should never have cheated in the first place.

[douride2]

Being drunk is never an excuse. Sorry but you would be out of my life if you were my partner.

[rcljr]

Makes me wonder what he did early on before you were serious.

[ChocoBat]

Heck yeah, dump that, second biggest breach of trust possible.

[Dvchill]

There is no statue of limitations for destroying the trust of some one u “loved”

[Uptowngirl88]

He has every right to dump you. Keep your legs closed. You're a h**

[Григорий]

Yes. Trust was broken regardless of how long ago it was.

[Anonymous]

He did the right thing

[Iron_Man]

You’re gonna have to sleep on that one

[BokieLoc]

Na sounds like he is done with you.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Bullshit that you didn't know

[Diya010]

Yes, he should break up with you