If your partner called you “Bit**”, would you stay with them? (Page 3)
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Yes. What's wrong with a playful or even stern word like that on rare moments.
I'm not Saint... who is? Who among us? 🧐🧐😯
So you’d stay with your partner if she said you were a weakass punkass b***?
No but I'd have chosen more carefully if I knew she could be that way. I mean who would stay with someone like that. Would you? 🙏
I stated repeatedly i wouldn't but many below would
Sorry 😐
My bad 🤗
My boyfriend calls me a bitch all the time. But it's playful not as an insult. I wouldn't let it continue if it was insulting.
I see
Depends on the context and how he says it. If he's saying it to be rude or a jerk then I wouldn't stay with him
If he said you were a weakass punk b****
definitely not
I would realistically give her three warnings if she keeps are calling me disgusting names I realistically just dump her I don't play that sort of game.
Im shocked she even gets three chances
Third time is charm. If it hurts you. Warn them once that you are going to leave or what ever you want to do. Warn them twice. And leave third time. Don't make empty threats and make joke of your self.
So the answer is no. You would not stay with them. They should become thing of past. As the person who disrespected me degraded me.
3 times to degrade me? Fck i look like lmao
Definitely not. Once is enough.
I dont mind it coz i like dirty words n i know they dont call me in bad way
Om saying if he called you a stupid weakass b***
he could call me bitch or whore or slut or whatever hehe
The one number one thing above love, sex and all is my respect. I hate being disrespected.
If she made a mistake and ask for forgiveness I will forgive her and stay with but it better not happen again.
You’d stay and forgive if she said you were a lame ass punkass weakass b****?
I deeply believe in forgiveness. If she made a mistake in a heated moment then yes I will forgive if she ask me to forgive her.
No i mean if she said it intentionally to be petty… and i’d forgive but wouldn't stay like an idiot
If it's a girlfriend then I would get rid of her. If wife, I would separate from her. As a Christian I'm not allowed to divorce my life because she cursed at me.
Hopefully I never marry a disgusting woman like that.
I've known girls who call each other that word, even seriously and not matter. I think they gradually built up to it, initially they'll say biiiii***" in a playful way, then it'll finally slip out "b**". It's so subtle.
thats not the meaning behind the questionZzz would you stay if your girlfriend said yoo were a weakass punk b****
Yeah if I deserved it. Maybe I was being a punk.
But it's still low class thing to say. It just depends. I wouldn't even be with a low class girl to begin with though so I think I'd give them more chances. The biggest turn off would be if they were super nice beforehand. But if it fit their personality (like I initially said... if they say it a lot playfully) it would be less of a turn off or deal breaker.
You dont love yaself huh 🥺
I can be honest and say I deserve something especially because good relationships are so hard to find. And I'm assuming that the relationship was at least good beforehand.
I would probably laugh at her too, not get mad or defensive. Even if it were true. I'd probably only clam up and want to get mad or cry if other people had already been calling me that a lot and then she offered no support.
I try not to use hurtful words like that. Like autistic, bitch, whore, etc.
If someone's using hurtful language like that they can't be my partner or friend. But if it is against me specifically, then I would try to be patient.
@ your update. I agree with your values. I'm also saying if the relationship is good, the person is good, then I'll see if I did anything to anger them to the point of using hurtful language. But again, not perfectly acceptable and should be punished.
My husband has called me rat liar before and many names that may or may not suite me. That name is nothing. In the heat of madness, We are all called this at one time or another. I call mine asshole.
Around here that's a fairy serious insult so I might have to leave the house for their sake for a bit if they called me that.
Exactly
Personally I wouldn’t throw away a relationship for something as petty as being called a bitch.
And i’d throw away a relationship for being called that. So it is what it is
Okay… just answering the question you asked..
Yea im not mad at you. I heard you
My fiance and I call each other that playfully all the time. It's become the norm now tbh
Woww
I would not call a partner that. I could care less what I am called, it never seems to bother me. I know exactly who I am and I'm not that, must just be said out of anger. I'm trying to find out why you so mad. Not why you called me a name.
Yeah, I've been called that from my partner & another guy. Tbh doesn't really phase me. I don't care too much, it's just a word. I know they use it out of the heat of the moment. It's an oversaid word anyway
For me its just angy words, I just like it slide. If I let everything my wife say bug me. I wouldn't be married as long as I have
I doubt it. I've never had it happen. I can't quite imagine it.
If someone called me a bi**h I'd laugh my ass off. 🤣😂
So you’d stay with your partner if she said you were a weakass punkass b***?
Well, I know I'm not. The people who know me, know I'm not.
I don't like the word either, but it's only a word, it doesn't bother me. It's a different story if she keeps repeating it every minute. Then it's just annoying.
Its not the fact of what you’re not though. Its the fact that she's disrespectful af
Well, of it's a one time thing or a few times a year, it's no biggie. But if she calls me that all the frickin time, then bye bye.
So I'm a 63uo male. If someone uses the B-word in anger and that person is not generally an angry person, I'd definitely forgive. Being called a B once a year is forgiveable, but not everyday. You decide your own bounds.
Being called a B over sex though probably should be a deal breaker. Your boundaries should always be respected. A word is just a word. It is all a matter of context.
So you’d stay with your partner if she said you were a weakass punkass b***?
My wife doesn't have a problem with the word. I sometimes call her it in a nice tone. She usually returns with calling me a bastard. Then I always agree with her then we kiss each other.
no thats rude and he doesn't respect you.
I agree
Um ya girl im telling you from experience when a guy call you the B word they ain't worth your time !!! Your lover is supposed to see the bestt in you, not make you feel like s*** about yourself.
I agree. My exboyfriend called me that at age 15 and he was the last to call me that lol