No, why would someone ask that lol. Stupid me didn't want to be there after I told her I was interested in her. Yeah, she didn't like me, I was too shy those days. I was so embarrassed to be there.
That was very wrong of him. Didn't you guys have same beliefs?
We were from the same religion, culture and ethnic background. I was to a certain degree religious before I met him. Always wanting to be the perfect woman, daughter, sister, friend, etc. But he wanted more. to the extent I became miserable eventually. I guess it is a form of control. Like what I can wear. I always was modest but he wanted me to wear baggy clothes in neutral colors only. Didn't like me wearing makeup. So less makeup. Didn't like that I smiled and had bubbly personality. He said men will misinterpret that and if they do then it is my fault because I was being slutyish. I was with him for ten years. I had to vutt off my friends. I had to never share my number even in business cards because men can't have my number. I had to pray all the time. And I had to be obedient. It is funny now. But I was 19 when I met him and he was 24 or 25. So it wasn't easy to see that this was just a form of control. Basically I had no fun years in my twenties. It was all gone and I do regret and blame myself for that.
It seems you appreciated him. You were adapting to his nature. If you were able to understand that he wasn't the one for you, you would have more enjoyable life back then.
I was trying be a bad boy so I started smoking 🚬 , now I can't quit it I'm addicted but I want to quit it's not good for me. But I don't smoke even for 2 days I get very uneasy.
And Sad part is I didn't even get the girl.
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13 years old at camp, I pretended that I drink coffee and do yoga. It was my first cup of coffee ever and I hated it. And then I was so anxious that I would be asked to demonstrate some yoga poses.
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I dove off a bridge to impress a girl. The tide had gone out and if I didn't put my arms out in front of me I would have broken my neck.
lolol. Omg.
Spent money on gifts for them and ferrying them around in my car.
I have never done anything stupid to impress anyone
Multiple, can't pick. In fact I can't even bring up recent events. Christ I'm having issues mentally dealing with them right now.
quit my job to get her attention. She was a coworker
😮😮😮
IKR. it is was stupidest decision I made
Hope that you are okay now? with hopefully a better job.
I liked that place.
Why did you become religious?
Lol that was ages ago.. he asked me to.. did she ask you to quit your job?
No, why would someone ask that lol. Stupid me didn't want to be there after I told her I was interested in her. Yeah, she didn't like me, I was too shy those days. I was so embarrassed to be there.
That was very wrong of him. Didn't you guys have same beliefs?
We were from the same religion, culture and ethnic background. I was to a certain degree religious before I met him. Always wanting to be the perfect woman, daughter, sister, friend, etc. But he wanted more. to the extent I became miserable eventually. I guess it is a form of control. Like what I can wear. I always was modest but he wanted me to wear baggy clothes in neutral colors only. Didn't like me wearing makeup. So less makeup. Didn't like that I smiled and had bubbly personality. He said men will misinterpret that and if they do then it is my fault because I was being slutyish. I was with him for ten years. I had to vutt off my friends. I had to never share my number even in business cards because men can't have my number. I had to pray all the time. And I had to be obedient. It is funny now. But I was 19 when I met him and he was 24 or 25. So it wasn't easy to see that this was just a form of control. Basically I had no fun years in my twenties. It was all gone and I do regret and blame myself for that.
It seems you appreciated him. You were adapting to his nature. If you were able to understand that he wasn't the one for you, you would have more enjoyable life back then.
by the way I followed you
Yes, I was blinded by love. I don't hate him or anything now. It is just life you know. We get hurt, learn and move on.
@GoldenCage the ross and wolf
Stared for too long until I think I creeped him out :D
Nothing, honestly.
Never really felt the need to do stupid stuff to impress women.
Flashed my tits to a guy
I was trying be a bad boy so I started smoking 🚬 , now I can't quit it I'm addicted but I want to quit it's not good for me. But I don't smoke even for 2 days I get very uneasy.
And Sad part is I didn't even get the girl.
13 years old at camp, I pretended that I drink coffee and do yoga. It was my first cup of coffee ever and I hated it. And then I was so anxious that I would be asked to demonstrate some yoga poses.
Never bothered to attempt impressing people, or do stupid things.
Spend money on them and shouldn't have
say whaaaat? I dont know a single man that found money a gateway to his heart. Never again! You're better than those types!
Yeah haven't in a long time
Are used to now I actually don’t care and what’s funny is the more girls attracted to me now even though I’m old and uglier now.
Push my morals aside.
I can relate to it.
been there, never again.
There’s no need to try. I just be me hon💕
becoming religious 🤣
Used the stupidest pick up line ever that me and my friend came up with and it worked on my ex
Lol thats pretty luck
I don’t think I’ve ever tried to impress someone.
Tried flexing my "muscles" at my crush when I was in grade school
Killed someone
Me too!!
Same, should be harder to kill people