If you actually do that and she finds this, I hope you know she can sue you, or worse. Because if you agreed to do one thing (pull out) and you do another, that's not consensual.
Leave your girlfriend. She deserves better. See a therapist.
Not gonna lie here, for me having a baby did fix my relationship but I wouldn't recommend doing it cause there are still things you'll have to work on to get to that point
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Having a child doesn't fix anything! No no no.
DON'T YOU FUCKING DO IT BRO.
DONT DO IT.
IM ON YOUR SIDE LMAOOOO DONT DO IT.
Baby will add problems and won't fix it.
Baby will have a shitty life being born to two people having problems who aren't established already and on each others side.
Okay.
Now that thats out of the way hear me out.
Work on your communication with your partner. Be flexible. Meet them in the middle. If they are unwilling to do so then thats your answer.
Have children with someone who wants to be there with you.
I hope this is a troll question, if it isn't, then I know why you are having relationship issues... You don't think.
Since you don't think i will translate your little idea into reality speak for you:
"My relationship is screwed up, will it save my relationship if I make it more complicated and ruin my girlfriends life?"
If you want a relationship to work, start by working on you. Start by fixing your own shortcomings, and mending the issues in your relationship.
And trust me, ANYTHING your little head thinks is a good idea, isn't.
That is one of the stupidest most horrible thing I've heard in a while. First of all if you even remotely care about your partner you would respect her enough to not strip her of the choice of having kids. Secondly more then likely such an event would just put further strain on the relationship. What you think of as fixed is probably people feeling forced to stay in a horrible relationship due to some idé of an obligation due to the kids.
HAHAHA you stupid son of a bitch! You just fucked yourself over. When she walks out on you with other guys afterwards don't be shocked. You can't lock down a girl like that and expect it to work, especially at your age. Yep we got another incoming train wreck from some young fools who dont know shit about the world. See you on the Maury show numb nuts!
Bad, bad idea bro. My ex has a baby daddy and he did the same thing you want to do, the baby made her stick around for like another year, however now she hates him. To the point where she wanted me to have sex with her whenever he would stay the night dropping off the baby, just to piss him off.
NOT A GOOD IDEA BRO.
Dude, don't be an idiot. Having a kid will make your problems worse. Not to mention, if you back one in on your girlfriend she will not be thrilled to say the least.
Not a well thought out plan. She'll leave you anyway, and you'll be on the hook for 18 years of child support payments.
Back to the old drawing board.
A huge NO... I would break up with her for both your sakes. A child will make life a lot more complicated & stressful & will magnify existing problems in a big way. I am a single dad , know from hard experience.
Don’t do it it’s worst thing u can do to keep someone
Bringing a baby into the world because you think it will fix your relationship is one of the most selfish thing you can do. Kids are not like having a pet hamster.
What type of problems are you having with her? Why do you even want her to stay if the relationship isn't good?
That never works, it just makes her mad and you a dick
Bad idea. Looks like you're asking for trouble. Having something so serious and important as that should be a mutual agreement and something you BOTH have in a mind at the right time, not a tool for you to manipulate and take lightly
No way- that is the WORST thing you could do right now
Having a child will not fix a broken relationship. You will only create a broken family.
Yeah,,, if you're asking this question,,, then you are not mentally mature enough to be having sex.
No and you will pay child support for 18+ years for a stupid mistake of your youth. Never works. Buy a puppy instead. At least when she dumps you there won’t be a crippling financial burden on you.
Don't do that, you can't be sure she'll stay just because you have a kid with her
You are clearly having a catastrophic psychotic episode. What you propose is the stuff of a broken mind. Please don't. For your sake and hers.
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