If someone does something severe enough to xoid your trust and destespected you.. it's almost always too much to get over hard to impossible to trust again and that's a bad relations to be in.,
Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with them. If she cheats or acts like she's not in a relationship with me then she's dumped.
If he gambled all our money away, I'd have to assume that he's going through something major in his life, because there's no way he would ever be that stupid if he wasn't. And what kind of person would I be if I didn't try to help him.
you need to know that if you have no money or savings, you won't be able to survive in the real world. right now you're 19, you probably have your parents supporting you so you can't really understand. Gambling/ financial reasons are actually one of the top causes of divorce.
I knew this one guy in his 50s who divorced his wife of 22 years. his wife ran a hair salon and while he was a construction worker. His wife made a lot of money but she never paid taxes. She left her husband (who made less money) to pay all the taxes. Even though he didn’t like it very much , he stayed married to her in hopes that she will one day change. But after 22 years he realized that she will never change. So he divorced her.
What if two had disagreements especially about sensitive topics or demanding topics, like bedroom stuff especially? What if there's a clash of opinions? He wants this sex act and you don't? Just trying to be realistic here 😐🤔
@pickedcrisps i’m okay with everything. Its stupid to fall out of love with someone only because you two had an argument over something like these things. Love & relationship means so much more than just words or small actions. Have a nice day..
@pickedcrisps god help you then. True love is build on so much more than just sexual stuff because then that would be lust or fake love to get what you want and with a small argument and disagreement you quickly try to find an exit instead of solving the problems and help strength your love.
Understood and god-willing I thank god every day. I tend to prefer being single in this life obviously and wishfully thinking for myself just for fun that maybe just maybe I may find a woman in the next life because I'm all into reincarnation astrology other mumbo jumbo fun. It's cool. Cya lady :) look after yourself too
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I don't think I could stop loving someone just like that. I mean I would break up with them but those feelings take time to go away
I accept them as they are. Hard to imagine anything that would change that. There are things but it’s hard to imagine them doing any of them.
Yes, we have been married for 25 years and have had some bad times. I love my wife more than ever.
Anal sex is a pretty big deal breaker just as much as me not wanting oral (neither her neither me either).
If someone does something severe enough to xoid your trust and destespected you.. it's almost always too much to get over hard to impossible to trust again and that's a bad relations to be in.,
If I was in a relationship and she hit me out of anger yeah no that’s pretty toxic
Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with them. If she cheats or acts like she's not in a relationship with me then she's dumped.
As long as they hug me and give me cuddles, then yup.
Don't care if she blows up a damn nursery, I'll be with her till death if she gives me cuddles. I'm loyal for cuddlesss.
Until she started cheating on me and stealing from me!
I can justify a lot of things, but if he cheated on me, I couldn't be in it anymore.
What if he gambled all the family’s money away
That would be incredibly stupid but I wouldn't stop loving him
you have terribly low standards. i'm sure you'll end up finding someone soon
... I have a boyfriend...
thats not a surprise.
What the hell is that supposed to mean?
If he gambled all our money away, I'd have to assume that he's going through something major in his life, because there's no way he would ever be that stupid if he wasn't. And what kind of person would I be if I didn't try to help him.
Speaking of it, I don't think I would even stop loving him if he cheated, but I would absolutely break up
you need to know that if you have no money or savings, you won't be able to survive in the real world. right now you're 19, you probably have your parents supporting you so you can't really understand. Gambling/ financial reasons are actually one of the top causes of divorce.
I knew this one guy in his 50s who divorced his wife of 22 years. his wife ran a hair salon and while he was a construction worker. His wife made a lot of money but she never paid taxes. She left her husband (who made less money) to pay all the taxes. Even though he didn’t like it very much , he stayed married to her in hopes that she will one day change. But after 22 years he realized that she will never change. So he divorced her.
@shaysh87 No, my parents don't support me. I moved out a year ago, studying physics and university.
at university* xD
A : They could do ANYTHING and I would still love them EXACTLY as they are.
What if two had disagreements especially about sensitive topics or demanding topics, like bedroom stuff especially? What if there's a clash of opinions? He wants this sex act and you don't? Just trying to be realistic here 😐🤔
@pickedcrisps i’m okay with everything. Its stupid to fall out of love with someone only because you two had an argument over something like these things. Love & relationship means so much more than just words or small actions. Have a nice day..
Yeah but trust me I for one don't like some sex acts. They're real deal breakers for me. Lol. Guess that's why I'm single 😐☺️😅😅
@pickedcrisps god help you then. True love is build on so much more than just sexual stuff because then that would be lust or fake love to get what you want and with a small argument and disagreement you quickly try to find an exit instead of solving the problems and help strength your love.
Understood and god-willing I thank god every day. I tend to prefer being single in this life obviously and wishfully thinking for myself just for fun that maybe just maybe I may find a woman in the next life because I'm all into reincarnation astrology other mumbo jumbo fun. It's cool. Cya lady :) look after yourself too
the only person someone should ever "love unconditionally" is their baby...
Of course not. Betrayal, especially repeated betrayal, can kill any positive emotion.
That's bollocks for who ever said yes. We all have conditions on relationships.
No I’m divorcing stbxh after he got another woman pregnant. I was gonna put up with them.
I do love himI don't want to spread my legs tho and pop out shit and spread all way to e to w
Using sex as a bargaining chip or cheating come to mind immediately
There is no such thing as unconditional love among two people that meet. There will always be conditions. You have to meet those conditions
Can't say I can stop loving them , it's just my personality.
Unconditional love doesn’t exist, it’s just a fairytale